FEEDBACKS - PART 16
(February 24 to April 15
2008)
April 15, 2008
"Thanks, what if the
children themselves are old people above 70 years of age when they are
unable to practice or adopt the sentiments in your message."
"It was beautifully
done. I have already lost my love ones, mom grandmother and great
aunt’s, and uncles. Seen and help in most of their burial. I will send
this to many and my two daughter’s. to make them appreciate us
now…thank you,,,,, flower’s while live, love us while we are here.
When we die smile for we live on in you."
"I loved it – I have
a mother who is 85 years old and everything in the slideshow she has
said to me. I have gotten angry with her for wanting not to eat and
wanting to die. This slideshow has helped me a great deal."
"Thank you for
circulating this amazing PowerPoint!"
"I received this at
the perfect time. I too have had my mother-in-law move in with my
family. We have two children ages 14 and 15. She has the beginning's
of dementia and there are many days that I get frustrated with her
behavior. My eyes weld up after reading this because I have felt many
of those feelings and then feel guilty for feeling that way. I am
thankful that we are able to care for her and I am thankful for her,
because without her there would never have been the wonderful man I
love and married in my life. Thank You!"
"I loved this and it
made me cry. I would not want my mom to pass away, but I know one day
she will and it will leave me all alone. I think people all over
should see this and be thankful for having their parents with them
now, for one day they will wish they could just call mom or dad or
both and say hi, I love you. I see my mom every single day and let her
know i am there for her."
"Honestly, an
exceptional clip. I shall change my life. Dr. Pralay Pal"
"I loved this and it
has such a worthwhile message to all of us plus the song is beautiful.
Josh Groban is so talented. Delora Dixon"
"I thought this was
beautiful, but how about a little comparison between senile
incontinence and diaper changing? Margaret, Adelaide"
April 14, 2008
"Thank you for the
work you have done to make 'A Parents' Wish' so beautiful and
so accessible to everyone and your thoughtfulness in wanting to share
this lesson of communication about old age or illness, this lesson
about love between parent and child, this lesson about understanding,
this lesson about gratitude, this lesson about joy. I could go on and
on; I was so deeply touched by the poem, the music, and the images.
they remind me of my parents and their care, and my care of them when
they faced illness and death and reminded of my experience of
motherhood, and now grandmotherhood."
"Thank you. I sent
this to our 2 grown children. In July my husband retires after being a
Pastor for 45 years and we are building a house within 20 minutes of
our children. We are excited to be near them and grandchildren and
know this will be a big adjustment for us. Looking forward to many
more exciting years together. Elsa Siriano, Lewiston, NY"
"Thank you.... It
made me cry out of sentiment.."
"It touched our
hearts greatly and at just the right time in our lives. Thank you for
sharing it!"
"My beloved
Mother-in-law suffered with cancer the last year and a half of her
life, cancer that robbed her of her sharp mind, as well as her
vitality. She, too, wished not to be a burden on her family, as she
became increasingly dependant on us as the disease progressed. How
truly fortunate I felt to be involved with her day to day care, while
hating the obvious downward spiral of her health and her mental
clarity. On that day we knew was coming, and which none of us wanted
to face, when she could no longer speak, or make her wishes known, it
was obvious that she wanted something, but we could not be sure what
it was. Taking a chance, my wife and I laid beside her on the bed, and
as I took this magnificent woman in my arms and bestowed a final kiss,
she rewarded me with a smile, then peacefully left us. That final act
of love and compassion will, in my mind, be my crowning moment. Thank
you so much for this video, and the accompanying music by Mr. Groban.
I will think of Granny everytime I play it. It proves that my time was
well spent. Jay F."
"I cry every time I
see this....It describes beautifully exactly how I feel..... Marilyn
Campbell"
"Most alcoholics and
addicts have severe grief and loss issues. Your Parents Wish
Video would be extremely helpful in our Grief Group that we have
weekly for our clients."
"I just watched your
slideshow. I work in a personal care home and your slide show says it
all so graciously and with such strong meaning. The music is perfect.
Please please put this on CD. I would love to show it to staff and at
our Resident family council meetings."
"I can't tell you how
much this has affected me. I listened several times and cried all the
way through. Both my parents and my husbands have gone on and this
brought back many memories. When we are young sometimes we can get
very impatient with elderly parents and grandparents. If we could only
see, when we are young, that one day we will be there too and need the
patience and understanding of our children to help us through these
very hard times when we can no longer take care of ourselves. I pray
this video and the wonderful music will help many to see and
understand. Fanny"
"Thank you so much. I
sent this to a very dear friend whose Father (we all call him
Granddaddy) is faltering. He is living with her and it is so hard for
her to see him decline. Granddaddy has been in all our lives for many
years. In addition, my mother who is a very smart women has some
senior moments now. We laugh about it. Mom has to take her time when
she tries to get her thoughts out and sometimes repeats herself. I
sent this to her also. It is such a sweet message. I just Boo Hooed.
The music by Josh Groban is perfect and incidentally one of my Moma's
favorite artist. Thank-you. Nancy"
"I absolutely love
this!!! I have worked in Long Term Care for 30 years, and this says it
all about dignity and respect."
"I lost my mother to
Alzheimers. I lived through the things on the video and it brought
back so many memories of the good times as well as the failing years.
She was so active during her good years and did so much for her
family. She was the best cook and baked several times a week. During
the Depression we made do with what little we had, but she always made
sure we had decent clothes that she fashioned out of printed flour
sack material. She planted a garden and we helped and learned how to
can and preserve root produce in a root cellar. We helped raise
chickens and learned how to cut them up and can them since we had no
freezer. She was the original recycler of everything that could be
turned into something useful. This generation could learn from the old
folks that had to be so frugal. Thank you for taking me down memory
lane, and letting me put my feelings into words. I will play this
video over and over. I love the background music, it is so
appropriate."
April 13, 2008
"Thank you. This was
awesome."
"I have just lost my
mother and this Parents' Wish just tore my heart in two. No one
who has not suffered the loss of an elderly parent will get the full
meaning of this. It is so true and could not have been put into better
words. I am sending this to everyone on my e-mail list. I truly cried
when I watched this and told my mother I truly understand now."
"This was the most
inspiring e-mail I have ever received or seen. While watching it, the
tears came rolling down my cheeks. It reminded me of my own mother and
mother-in-law when they had dementia, all they wanted was to be
treated with dignity and love, which we children gave them. I also
cried for myself thinking about parents giving to our children and how
they will react with us someday. Hopefully they will remember the care
and LOVE we showed and felt for them and care and love us back the
same way once we revert to being a child."
"Beautiful!! My
parents aren't at that stage yet, but I work with elderly and their
families. I wish more could see this. Thank you, it really is
beautiful. I sent it to my brothers and sister. Nancy"
April 12, 2008
"I was my 58 year old
Mothers care giver as she was dying. This video and song brought back
so many feelings and emotions. I will send it to my Children in hopes
that they will understand what I might need someday."
"This is beautiful.
The words are so real. Thank you so much."
"I received this
email at the perfect time. My mother suffers from dementia and lately
I've been getting frustrated with her repetitions. What a wake up
call!! Even though in my heart I know how much she's done for me and
how much I owe her, seeing it put forth this way put a new
understanding in my heart and mind. Thank you so much!! I can't wait
to go give her a big hug and kiss! S. Hurst"
"This is such an
excellent video and as I watched it, I thought of my husband who has
memory loss and of my children who will one have the opportunity to
take care of one of us. But as I cried I could see more clearly the
beginning from the end. It has helped me to accept the inevitable.
Perfect with the music that was provided. Thanks for such beautiful
thoughts. Margie"
"My mother died. She
was a beautiful human being. Loved everyone, and lived each day with a
smile. In Dec. 2002 she was set on fire at a hospital in an event
called a surgical fire (few know of the risk), and then died from
another medical error. I spent two years in a hospital with my mother,
bathing her, loving her, feeding her, trying to help her stand,
listening to her, and respecting her wishes. This video touched me so
deeply. Words can’t begin to describe what I felt. I do feel the video
would be appropriate to share with nurses, doctors, and hospital
administrators to remind them everyone gets older, and some get sick,
and many need help as they age."
"Thank you so very
much for sending this to me. It was very touching and did bring tears
to my eyes. I lost my mom a while ago. We never knew she was sick and
I was always by her side. We were more like girl friends. I miss her
very much. Even when your parents are not ill be close to both of them
no matter what and always remember you only get one chance in life
when it comes to having parents. Treat them with dignity and
kindness in sickness or in health."
"I absolutely loved
this video. My Mom suffers from Alzheimer's and it really touched my
heart. Beautifully presented!"
April 11, 2008
"This was beautiful.
My husband and myself have been faced with a separation from mother
because his sister wants it that way. For 53 years he had a wonderful
relationship with her. We are facing a loss before she goes. We will
miss these final years, she is 87 but I do know God is good all the
time and all the time God is good. He knows our hearts. His father is
with the Lord and so are both of my parents. I just absolutely loved
this."
"After three years of
caring for our parents and the passing of them within that time
period, this was the most beautiful tribute to the reason we should
all be aware of. The love they showed us when we were growing is the
same love we need to show them in their aging years. When they want to
leave us to be together again with their loved ones, we need to
understand that need and not be selfish in our wanting them here. Josh
Groban is a wonderful singer and you all put this together in such a
beautiful way. Our hearts are healing from their loss, but now happy
knowing that we did all we could to make their last years happier.
Thank you. T & C Brown, California"
"This is awesome.
Thank you."
"Even before I had my
son, I knew the immense sacrifices my single mother had to make on the
behalf on my sister’s and myself. So many people view their parents
and their grandparents as a nuisance and I don’t even have my
grandparents in my life. My grandfather on my mother’s side passed
away when I was an infant, my grandmother when I was a teenager. My
father’s as a teenager as well. I am 33 years old, and I have many
‘adopted’ elderly friends, that their children and grandchildren
are too busy to visit or help them in any way. They find that their
lives are much too important and have no room for ‘old people’.
I started a business with the primary reason to aid the next
generation in computer technology. I offer consulting for either small
business or residential, keeping my fees low so I can help the next
generation understand our new technology. This is often their only
source of connection to their wireless, international family. I’m
hoping this song is spread not only through-out the country community,
but all over the world to remind people that this generation is the
reason we are where WE are, and they are the ones that often continue
to give US opportunities. That their Wisdom is timeless and
invaluable, and that god’s circle of love begins with each of us being
a link in his never-ending chain."
"Thank you so much
for this video, and it's message! It made tears well up in my eyes! I
am sending this on to some who I know do not have patience with their
elderly parents, and just need to see things from a different, gentler
and teachable perspective. You have done all of us a great service,
young and old alike. God Bless you!"
"SO beautiful. Sent
to my daughters. My husband has Alzheimers so this was so appropriate.
Thank for sending this out for others to enjoy. Leigh"
April 10, 2008
"l think that is so
true in life and the song is perfect it made me cry and anyone who see
this and read it will have a cry as well."
"The song and message
is terrific. A must see for our children and grandkids. Also a must
see for aging friends so that the may send the message on to their
children. Many thanks to whoever put this together. Gary in Oregon"
"OMG that was so
pretty and so true. Both my parents are in heaven now and that was so
sad but good. Thank you so much. All the sayings were so true everyone
needs to be there for the parents when they need them just the way
they were always there for us. God bless. That was so pretty "
"Great Video, My
Mother said to me one day long ago: 'I hope I'm not any trouble to
you kids when I get old and feeble.' Well she died much to young
and when she was to start enjoying herself . GOD took her from us. My
Father died at 99+. He was no problem. He really was able to live by
himself. I wish they where still alive as I have so many Questions to
ask them and now. I will never find my answers. May GOD Bless them
both."
April 9, 2008
"During the past 5
years I have said farewell to my parents, and the last few years of
their lives, especially my mothers were full of pain and suffering and
confusion. My wife and I had the privilege of caring for Mum until the
work load got too much and we were forced to put her into full time
care. I did as much as I could to make my mum comfortable, and now as
I look to what's left of my life, and realize that if it is God's will
I will end up the same way, frail, and confused. I sent this off to my
5 children and their response was amazing, sadness and tears as they
will have to come to terms with the fact that as we, their parents
will be in the same boat that they witness their grandparents. Thank
you for a moving and a wonderful tribute. John McLean Australia"
"Such a wonderful
reminder. Thank you very much. Both my Father and Mother are gone now.
I have tried to return to them what they have given me but in my human
weakness, I know I have not even come close. There are so many things
I wanted to tell them and do for them, but those moments are now gone.
In honor of our Fathers and Mothers, the best thing we can do is to
pass on what they have given us, to our children. Again, Thank You."
"This is so moving...
it made me cry. It is so beautifully put together... and like it says
so many times my mother father grandmothers would tell me stories,
sing to me and rock me to sleep. I loved my mother took care of her
cause she took such good care of me growing up and she gave me life...
and I do so miss her.... so many time I would love to just talk to
her, hear her sweet voice just once again.. so if any of you still
have a mother, father, grandmother and grandfather, make sure you take
good care of them. Marian"
"What a wonderful
testimony to the love we show our children. I work with the mentally
and physically handicapped, so often they are referred to as the 'Throw
away children'. Just like the elderly they require the extra
little things to help them along. Thanks again, my own dear mother and
father have long since gone, and now I am the elder one in the family.
So far, my health is good, but I hope my children and grand children
remember this when it isn't. Marie"
"This is awesome! I
could not stop the tears. My parents have now passed away but the
memories of them will never. It causes one to think seriously about
old age and the way we act towards old people when we’re young. I will
keep this in a special place. God bless you for sharing. The whole
world should have access to this. Jean Bholan"
"Thank you for this
beautiful video, I was fortunate to be able to take care both our
parents and with God's help I did it and I would do it again. It
requires a lot of love and patience but with prayer we can do
anything. Glory to God."
"My Mother is not
doing well at this time. When I read this and listened to the song I
was so touched. I would love to have a copy of this before my Mom is
gone."
"It is so moving and
beautiful and a good message to all our children."
"As an 81 year old
single parent, I wish that I had understood the meaning of the 'cycle
of life' depicted in this beautiful presentation. I also hope that
my children will also understand the same as I become more dependent
upon them and in turn, as they become older and dependent upon their
children. Thank you for the beautiful presentation."
"Every time I watch
this, I fall more and more in love with it. My parents are 87 and 82,
and I would love to get a copy of it for them. As in the video, they
consider the computer a curse."
"This was the most
beautiful and heart rending video I've ever seen. Thank you so much. I
was blessed to have a vibrant and healthy Mom who worked full time in
NYC until she was 83 years old. She then became ill and was diagnosed
with she lung cancer. She had 1/3 of her lung removed and was
determined to return to the job she'd held for a large corporation for
48 years. Unfortunately she never made it back to her cherished
position although they held this position for her for a year. She did,
however, live the last year and a half of her life as elegantly and
vibrantly as she could. Makeup was applied every day along with
hairstyling, earrings, perfume and stylish clothing. A lady till the
end. As she became more vulnerable she gave us all the gift of
allowing us to help her when it was necessary but also just to sit
with her quietly as she watched TV and listen intently to her fears
and her wishes for when she would leave us. Cutting her food, helping
her to bath and dress, holding her hand often and gently, breathing in
the all that this wonderful woman's spirit had to give was definitely
an amazing experience and I feel truly blessed. As I start to show
certain signs of the 'a' word, I'm hoping that my sons and
their wives will really listen and take into their hears the true
message of this touching video. Thank you from the bottom of my
heart."
April 8, 2008
"Through my tears, I
was wishing with all my heart that I had both of my parents back with
me. As my mother was dying of brain cancer and not wanting to have me
fussing over her, I reminded her of all the times when she took care
of me when I was sick and needed her to get me through. Now it was my
turn. I can only hope that as my 'days' approach, my children
will return the favor to me. You couldn't have picked anyone better to
sing the background music than the phenomenal, Josh Groban."
"My wife and I have
done this for two sets of parents, we had little patience with their
frailties, but struggled through it. Now, we are the ones frail and in
need of understanding. I have sent your message to our daughter and
our son, who like us many years ago, think we have frailties and are
impatient with them and us. I hope your message makes them aware of
what lies ahead for them. Thank you so very much and thank you all
those who have viewed this and passed it on. Thank you!"
"In a time of such
fear and unknown for the future, what a reality check for the 'now'.
I hope I will always live by the inspiration and advice in this piece.
Thanks to those responsible for this. P. Hudson"
"Our facility
received this wonderful video through an e-mail and are so impressed
with it. Our facility is a nursing home with a dementia unit, elderly
psych unit, in addition to the general population. This presentation
would be so wonderful to use as a training tool for our staff."
"I am a Mobile Dental
Hygienist in Monterey, California. I clean the teeth of the homebound.
I treat every resident like they are my grandparent. I feel it's
important to look into the eyes of our loved ones, smile, and to also
hold their hands. There is power in touch. Having Alzheimer's is like
being in prison. You're locked in your home, and have very few that
understand what you're trying to say. Someone picks you up and puts
you in a wheelchair. Then someone hands you a plate of food. Then you
sit, and wait, until your day comes. Sometimes the only visitor you
have is the dental hygienist, and that is every three months. The
Alzheimer's patients mean the world to me. They are so happy when I
come to visit. I would do anything to do away with this horrible
disease. The people with this disease are kind and appreciate
everything. Shirley M. Smith, BS, RDH, HAP Monterey, CA"
"It's been 15 years
since my Grandmother passed away after living with me and my family we
still talk about all the blessings that we shared with her and
wouldn't have done anything any different. I am so touched by this and
it brought back such sweet memories. I am now dealing with my parents
getting older and their minds aren't what they was but I wanted to
thank you for reminding me how to cherish each and everyday with them.
Thank you so much for beauty you bring to every ones lives with this.
Candis"
"I just lost my
husband a month ago. This brought me to tears. I'll play it often. Its
so beautiful. Mrs. Elaine Kunz. I'm79 years old and needed some thing
like this to enjoy life a little more. Thanks again."
"My mother suffered
from dementia and passed away in May 2007 at age 81. I wanted to play
this song at her funeral, because she always inspired me, but the
Roman Catholic Church only allows hymns. That is too bad, because this
song would be a touching tribute to any of our passed loved ones.
Thank you so much. It brought many tears to my eyes, but also brought
back wonderful memories of my mother. God Bless you."
"This is beautiful. I
work with the elderly and their caretakers."
April 7, 2008
"My mother is failing
at age 90. I am the principal caregiver other than the loving
professionals that take care of her at the retirement home. I am often
asked by friends 'How do you do it? - it takes so much out of you'.
This CD tells it all! I would be blessed to have a copy to help others
who become caretakers for their loved ones and need lifting up when
they are weary. Thank you SO much!"
"I just watched your
video and it says so much!! The song by Josh Groban has long been a
favovorite. Thank you so much for putting this together. I will send
it on to my 5 daughters and some nieces. God bless you all."
"I work In aged Care.
I think this would be worth having as a training exercise. If it
doesn't hit the hearts of the people training they should not be in
the industry!"
"What perfect timing.
Going through tough times right now. Brings things right back to where
they should be. Thank you !!!!!"
"What a moving and
TRUE message!! My Mom is 91 in the nursing home and I have experienced
much of what is portrayed in this slide show. She is so dear to me and
I always want to make things better or get her to eat more etc.! Often
I need reminding that her desires and needs are not mine and should be
honored even if I do not agree. She sees things in a different light
that no one can fully understand till they walk in the shoes of old
age. I hope anyone that has a parent or grand parent living will watch
this slide show often. DeColores, Scott Jones, Mississippi"
"I remember having to
scold my older sister as she criticized how our mom repeated herself
and forgot things all the time. I would remind her of all the stories
I had heard about her as she was growing up and that someday she might
experience what our mom was going through. Of course she assured me
that she would "never get that bad" and she was raising her kids
differently. Never say never sis......you're there now. You're now our
'mom' and you bring a constant reminder of how much we do miss
her repeating stories and faltering memory. But we'll never criticize
you because we love you just the way you are."
April 6, 2008
"I feel an angel sent
me this (one of my friends). I am taking care of my mother, who is
going to be 93 this year. She has Alzheimer and some day are hard and
some days funny. She can make me laugh. My sister also cares for her.
My sister and mother was very close. But I feel this has been a gift
from God for me. I just feel such love that I get from caring for her,
even if she doesn't know me. Last week she was asking about my father,
and I just said he was with Jesus. She started crying and said she 'just
wanted this over.' Of course then I am crying and telling her no.
After reading some of the letters it helped me. I will send this on to
all my friends. Thank you for this site. God Bless, Donna"
"Thanks and keep up
the good work."
April 5,
2008
"My father will be 89
years old in May. I find myself lately becoming quite critical of his
eating habits and his constant repetition of the same stories. After
watching this video, reading the words and may I add, crying for quite
some time, I will never again remind my father that I have heard the
story before too many times. This video is truly an eye opener even
for the hard-hearted. I’m positive that there are many out there such
as I was who now understand and are quite willing to change our
attitudes. I want to read the poem in Church and sing Josh Grogan’s
song on Father’s day or Father’s day week at church as well. Thanx for
this lovely reminder that we will all (or at least most) be in the
same position. someday. The lesson will remain the same! It is
timeless! Thanx again. Terry Stiles, Ontario, Canada "
"Thank you so much
for the inspiration, I wish every one would read it. Bless you all."
"I absolutely loved
the email I received from a friend and would love to have the CD to
show the carers that I am in contact with."
"I have always loved
that song but with the words it takes on a whole new meaning.
Inspirational to all who watch. Thank you so much. Helen from
Australia."
"I want to tell you
how beautiful it was as that is the way I have always lived my life. I
am 29 now and cared for all 4 of my grandparents and my parents until
they died 4 of them recently. It was really nice to have my way of
life put into such beautiful words. I would hope that I can pass that
on to my kids. Thanks Again."
April 4,
2008
"It is fabulous. Just
lost my Dad after caring for him for four years. What a tribute to
him. Thank you!!"
"Please don't ever
take this off the web, everyone who goes through life needs to see
it."
"This is one of the
most awesome e-mails I have ever received. I lost both of my parents
fairly recently, and this sure did bring a tear, or should I say many
tears to my eyes. I'm so glad I spent as much time with them as I
could. I am sending this on to as many people that I can, my children
included. Thank-you. This one is put in my 'Keep me Folder' and
I will be listening to it again."
"My mother sent this
to me on a particularly hard day for me (unbeknownst to her). My
mother is ill but has so far maintained quite well. I’ve recently
discovered that I’m not as emotionally as strong as I thought I was
and hope that she hasn’t noticed. I’m trying to be strong for her and
for myself. This video came at a time when I was feeling most weak and
vulnerable about life’s future and it’s kind words brought tears to my
eyes. Now all we need is to make a Child’s Wish for our parents."
"I work at a nursing
home and see how hard it is for the families and residents to adjust
to the new living situation. It is so hard on the residents with
dementia that do not understand why they are at our facility and the
residents who do not even recognize their family. It is also very hard
on the children to have to place their parent in a nursing home. We
have a 'Meet my parent' at our facility a few times a
year. At this presentation a child will tell all about their parent.
What they were like and how they came to be with us at our facility.
It is so neat to hear how a resident used to be and see how you may be
able to bring up those parts from the past to relate with them. I wish
society would view the elderly as more of a blessing than a burden.
Thank you for the video."
"Excellent in very
touching video slideshow."
April 3,
2008
"This was beautifully
eye-opening. Starting TODAY, instead of interrupting and trying to
interrupt what my mom mother is saying to me, I will simply listen and
smile at her with the same eyes of love that she has given me my
entire life. Thanks."
"Well that was
lovely, so lovely in fact that I am in tears, make-up ruined and now
totally wrecked for the next couple of hours!!!! I'd love to keep a
copy for when I get irritated by elderly people. This is so very
true!! Thank you."
"My agency works with
seniors and Nursing Homes in the Central Missouri Area. They found the
video very moving. Thanks for sharing."
"That is absolutely
Beautiful."
"I just want to say
that this was so sweet to have read. I just lost my mother and I have
been thought all that had been said in that video. My mother used that
song when her mother passed away and it means a lot to my family. And
to have that song playing with those words. It really did go great
together. I hope that you do more videos."
"I enjoyed
Parents' Wish. I am now 82 and just pray my family will be as
willing to take care of me as I was my parents. I worked Swing shifts
and although there were 6 more siblings, I was the one that did most
of the care taking. I didn't resent it as they weren't off work the
hours my parents needed to go places like the doctor or grocery
shopping. They all did what they could and I think my parents knew
they were loved very much. The Lord has blessed me and my Children and
grandchildren and In Laws all help me when I need help."
"I would like to
express my feelings in regards to PARENTS' WISH. My mother and
I watched it together and it had us both in tears especially since we
lost my grandpa and grandma two years ago. Now all that's left is mom,
me and my 11 year old son. I have a heart condition, a pacemaker with
defibulator and congestive heart failure. The doctor says I have 10
years and I was 40 when he told me that. I'm 42 now my mother is
a cancer survivor we live next to each other I think its because we
are scared. So thank you for the cleansing for today. GOD BLESS
YOU!!!!
"I found some of the
things touched upon to be moving and important. I think anything of
value can stand alone, however, without using comparisons that carry
an inherent sense of guilt and duty. I feel that making mention of the
things the parents did for the kid growing up, betrays the nature of
parenting and, in fact, the nature of family. V. Bergem"
"This is such a
wonderful video. It breaks my heart, because I know every word written
throughout it is true. The end is inevitable for all of us and the
thought of losing a loved one is never easy. I’ve recently lost both
of my in-laws and my grandmother. My father-in-law spent his last year
of his life in a nursing home which was a difficult decision. There
were many days when I would visit that I would feel like he didn’t
know just how much he meant to me, hopefully he did. The message from
the video reminds everyone to not be impatient with those we love, for
they have given their patience to us many a day. God bless our parents
for caring so deeply!"
"I have watched this
several times and am still moved. Thank you so much! I know about the
eating problem. When my mother-in-law, who had cancer, did not feel
like eating (or only ate a small amount), I had to remind my husband
to not get upset with her. She would go to her room and eat nothing. I
was the 'peace maker' and had to go to her to 'smooth her
feathers' and try to encourage her and tell her he was just
concerned."
"All I can say is
BEAUTIFUL and oh so sadly TRUE! God Bless our Elderly they are at
times just 'reborn' children. Charlie Van Dien, Saint James,
Missouri"
April 2,
2008
"I'm a DON (Matron)
in a Nursing Home and this would be brilliant for staff and families
alike. Thank You"
"Special thanks for
the Parents' Wish email clip sent to me by a friend. This is a
creative, beautiful and heart moving piece of reality in our life - we
all grow old. Some grow old peacefully and some fight it to the very
end, just may be it depends where they are in their life journey. In
these fast moving times we all need to stop, look and listen to our
elderly who have wisdom and survival skills that appear to be looked
upon with ridicule, because they don't appear to fit into a certain
expected criteria. I had tears rolling down my cheek as I think of my
parents approaching this stage. Jane."
"My mother had
Alzheimer’s and your movie brought tears to my eyes."
"It is beautiful!"
"So very necessary to
everyone, young and old. It’s honest, heart warming, and so true!!!
Thanks for knowing who to send this to. Love, A MOM."
April 1,
2008
"Excellent, brought
tears to my eyes as I thought about my Mum and Dad who are elderly and
not well. It made me think of my grandchildren and how much I love
them. A few moments in a busy day to reflect, Thank you Cathy"
"Such a beautiful
reminder!!! Just arrived back in Saskatoon from visiting my aging
parents who are having a few problems. This email was waiting for me -
a reminder that we all will be 'there' at one time - if we are
lucky!"
"My thanks for
reminding me of how I must be patient and respectful with all those I
love; whether family, friends, or just someone we know. My father
lived to be 90 years of age, and he often said to me 'once a man,
twice a baby', which has brought about more meaning to me as I
age. Whenever I do or say something that I think my family would think
childish, I remember my father's statement. I will be forwarding this
to family and friends. I also plan to type a copy of the poem to place
in a church bulletin. THANKS, THANKS, THANKS. Joy from Wisconsin"
"I watched this over
and over again. After just driving 1500 miles with two kids and my
boyfriend to visit my parents for a week in Florida, this really hit
home. My dad isn't doing too well with his chemotherapy and needs a
defibulator in his heart. My mom has had on-going health problems for
years. This video brought the inevitable to the forefront- one that I
can't bear to even think about. I have already committed to taking
care of my parents when/if they ever need me. It's not that I owe it
to them, it's because I want to do it, as they wanted to, and still
want to, take care of their little girl- me! The tears that I shed
during the viewings of this video (that my parents sent to me) just
reinforced how much I love them and will be there for them as they
have always been there for me. Thank you........."
"I work in a nursing
home and felt it would be beneficial to use for inservices
periodically."
"I was so moved by
the video that I cried. I volunteer once a month at a retirement
center with the elderly. I like to share some of my e-mails that I
receive. Thank you so much for sharing and who wrote this. The video
is just beautiful."
"Beautiful! I'm
sending it to my children and adult grandchild. I hope they let the
message fill them with patience. Thank you so much."
"Today, my sis from
Florida sent me the URL for the very beautiful presentation. It is so
amazing how things fall into place, how things come to you when you
need them the most and how total strangers end up holding your hand.
Only yesterday, I completed a seminar/workshop on Angel Communication
and Therapy. Last week my mum was diagnosed with Blood Cancer. And I
had decided that no matter what, I will not get upset or angry or
irritable with her at all. And this morning I opened your incredible
clip that brought tears to my eyes and made me re-realize so many
things. My heartfelt thanks to you and all my angels who make life a
pleasure even in the dreariest of moments"
March 31,
2008
"Just two words:
Thank you."
"So very moving.
Thank you for this."
March 30,
2008
"Thank you so very
much for such a heart and eye opener. My Dad died 4 years ago with
Alzheimer and my Mom is 84 and her health is failing fast. It made me
realize how important it is to make the best of the time I have left
with my Mom. I think we are so selfish with our own life and we forget
the time we need to share with our love ones that are getting old. I
just can't say in words how much the song and the words meant to me
THANK YOU SO VERY MUCH. May God Bless you and touch you in a way only
you will know. Hugs, Brenda"
"I am 85 years old
and so this prayer reaches right to my heart. I will send it on to all
my peers. I was care giver to my mother and husband and fight for my
own right to stay in my home as long as I can. Independance at our age
is so important and so much easier with our children's understanding
and consideration."
"This was one of the
most beautiful and heartfelt videos I have ever seen. I am a
registered Nurse working in Long Term Care. I would like all my staff
to view this video. It is a gentle heartfelt reminder to care both
physically and emotionally for our older clients and how important it
is to allow them to be independent and treated with great respect and
caring. As my parents age I see the once former vibrant individuals
slipping away and it breaks my heart, however they still are my
parents whom I love and respect daily. This video brought untold
tears, a sense of loss but at the same time made me smile as I
remembered their assistance in my growth and development. I am only
too proud and willing to be there for them. Thank you for a wonderful
and meaningful few moments in my life today. I will replay this often
and if I am frustrated with work this will bring back to the fore
front of why I love gerintology. Brenda ( in Canada)"
March 29,
2008
"Awesome!! Thank you.
Joyce"
"What a touching and
beautiful piece! Many times when my children gave me an especially
challenging time in my life, I would joke, 'Please remember this
when I am old and grey and in a nursing home.' My mother sent this
to me, I need to tell her thank you. I am now anxious to show it to my
children as well as the Life Span Development class which I teach.
Just today I discussed dying with dignity in class. While I see active
euthanasia as wrong, I have known people who were suffering and wanted
to die a natural death rather than be kept alive by extraneous means.
This piece was not about dying though, it was about living, loving,
caring and respect."
"Lovely!! TY. Reed
Powers- TV Senior report."
"I thought it was
very beautiful and heart warming toward myself because I'm a single
parent and thinking back when my children were small this is how it
was like and myself when I was just a small child with my
grandparents. Praise GOD. GOD bless. Love in Christ. Steven:
"I just had an
unpleasant conversation with my dad last night because he was being
very stubborn. This morning I viewed your email. I just cried."
"Wonderful! Thank
your for taking time to have this slideshow available for public
viewing especially for us here in the Philippines. I pray that many
children will come to realize the value of loving and taking care of
their parents. The message is true and real. It touches my heart. God
bless.(MLS)"
March 28,
2008
"This was absolutely
beautiful in every meaning of life especially with the vocals of Josh,
that can get your heart open and arouse your feelings. This is the
true meaning of life in a song that I hope will stay with you forever
and ever as with myself. God Bless Everyone."
"What a wonderful,
beautiful message to parents and children. I think this is a must see
for every child who has become the 'parent' to aging parents,
and to share with parents so children can show them they understand
what they are going through."
"Thanks, I needed to
be reminded how special my parents are, that they are to be honored,
not forgotten!"
"I love the
message and while reading the message I really felt the message in it.
Thank you for Larry he had sent me this and thanks for keeping us
reminded."
"I want to tell you
that I am grateful to you for the Mother's Wish. My mom and I never
got along and she wasn't warm toward me at all. I gave her a copy of
your Mother's Wish and it hit her hard. We are now close and are
talking and she is more wonderful that I could have ever imagined.
Thank you for bringing a mother and daughter together. Linda."
"Cried my eyes out
but it made me feel better about letting go of my mother. I will
forward it to the care homes and administrators that I have been
struggling with since my mother has suffered neglect and abuse in
their care. She was a nurse and suffers from vascular dementia,
bladder and bowel incontinence, arthritis, diabetes and a heart
condition. I hope this will wake them up from the desensitized robots
many have become and has an impact to get them to be more
compassionate about how they treat the seniors in their care. Love
back to you for such a beautiful and healing message. It's sooo hard
to let go.... such is life... Marion Ziolkoski."
"Absolutely
beautiful. I am dealing with an aging mother and it really helped me
to be more patient and understand what she is going through in life
and that she loves me no matter what. I will definitely forward this
to my friends. Thanks."
March 27,
2008
"Absolutely
beautiful!!!"
"I just want to say
that there are just no words to describe how I feel when I view this
email-it is so heartbreaking but yet uplifting to me. I have both of
my parents (thank you God) but the day will come that I lose them (I
can not imagine) but this presentation will help me to let them go.
You have helped me to know how it feels to be tired and ready to go
home to be with God and I thank you. I would love to thank the many
people that worked to put this together-it is awesome.. You have done
a wonderful job.. AGAIN-THANK YOU. Sue Snyder"
"I've always loved
that song and hearing it and reading those words were beautiful. I
lost my father 2 years ago and my mom will be 80 this year. She always
thinks she causes us trouble or bothers us and I learned a long time
ago that she doesn't and I tell her so. The only thing that gets me
through my father's death is knowing that I did everything for him
that I could and always told him that I loved him, as I tell my mom
every day and my children. Thanks again for a beautiful email."
March 26,
2008
"My mother-in-law
recently entered a skilled nursing facility due to the progression of
Alzheimer's..........this really hit home. I don't know that I have
ever been as moved by anything........thank you and know that you have
truly touched many lives in a profound manner!"
"We will be holding
appreciation dinners for the volunteers who drive, visit and telephone
seniors. I think this would be very touching for them to see and
hear."
"I defy anyone to be
able to watch that without weeping. My darling Dad has Parkinsons and
sending us the Parents' Wish is his way of telling us how he is
feeling. I love my dad very, very much, more so for having the courage
to deal with his disease and live a full life in spite of it. Thank
you."
"When this video was
e-mailed to me, I had just lost my Mom to a long battle of Alzheimers.
It broke my heart to look back over the last six years and see that
Mom went through all these stages. I often wondered what she was
thinking and prayed that I would give the correct answers to questions
I did not understand, if she was hungry, in pain or what she could
understand. I wish I could have viewed this video at the beginning of
Mom's disease. It made me realize how precious life is and to cherish
our moments. I look back and remember with joy all the times I spent
with Mother just spending time and enjoying the beautiful flowers even
though I made have felt I had other things to do. Thank God I did take
the time and know I have those memories. Thank you again and God bless
your ministry. G. Rice"
"My Mom suffered from
Alzheimers for several years--this touched my heart so much."
"Thanks for
considering us slow pokes on dial up. Very few do. I am typing this by
touch type as my eyes are still watered up from the tears! I LOVED
'You Raise Me Up' when I first heard it sung by Michael Burgess
(at a live benefit performance). Then I discovered Josh's version was
in commercial release and was overjoyed. Couple that with the
images...."
"I want to thank the
person who sent this to me. I am a servant of God and this song
inspires me to send the message of hope to others. This song touches
your heart in what God is saying to us to make us strong in times when
dealing with, problems that is to hard for us to carry alone. It
reminds us if we just lean on Him we will be stronger, he is there for
us. I say to God be the glory, He is to be glorified at all times.
Thank you for this song, I do send this to others. God bless you."
March 25,
2008
"Thank you so much, I
really enjoyed this presentation and although I am a grandmother now,
I thought back on my parents and my grandparents and made me
understand some things even move. I thank you for this."
"I haven't lost a
parent, but, I did lose my Grandma. She meant the world to me. She was
everything, most of all she was my best friend. When she died a part
of me died with her, and I kind of understand what they are saying,
for my Grandma, was my mothers best friend too. After viewing this
video it really made me think that I really don't want to live with
regrets and that I should really cherish every moment that I have with
my mother, and I want to thank you for bringing this to my attention,
we should already cherish our time with them, and need not be reminded
to do so."
"So very touching. It
actually brought tears to my eyes. My mother turns 85 this July 1,
2008...so many times she will apologize for 'What she thinks'
putting me to so much trouble doing things for her. I love her dearly,
and I can see she is getting weaker as each year passes. Thanks for
sharing a beautiful video...touching my heart and soul. I did forward
to my children and hope one day they will feel and understand the
same."
"I am so happy
someone saw, heard and took an initiative to put this to words that
everyone young and old can understand how we always may need help as
we travel through this life. I saw this with my parents and have
wished so many times I had been more aware of what they may have
needed great or small or if even at all, ask them in their more senior
years do not just assume you know better for them. Thank you for this
most wonderful writing to help us be more thoughtful and to remember
some day in our larger numbered years what we my want our younger
family and friends to remember. Thank you in advance for your Helping
Hand."
"ABSOLUTELY
BEAUTIFUL!! It's an honor to watch this. Thank you."
March 24,
2008
"My beloved Father
passed away on 2/28/08 and I am so sad without him. I pray that I did
for him all that was asked in the movie. I love my Father and I miss
him terribly. I struggle with the questions I have now that will never
be answered. I pray to God that he gives me peace at this difficult
time. That song 'You Raise Me Up' is also on the Celtic Woman
CD that I found among Pop's things - I listen to it in my car and it
makes me think of him and cry. I trust that this pain will lessen and
some day I will be able to think of my Father and smile, not just cry.
But right now I am consumed with grief. Maureen E. Gilchrist"
"It started out
beautiful, and by the end I could hardly see the writing through the
tears. This is beautifully scripted, to beautiful music and if
everyone took a little time for each other, we'd live in a much
happier and peaceful world! Thank you for creating this masterpiece!"
"I would like to
receive your emails as often as I can receive them. I have tried
through MSN my home page but unable to do so. This is a wonderful
website recommended by a friend."
"This is lovely and
thought provoking."
"I am an RN on an
extended care and hospice unit of the VA, and I would love to have all
staff, students and families view this. Thank you so much."
"Excellent as a
teaching tool in healthcare."
"This is so nice.
Took many Times to see It after Tissue breaks. I'm taking all the Old
slides that Dad took over the 60 Years of Our lives. Putting them on
the Computer. Makes You think, Dad and Mom were Younger then. Now I'm
older than them in the Pictures. Thanks for the Memories. J.F.Lundeen"
March 23,
2008
"I can relate to this
presentation."
"This would be great
at my nursing home."
"This was simply
beautiful. Thanks for sharing it with the world – I hope."
March 22,
2008
"Beautiful, What more
can I say, I sent to my children and hope they will heed the words as
my time draws nearer, Thank you, Marie"
"I tried to watch
this video three times before I was able to get through the whole
thing. I lost my dad only two months ago so I am still raw inside. He
was sick for several years, but the final few months were the worst.
Everything in this video is so true. My parents taught my two
brothers, two sisters and me pretty much everything here. I so wish
dad was still around so I could listen to his stories and watch his
eyes light up when he sees his grandchildren. I will try extra hard to
remember these wonderful thoughts with my mother. Fortunately, she is
not ill but she is very fragile right now, as we all are. Thank you
for putting things back in perspective. Sometimes we forget how the
circle comes all the way around. Of course, I cried throughout the
whole video. The song has extra special meaning because when we
surprised my parents with a 50th wedding anniversary party, we
dedicated that song to my parents along with a wonderful photo slide
show of their last 50 years together. To this day, my mother still
cannot listen to the song, even though it's been 2 1/2 years since
then. Family is so very precious and I thank God every day for the one
I have. Thanks mom and dad, for teaching us how to treat each other
and respect each other and love each other. I would like to believe
that your Parents' Wish has already come true, to a certain
extent and will continue. Again, thank you so much for sharing this
caring, thought-provoking work of love. Patti"
"I so enjoyed this
video. It brought tears to my eyes and brought back wonderful
memories. Although I lost my father in Nov, 2006 and my Mother in May,
1988. My father had dementia, to some degree, but died of
complications of a different manner. But I am knocking on the Golden
Years myself, and I sent this to my children and some family and
friends in hopes it will let them know of how this made me feel
and how I feel about them. I would love to know when this is put on a
video . Thank You so much for sharing. K.R. in Las Vegas, Nevada."
"As a Social Worker
with Hospice of Palm Beach County, I see the struggle daily between
caregivers and elder parents. This slideshow was truly beautiful, and
really accurate. I was very touched by the messages that were
portrayed. We need to listen to our older generation, and learn from
their experiences, but most importantly, maintain their dignity in the
final stages of their lives."
"This was very
moving. My parents are 80 and 82 and still living in the home they
built in 1950 and my sister and I grew up in. This presentation made
me think of the last time I visited my parents and I wasn't quite as
patient over some minor things with my dad as I could have been. This
will help keep things in more perspective."
"Wonderful! This was
forwarded to me by a young man (now a grandfather himself) whom I used
to baby-sit! I am 81 years old, mother of ten, grandmas of 17, and the
greats now number 30+. All 10 children survive even though nine are
veterans of the military! I have been so blessed and only wish I had
seen this before my own beloved mother died at 89 after rearing me
alone – as a widow! Thank you more than words can say!"
"Oh Wow! This is so
true I just lost My Mom, Best friend and Mentor on March 3, 2008. I
found myself in this situation. I thank you for this video it is a
true Blessing, I would watch it when I needed a reminder which was
everyday. I am so thankful I was able to care for her. I could tell
she was really getting weak and so tired of being sick, I sat down and
told her she was the best Mom I could have ask for and I thank GOD for
the 46 years He loaned her to me she is back in her Heavenly mansion
and I will see her someday . I LOVE YOU MOM your daughter Donna
3-22-08 miss you so much!"
"Thank you so much
for a beautiful 'wake up call'. The young cannot picture
themselves as old. If it can change just 1 young persons opinion about
the elderly maybe respect will follow. What an experience this was.
Will Josh ever make a Gospel album? Barbara Hasty, 71 Blountstown, FL"
"This was such a
touching video, It truly made me remember how much our parents did for
us while growing up and still do now that we are adults, married and
have children of our own. Our parents have helped us grow up to be
wonderful people and parents by teaching us all their wisdom and
knowledge, and that we may continue teach others. I work in a nursing
home and see so much love and happiness in the residents eyes when
family/ friends come to see them, even for a short time. They may not
always remember us but the joy of talking to someone who will listen
to their stories or read to them is tremendous. I will pass this on to
my sister and brother. Thank you for creating this video and reminding
me of why I am so successful in life! THANK YOU MOM AND DAD. Tina
Lopez, Medford, Oregon"
March 21,
2008
"This is so great."
"So many do not take
the time in this day and age to UNDERSTAND and have compassion. I wish
everyone had to read and hopefully would also be able relate to your
selection. Thank you for sharing."
"I wept when I read
this message because it brought back such painful memories of my
mothers death. What a caring and loving mother she had been before the
cruel illness of her mind robbed her of her dignity. She had been a
wonderful mother who had worked hard and made many sacrifices in her
life to give her family what she had never had. I have loving
family who suffered because I neglected them whilst I focused on my
mother's needs but thankfully I now know they understood that I was
hurting too and I can only admire them for that. I have sent this
message to them because one day they will need to know that we all
need 'extra' love at sometime in our lives. Be it young or old
and that you're never too old to hurt. I tell them a mothers love
gives you something that shapes you and makes you the person you are
today and I hope for many years to come I can continue giving them my
unconditional love! I want to thank all involved in this message. It
has made me see that other people have also suffered and are still
suffering . Believe me 'guilt' can only be destructive. But
doesn't have to win! Just carry on loving your loved ones and
give them the respect they deserve. This message made me realize
I am not alone. A broken hearted daughter of six years!"
"We enjoyed the
website parentswish.com."
March 20,
2008
"This message has
been in my in box for 14 days now. I just played the video today and
cried. This past Wednesday I visited my father in the Nursing Home, he
has dementia, and for the first time the visit turned out all wrong. I
brought out the worst in him and the entire visit was very hard. There
were things said that weren't meant by both of us. I left in tears.
Even though my husband and I had tried to have my father here in our
home, he was only able to stay about 3 years before he turned so angry
with us. I do know kindness and patience is what it takes, but
Wednesday was not a good day for me and it showed. After seeing this
video it will make me realize that the hour and half that I am with my
father I will need to take anything that comes along. Those moments
will be precious to me always. Sundays when I take him out to eat and
bring him home with me to sit on the front porch will be much easier
now. He has been in the nursing home since August 2007 and declining
lately. The smiles and laughs will be much sweeter after reading this.
GEORGIA IN GEORGIA"
"I was grateful to
read some other negative responses, like mine. I come from a
physically, emotionally, and sexually abusive family--and one of my
parents forwarded this video to me. The slideshow will get a variety
of reactions depending on the context that each of us lives within. To
have this forwarded to me by one of my perpetrators was, needless to
say, a disturbing experience. At the same time, I do agree completely
with the sentiment behind the making of the video. I deeply treasure a
connection to older generations. Many of them deserve our tremendous
respect and nurture. I just prefer to have the freedom to interact
with and care for those persons of my own choosing from those
generations--the ones who did not make my life miserable for so many
years until I found the courage and safety to encounter these issues
in therapy."
"I thank my special
friend APRIL for sending this to me. It is the best thing I have
received in years and I have sent it on to my 2 grown children. I hope
they remember this when I am REALLY OLD."
"Thank you for your
beautiful Josh Groban music/Parent video."
"Unfortunately, my
parents have passed on to be with the Lord. Fortunately, they both
taught us (myself, a brother and a sister) the principles contained in
this heartfelt message. They taught by word and by deed in the way
they treated their own mothers as both of their fathers were not 'around'
when we came into this world. The music, song and words, reach deep
into my heart and my love and appreciation for my parents grew with
the affirmation of the wisdom they shared before leaving. My wife and
I pray that we have also passed this wisdom to our children. Thank
you. Mike Vinson, Tennessee"
"I’m 62 and care
giver for my 92 year old mom. This is one of the hardest things I’ve
ever done. I’m angry most of the time, but I usually get myself
together. I know that God never takes us down paths without his
control. Thanks for the wonderful video. It was emotional, but
enlightening. Thanks again."
"This was a very
moving and very touching presentation. Thank you for putting this all
in perspective."
"This is an excellent
video. I live in a retirement community and many are suffering from
early stages of dementia, halyards (spelling??). The man across the
street had to go to a nursing facility and there are parents of our
residents and the owners in our association with this growing
problem."
March 19,
2008
"I'm living with
disabling illness and I'm 52 years old. I pray my children will see
this and take it in. It brought tears to my eyes and my heart. My
parents have been gone for 20 years. I wish I had them to care for."
"This presentation is
absolutely beautiful. Thank you so much for what you have put
together. I am in my golden years and I intend to send this connection
to a few others that will love it as well.""
"This is by far one
of the most beautiful things I have seen in a long time, and Josh
Groban is one of my very favorites. I am 70 years old and have no
children, but I have sent it to several of my friends who do. I pray
that they will share it with theirs."
"We very much enjoyed
this montage."
"I have had the
privilege of viewing this slideshow in the past but truly enjoyed
seeing it again when it was sent to me in an email today. As a
caregiver for my in-laws I know we have good days and bad days. At
times, patience is a struggle. My only out is an occasional movie but
my mind continually thinks about the current happenings around my own
home. So, it occurred to me that this is something I would enjoy and
wish I could see in a movie theater while waiting for the movie to
start. Can you imagine sitting in a theater viewing something as
positive and thought provoking as this? It sends a message for every
age. It would be a peaceful prayer for those that need it. Just a
suggestion. God bless you for the work you have put into making this
available to the public. Regards, Teressa Passons"
March 18,
2008
"This is one of the
best videos i have ever seen. It touched me oh in my heart. Thank you
if you ever get it on DVD please email me. I would love to pass a
bunch of copies to some of the siblings who don't know what they have
in my parents (just lost my dad)."
"Thank you for this
beautiful slideshow! NOTHING in life matters more then my kids and
maybe someday they can care for me the way I care for them, If not I
will forgive and hope that the nearest nursing home will care a
little."
"Love the video! Thx
to all who had a hand in it."
"Well first of all
that brings tears to my eyes. My mother is dying. She is on hospices
right now in my home. I have taken care of her for 5 years now. She
has Alzheimers. It's been a long hard road and this song says it all.
I miss my mom, thanks for this wake up. Love to have this CD."
"Thank you so much
for your presentation. I had a mother who suffered 8 long years with
Alzheimers so I can relate very well. I forwarded this on to both my
pastors to use in their work. Thanks again. D. Dunvn, Illinois"
"Beautiful, and
accurate."
"I, as an older
parent, appreciated this video immensely. I hope it brings families
closer to each other."
"This is such a
lovely program."
"I am caregiver for
my ex-in-laws. I am 64 years old and they are the only parents that I
have left even though the divorce decree said that they aren't. They
had two choices, either let me care for them or sell their home, not
worth much, and go to a state facility for the aged. It almost killed
them when they had to be there for a short time when they need therapy
and I know they would die quickly if they had to go back. They have
both told me they would rather die. So now to 'a parents wish',
response. I have been at the point of being angry because I have to
clean 'another dirty diaper' and can't understand why my ex
mother is embarrassed to have me help her. I do get upset when they
don't want to eat. I do get teed off when I have to clean the bathroom
floor three times or more a day because she didn't quite make it to
the toilet. I don't stop to think why she couldn't or why she walks
around for several minutes before she finally remembers what she was
doing. Parents' Wish showed me how cruel I am to be angry or
upset or anything but caring with them. I lost both my parents several
years ago and I pray that I didn't do this to either of them. Thank
you for showing me that I need to be a little, no I should say a lot
more understanding. Thank you for this wonderful Easter gift of love.
Thomas Wells"
"My sister has just
sent this beautiful piece to me, and I thank-you and her for it. I am;
as are my siblings, extremely thankful that we do not have to be
reminded of the things you have put in your heartfelt presentation. We
are blessed each day with the knowledge that we have spared no love,
patience, time, or the essence of nurturing on my frail and aging
parents. We thank God each day that we have them, (one) more day...to
express to them our sincere gratitude for their sacrifices to us.
We've left no thoughts of unsaid, no opportunities untaken. This
painful, wonderful journey, that we all must take... Thank-you again."
"Beautiful - my
sister in law sent me Josh Groban's music You Raise Me Up.
Almost lost it, but had to stop and remind myself that wherever my
parents are going, I am helping them prepare, in their journey. I will
keep this in mind forever as a reminder to be patient, compassionate
and kinder as the years go on and pass this legacy on to my children,
in the hopes that they too live long enough to help me with my eternal
journey toward our heavenly Father. I will pray to God that you can
get this message out there so everyone can remind themselves of the
true meaning of why Jesus Christ died for our sins...so that we can be
forgiven. If we can be forgiven, so can our parents...and anyone else
who raised us. Happy Easter. You have blessed us all with your
message."
"A friend sent it to
me because I am caring for my 96 year old Mother who is really
GREAT!!! but this is EXCELLENT! maybe I should send it to my three
sons. I have been saying to myself for a long time (I am 70) that
Mother is now the little girl that I never had! Marianne Baillos"
"This is the best I
have seen that defines our feeling. I am 88, the mother of 8, the
grandmother of 22, and the great and great-great grandmother of many
others. Yet, sometimes I know loneliness, which, I think, Mother
Theresa said was the greatest problem. We want attention and
companionship given lovingly and willingly without a sense of
obligation. My father used to say that if you cared for your children
when they were small, they would care for you when you were old. I do
not think this generation has learned that concept as well as they
should. Thanks for a beautiful illustration, which I will mail to all
of them. Sincerely, A Cajun Mom"
"As a child I have
been fortunate to be loved and nurtured. As a parent with growing
children I have tried to love and nurture. As a parent with grown
children I hope I am loved and nurtured in return. Thank you for the
most beautiful email I have ever received, I do intend to share with
family, friends and colleagues. Lorreen Greeuw"
"I would like to
Thank You for reapplying this back to your site. This is the first
time I have ever seen this and with seeing it I cry. Not only does it
make me think of my parents, but also my Grandmother who is fighting
Alzheimers. This makes me miss her so much more, but helps me to
understand that she is not alone and she does now what she is saying.
I miss her and I now that she misses me. Tonya, Clyde NY"
March 17,
2008
"This is the most
fantastic thing I have seen and heard."
"I thoroughly got a
blessing from this video and have sent it to all my friends who have
aging parents. We tend to treat them like we're the parents and they
are our children. I've been through this with my aunt and I tried most
of the time to let her keep her dignity. I know I didn't always do it
right and I probably hurt her not meaning to, but I try to live by
God's Golden Rule, to treat each individual like I would like to be
treated. Thanks again and God bless you all. Luella Presley - Forsyth,
GA"
"Parent’s Wish is so
awesome. I sent it to my children and all my friends. My Mother is in
a nursing home and she loves to see me everyday. Somedays I get
frustrated, but after reading this I couldn’t help but cry. Thanks,
S.T. in N.C."
"I was deeply touched
by your presentation. My brothers, sister and I are caring for my
aging parents and my law practice focuses on the needs of the elderly,
so I thought it was right on point."
"THANK YOU for this
wonderful reminder. My husband and I have my 91 year old Dad living
with us now for a year and thank God every morning for his bright and
cheery 'Good Morning'. He loves the Lord more than anything and
is such a wonderful blessing in our home. This slideshow puts the
whole parenting role into prospective. I will watch it over and over
and share it with others. God bless you. Pat, San Miguel, CA."
"This is a beautiful
story."
"Thank you for a
beautiful message and song."
"The Video was very
touching and emotional."
"I live in Louisiana
and called my mother in California. I read this to her and we both
cried continuously. It is beautiful! It made me realize, as a child
what a parent is all about and what the role of a child is all about."
"I cannot find the
words to express how much this has touched my heart. My parents are
both in their middle 80’s and only in the past year has my father
started having problems that caused some changes in his lifestyle.
This slide show was so emotional, and really makes you realize how
much your parents did for you as a child, and helps you understand
what you will face as they grow older, and what your children will
face in their future. I am so thankful that someone had the
thoughtfulness to forward this email to me, but even more, I’m
thankful to you for producing it. The music you chose to add to it
could not have been better. THANK YOU."
March 16,
2008
"I cannot find the
words to express how much this has touched my heart. My parents are
both in their middle 80’s and only in the past year has my father
started having problems that caused some changes in his lifestyle.
This slide show was so emotional, and really makes you realize how
much your parents did for you as a child, and helps you understand
what you will face as they grow older, and what your children will
face in their future. I am so thankful that someone had the
thoughtfulness to forward this email to me, but even more, I’m
thankful to you for producing it. The music you chose to add to it
could not have been better. THANK YOU.
"I have received this
message a month ago but it was not to music. When I read it then I
cried. With the music I cried harder and I sent it to all my children
a second time. Dianna Hirschenberger. Greenish Michigan"
"This is beautiful
and says things that are hard for you to say for yourself."
"We would appreciate
a CD so we can share it with the people at the retirement community I
work at."
"Please waste no time
getting this on a CD. I shorted out my keyboard with my tears. I have
never before viewed such a powerful message from a parent. I will
forever be grateful to the author of this fabulous work. Please notify
me when the CD may be purchased. Thank you from the bottom of my
healthy heart."
"Thank you."
"I thought that was
breath taking, we had four daughters and raising children is very hard
in this day and age. Try to understand is what it is all about and
it's right until you reach a certain age you don't realize how
important parent really are. Our twins (17) that are still at home
will be reading this today to help them understand that it is okay for
parent to grow old and to accept them. We are not that old yet but you
don't have to be old to die. They lost their 20 year old sister two
years ago to a car accident and sometime I find it hard to notice the
change in them to. Anyway I will email this on to my friends that are
parents and have those teen age children that are growing up to fast.
Thanks for emails like this."
March 15,
2008
"Dear My friends: I
am a little girl (11 years old). I want to help my parents when
they will be old. Thank you for this nice slideshow . Best Regards,
Hiba Safadi, Syria"
"I teach in a Home
Support Resident Care Attendant program and will be using this in one
of my classes. This is beautiful and can be applied to our personal
lives along with our interactions with others. Thank you so much!!!"
"Thank you so much
for making this available so that someday it would make its way to my
inbox. I took care of both my parents thru long term illnesses. My dad
was bedridden for two years with end stage emphysema at the same time
my mom had Alzheimers. I fought hard to allow them to live and die
with dignity. But you always wonder if you could have done better, if
you could have been kinder, more understanding, had more patience. I
have snapshots, mini-videos imprinted on my heart, of moments and
conversations with my parents during those years and they help me to
know I did alright. As hard as it was I wouldn't have those years
taken from me now, I hold them close and cherish them, knowing how
much my parents loved me and myself them in return....."
"As you are aware,
Parents' Wish is tremendous."
"Thank you...for this
most poignant and heart warming tribute....Caryle Antonioni. Toronto,
Canada."
"That is one of the
most moving video's I have ever seen. Thanks for sharing that with all
of us. I will cherish this for all the days of my life and I have
passed it on to my 3 children who in time will appreciate it if not
now. Joyce S"
March 14,
2008
"I would love to have
it with me always. Thank you for allowing so many to gain the
understanding of life with love and dignity."
"This is great, I
enjoyed every scene. It brought home the things I am going through now
as I grow older into those years when nothing seems to work right or I
forget the simple things or the names of places and people or have
trouble remembering the right word to use to describe what I am
talking about or to finish a sentence. My children get short and
sometimes angry and forget about all the times I had to wait for them
as they were growing up. So, yes this is a good program. I wish it
could be shown to every person to let them know that they are not
alone on this our last journey. Eugene Brooks"
"This slideshow is
wonderful! When I look at my dear sweet 84 year old mom. She doesn’t
walk straight, and her hands aren’t working right, I think of all the
times she spent helping me as a child. She never got angry and always
loved me. My dearest friend still today – my mom. Cathy"
"I love this so
much!"
"I received an email
this morning with a link to your site and I very much enjoyed the
presentation you are supporting. I was extremely moved when I saw it.
I strongly believe that our elders are usually not treated with the
respect and dignity that they well deserve and I would like to support
your efforts."
March 13,
2008
"I teach a Bible
class and a Daily devotional time and I am always looking for poems
and such things as this to read to the folks here to cheer them up and
let them know that there are others out there that care about them."
"This is a totally
amazing e-mail. I work in an Assisted Living Community and see this
every day. I would love to share this with every family member that
must deal with this on a day to day basis. Thanks for the wonderful
message. Deb-PA"
"I only wish to MY
parents live long enough to take care of them. It' will be six years
since my mom's passing .It makes you realize what you miss. It's a
beautiful piece thank you."
"I am a 64 young
woman who is caring for a 97 (and 1/2) dad who is mentally alert, but
in very poor health. My husband, who also helps take care of my dad,
received this beautiful piece of art a couple of days ago from a
friend. Yesterday after I had come home from a very hard day with my
dad, he said I want to show you something, but I don't want to upset
you. As I sat in front of my computer watching and listening to
Parent's Wish, I cried a bucket of tears (I found out later that
he too had cried as he had watch this email for the first time). I
didn't cry from being tired, or feeling burdened, I cried because I
truly did have a better understanding of what my wonderful dad must be
thinking as we care for him. He has always been a very proud, self
reliant person and I know how hard this illness is on his self esteem.
I also know that after watching the wonderful pictures, reading the
beautiful music and listening to the touching words of Josh Groban's
music I will be a much better daughter and caretaker. Words alone can
not express what this beautiful piece of art has done for my husband
and me. Thank you so much for sharing this with the world. Brenda
Martin Tulsa, OK"
"Thank you. Well
done!"
"So very touching. It
actually brought tears to my eyes."
"It is to be
treasured. I cried as I lost my last parent, my mother, and the shower
part did it, she hated the time for cleaning up, and was always cold
when we heated up the bathroom so I sweat, and I miss her so, I cried.
Wonderful with Josh and the words printed."
"My 97 year old
mother passed away 4 months ago. How I wish I had seen and heard this
beautiful music and message before her last days. She told me she
wanted to die and asked me to understand. Although I did understand, I
didn't respond to her the way I should have, with love and reassurance
that it was okay if this was her wish. 3 days later, under hospice,
she died, alone, which was her request. I arrived moments after her
passing, not expecting it to happen so soon. I had gone home to fix
dinner for my husband, when the call came for me to return. But we
were not in time. The guilt is overwhelming. I wish everyone in the
world could see this presentation and listen to Josh Groban's
beautiful singing. He brings it home, to the heart and to the gut. I
felt it in both. Thank you for this experience."
"How touching this
is. I have had many problems lately and many thoughts of my life and
what it was worth. I have 4 grown children and my husband has been
very ill for several years. We are in our early 50's but this really
hits home especially since I have lost my dear parents. This has put a
lot of things about my life in perspective, thank you so very much. My
youngest son is moving out tomorrow and I am very sad but seeing this
video has helped me."
"This is so sweet. I
e-mailed it to my father-in-law. He is the only sibling living in town
and has all the burden of his parents on him. He sent it on to his
brother and sister. It is so touching and so true. I will remember
this forever, I have parents and one grandmother. And I know there
will come a time that I will need to look back on this. Thanks,
Jennifer"
"What a beautiful way
of reminding everyone how precious our parents are, I have forwarded
this to all my friends. I sobbed and will do every time I hear that
song because its so true."
"The video of
Parents' Wish is ssssoooooo wonderful. Thank you and God Bless you for
coming up with this most beautiful video."
"It was a beautiful
presentation and touched home so much."
"This is extremely
moving and I cried the first time I watched it. I understood
completely what the words were saying and the music just set it off.
One of the most touching emails I have ever seen. We will all,
hopefully, be there some day. Thank you so much."
"Unexpectedly, I was
moved to tears. It was so touching. I am a single mother of two (2)
kids that's why I was able to relate to it. Her wish is also the same
as my wishes. And was really hoping that someday, my children will
understand me and will never leave me when I got old. What I read in
this wishes will forever stay in my mind and in my heart. Cynthia
Marie Luardo - Philippines"
"This is one of the
best pieces of bulk E mail I have seen in months. Congratulations to
whoever created this on a job well done . Thanks Anne"
"This presentation is
very touching. This song was sung by my cousin at my Dad's funeral 3
years ago and it certainly brings back fond memories."
March 12,
2008
"I read this thinking
of my mother and as I neared the end of it I broke down into
uncontrollable crying. I wish I had known what this was before opening
up as I suffer from depression. It’s taken me an hour or so to get
back to this and respond. I’m still shaking. I worry terribly about
Mom and this has me so anxious, upset that I in good standing can’t
recommend this website. I’ve been taking 200 mg of Zoloft for over ten
years now. I wish there was some sort of disclaimer or something to
the effect of how people can react to this. Thanks for letting me put
my two cents in."
"I know you probably
get 1000’s of e-mails. I wanted to let you know. My own father (and
best friend) passed away on August 8th 2005. I have three older
brothers but it seems that the care of my 83 year old mother has
fallen to me. They take the fact that she IS STILL here for granted.
She is in early stage Alzheimers and I know it can be difficult to be
around her sometimes. I have times when I’m discouraged and feel very
alone in my journey with her. I loved my dad with all my heart and my
heart still aches from his loss. I KNOW he would want me to take care
of her. I am honored and privileged to be able to give back even a
little of what they gave me. Thank you for recognizing us. YOU’VE
Raised me UP! LeVita Maier Bragdon"
"I cried of joy, for
being blessed to share my parents’ golden years. Thank you for
reminding me of what counts."
"Thank you!! I come
from a close family of 6 children. My parents are in their mid 70's
and both have had cancer. Dad has had it twice in the past 4 years. He
is my rock, my sounding board, my go to person. I can't imagine my
life without him. My Mom is the same, she has always done more for her
family than any other mother I have ever known. She nursed her own
Mother until the day she died at, 99 years, 9 months, and 9 days old.
We all helped out with our Nana and our Grandma when they were ill,
that is just the way family is suppose to be. That is what love is.
You don't question, you don't loose your patience, you laugh it off
and move on. Give lots of love and hugs and let them know you are
there. My parents know that we will all be there if and when the time
comes for us to take care of them. They say they don't want to be a
burden, but to me it would be giving back, that is the way I have
always looked at it. Again thank you for this web site. I have passed
it onto my sisters and brothers. Beth, PA"
"I do not know the
proper words to reply for you but this is my favorite song to send to
you. Maybe the words are not exactly right but I thought you would
enjoy it and know what I mean. I also play this on the organ. God
bless you. gus ooxx"
March 11,
2008
"This presentation is
beautiful, and hits me right where I am with my mother at this time.
Thank you."
"I have just received
this as a forward from my close friend in Pensacola, Florida. I
am from Birmingham, United Kingdom, a 64 year old male retired former
senior social worker with three wonderful children and a five year-old
grand-daughter. I am particularly grateful for this touching and
insightful presentation, because although both my parents died over
twenty years ago I still miss them. I was adopted during the second
world war as a young baby, so my two sons and daughter are precious to
me. I regard parenting as the most fulfilling work I ever did,
personally or professionally. My wish is that more people can be
enabled to value themselves and others, to express love and gratitude
to those who’ve guided and supported them and to live long and
fulfilling lives cherished by family and friends. Thank you for this
life affirming presentation! Michael J. Whitehouse."
"Wonderful - was sent
to my children and friends - would like a copy if you have them
available. Thank you. Sharon Buckmaster"
"Was moved to tears
viewing this video. Years ago, my mom suffered Alzheimers. NOT the
main caregiver, it was very hard to help out when needed; and to have
patience needed all the time. THIS put a new light on things. Dad also
suffered poor health before his death, and we were required to care
for him as well. An amazing video; and should be provided to ALL
support groups and nursing homes. I am grateful for the person who
sent this e mail to me. Many of my friends will be getting this as
well. D.B."
"I can't imagine
people thinking of it as connected to assisted suicide or 'putting
a guilt trip' on our children. Like you, I feel it just expresses
our love and our need for understanding from our children. I sent it
to all our children who have Internet."
"Truly beautiful and
very moving. I have forwarded it to several friends around my age
group and am soon to send it to my own 2 grown-up children. The whole
presentation is beautiful and very sensitively done. Wow! Sylvia -
Great Britain"
"I love your website,
it is beautiful."
"Amazing and thought
provoking!! It reminded me of my parents and all that they had given
me through the years. It’s amazing at what my parents gave me not only
during my childhood years, but all the years and I’m thankful that I
was able to give some portion of that back. Your video reminded me
just how patient my parents were with their parents as they grew older
and set the example of love and patience for me and my siblings to
follow when they grew older. I hope that by example I’ve set the same
in motion for not only my son, but for those who watch when we least
expect as how we should treat each other no matter what the age, etc.
Once again thanks for creating this wonderful slide show."
"After viewing your
Parent's Wish and sharing it with my colleagues, it is a wonderful
reminder and a perfect gift to share with many and to share with our
Youth Organization. Please notify me when this does become available
on CD. Thank you for your blessings."
"It made me cry."
March 10,
2008
"God Bless You for so
appropriately expressing feelings of the elderly to their children. It
was so touching, inspiring, and oh so beautifully told. I love Josh
Groban and his music. Thank you for making my day. Dean, Naples, FL"
"It is a really
touching poem and the song brought a tear to my eyes. I can not
explain how much it really meant to me. I will send to everyone on my
email list. Ben"
"That was amazing, it
brought back memories of my dad and my Grandparents before they died
with Cancer. It also made me think of my mother and stepdad which of
who never turned me away and taught me a lot about life and how to
live. With that in mind it brings me to my kids and step kids which I
LOVE WITH ALL MY HEART!!!!!!!!!!!! I just hope this message gets out
to a lot more people, young and old, if for nothing else, just to
remember the ones they LOVE. THANK YOU!!!! Wes Boren"
"My Mom is currently
in a rest home and daily we have hounded her to walk get dressed and
eat so she will get healthy again. NEVER AGAIN thank you for such a
beautiful moving slide show."
"I am currently
fighting 'the system' and my ex-husband to see more of my kids
then the allotted time slot I have been given. I've never hurt them or
put them in harms way, just made some stupid choices that have lead us
to where we are today. Knowing that we all make our own mistakes in
life, I pray that mine will be forgiven by them, and that the future
this story portrays will be ours. To all of you and all of yours;
learn to live, live to love, and love for life. My parents failed me
and I've come dam close to failing my own children. This e-mail
brought tears and an added reality to my eyes; life is short, make
sure that those you love know that they are loved and cared for and
you in return shall have the same."
"It seems to me that
this will be helpful to use in our Healthcare Center when families are
having difficulty adjusting to this stage of life for so many
residents. Thank you so much for sharing this with all of us in your
special rendition."
"Hi my name is Maria.
That was the best email I have received, so true am a mother but I do
have a mother with dementia. I have stood by her and I make an effort
to include her in any family events. She was a very strong person and
now she is existing. Its sad to see her like that but am sure if she
could see herself like that she wouldn't want to leave but I stand
next to her like she did when I needed her."
March 9,
2008
"Thank you for sharing, Sissy"
"This
'special' message was sent to me on my mother's 80th. It will
be 2 years on march 28th that she has passed and this song was played
at her funeral because she loved Josh. So there were a lot of tear's
shed as I listened to this! My brother's and I nursed her at her home
until she passed and as this message said we listened to what her
want's and need's were at the time. Not what we wanted which was very
difficult. You always want your parent's around forever but when they
are suffering and in so much pain then you know that their place is
with God. One Sunday 3 month's before she passed our whole family got
together and sat around my mother's bedroom and we had each written a
letter to her and read it to her. It was to let her know exactly what
she meant to each of us over the year's and to thank her for being the
best mother ever. Needless to say there were a lot of tear's shed that
day but my mother said it was one of her best day's. Best it was like
a living euology and we all said how we felt about her which a lot of
people don't do when people are alive so please think about doing
this. It is so wonderful for everyone."
"I
took care of both my parents
until their death, I understand the feelings of love and compassion
and I hope one day it will be returned to me from my daughters. I am
in the process again of helping my in-laws who replaced my parents
after I married and hope to care for them as I did my parents. It is a
privilege and not a burden to care for the ones you love and I hope
that when people see this beautiful video that it too will open their
hearts. Thank you for the beautiful thoughts and the loving voice of
Josh, it was a perfect match. Aloha,"
"First, I'd like to
thank my sister in L.A. for forwarding me this wonderful message. Wile
reading it, I couldn't control my tears as it reminds my parents who
are both old and sick and we always pray for them. The God will extend
more their lives. I thank God for adding more lives to both of them
and we wish that we can show more love and care for them. I thank my
parents for raising us with love in our hearts taught us to love one
another and understand each other. Thank you so much for this
wonderful message. Wish to read more some inspirational message that
can encourage more other people, inspire more in their daily living.
Thank you and more power! God bless. From: Ms.Ferma Lee, South Korea"
"I love Parent's Wish
and viewed it via the web."
"I too am of the
older generation and have children and grand children. This should be
shown in every school from 1st grade to college graduation. I have
sent this to all of my children. Thanks for the beautiful song and
writing. R. Standridge"
"BRAVO.
I am 79 and I cried throughout the whole thing. Josh Groban's music
added to that experience! I feel very understood and 'gotten'
although I am a very healthy, still working, lively senior with a host
of friends (now beginning to leave this planet) and a nice 'boy'
friend. But it expresses my deepest fears and hopes for the
'someday' future. I'm reluctant to send this to my daughters
because I think they'll laugh at me! Thanks for doing this. Gloria,
79, Alexandria, VA"
"I strain to type
through my tears, after just having viewed the Parent's Wish. I
am 63 years old and am now caring for my 94 year old father who has
severe dementia, both legs amputated and little sight or hearing, but
still is able to tell me he loves me. I have watched him progress
through all the stages in the 'wish' and now he is simply
waiting for God. My biggest fear is that when my time comes, there
will be no one there to love me and understand what I am going
through, as I have no child to show this beautiful tribute to. Penny ,
ON, Canada"
"I
love this Parents Wish poem."
Thank You & God Bless, Rick Housey
"One word,
AWESOME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!"
March 8,
2008
"This is certainly
what my father wants from me. Unfortunately he abandoned my family
when I was seven, was an angry, narcissistic alcoholic who molested me
later on, and psychologically abused my sister and mother and me. My
mother died young, but I would have given anything to see her age. I
stay in touch with my father, but just barely. He only rages at me
these days, and I don't need the poison. Not everyone took care of
their kids and not all grown kids should have to care for their
parents. I doubt you'll print this, but I feel better having written
it."
"This says it all.
What else could any one say that would be more moving and so
beautiful. Wish there were more out there like this. I help with my
mother in law who was more like a mother. She always said I was her
daughter. Harriett Ellijay, GA"
"Exactly what the
youth of today should be made aware of!! Past values are repeated here
and their importance poignantly portrayed! I shall certainly be
forwarding the message to my children in the hope (and prayer) that
they understand the knowledge which the message is imparting to the
world. Well done to the creators of this most inspirational e-mail
message. Natu Patel"
"Thank you so much
for this beautiful and touching presentation. I still have tears in my
eyes after going through it. The ones I have sent it to thank me for
forwarding it and hopefully my three children read it. I will read it
as often as I can."
"This is one of the
most moving things I have ever read. I just turned 60 and have 4 sons.
I am also a widow. This really expresses my feeling for each of my
boys. It brings tears to the eyes of any parent. I hope you continue
to write such wonderful things that mean so much in this troubled
world. It has struck a chord in my heart and in my boys hearts also."
"This is so moving I
sat in tears. This speak's for most all of us older people, my
Mother-in-law is 101 years old and has said many times she no longer
wants to live and we totally understand her, she is a wonderful person
and loved so very much by all who have the pleasure of knowing her. I
would love a copy of the CD not only in her honor but to share with my
5 children and 5 grandchildren. Thank you."
"Our 88 year old
Mother, (my Mother-in-law) lives with us, I have found myself
impatient, upset, even angry at times, although I love her
dearly......a million thanks for this lesson."
"I avoid schmaltz and
the gushingly sentimental. This however was genuinely beautiful and
deeply touching."
March 7,
2008
"I once knew an
Indian who was the grandson of a great pawnee chief. I was with him
once when a missionary group came to our school and gave a heart-felt
testimony about work they had done at orphanages during the Christmas
season. After hearing them out with great stoicism he stated that he
detested children."
"This slideshow was
and remains the most moving, thoughtful and touching thing I ever
watched. We have sent this on to our three children. Thank you and God
Bless"
"I would like to
thank you for sharing your video Parents' Wish with me and my
wife. It was very hart warming and I am not one to show emotion very
often. This one really got to me. I sent it to my kids who have
computers. I also have saved it to my hard drive. My wife has chronic
COPD and I am getting up in age, I am 78."
"That was just
beautiful and made me cry…but oh so true. May children be inspired to
be patient and love their parents in their senior years. I lost my
mother-in-law and father-in-law a few years back and now I am at the
stage they were at and I TRULY understand! God bless you!"
"Having just recently
lost my husband of 61 years, and being able to relive some of his
funeral service where this song was played, was such a comforting
thing. My daughter chose this song, and we all felt that it was
perfect. Josh sings it to perfection too. Thank him for the whole
production. Bonnie Snow,Alabama"
"We are blessed to
have both elderly parents (88 and 92). It was a very emotional
viewing, and I was thrilled to be so gently reminded of what is needed
from us. Amazing! Sue"
"This came to me just
in time. I've been caring for my 94 year old mother who has senile
dementia. It has been very stressful. Your efforts in putting this
presentation together came when I needed in the most and gave me the
proper attitude to deal with my mother's needs. Susan Williams"
"I am a single
parent, I have brought up my son and am now bringing up my grandson
single handed. This touched me in a way you cannot imagine. Well done.
It has put forward a very powerful message out to the world."
"What a wonderful and
moving video and music. That is exactly how some of us parents feel.
Thank you and bless you. J. Johnston"
"Thank you for this
great blessing."
"This was sent to me
by a dear friend at a time when I really needed it. I have the song on
CD or we sing it in Church, not sure which but it is so beautiful, and
then the words and pictures on the slideshow are just so spot-on. I
sent a copy to each of our children who tend to think we can still do
all they need us to do, when it is coming to a time when we need help,
and cannot be the ones giving it. Thanks so much for such a wonderful
message. So uplifting. God bless you, Sheila M "
March 6,
2008
"Thanks. We love Josh
Groban!"
"This hits very close
to home. Both my parents are failing and it is a good reminder for
those days when frustration could set in in trying to do or get them
to do what's best for them. I see each new day with my mom and dad as
a blessing and an extra day to love and give back the care they so
willingly gave me. Thank you for this beautiful tribute to all
parents. I pray I am never viewed as a burden to my own children.
Leslie"
"This is beautiful.
Describes my own parents beautifully! PAG, TEXAS"
"So poetic, beautiful
and awe inspiring. So emotional and comforting, yet sad. It gave me a
positive change in the way I feel about those close to me. Tom
Cavalieri"
"This is like a gift.
Thank you. It's profoundly beautiful and ageless. Jane Hartley"
"It's a perfect wish
for parents which touch our hearts and with the beautiful background
music, it may suddenly change bad attitudes of children to their
parents and make children realize how parents let them grow, how
parents love them so much and how valuable parents are to them. Thanks
so much and if possible I would like to have a copy of the beautiful
wishes that I can print from my computer. D'Godfather"
"Thank you. I will
forward this to encourage and remind others of their parents' and
care. Lori from Wisconsin"
"My Grandpa has
Alzheimers and when you speak to him he repeats the same statement
over and over again. It is the hardest thing to watch him go through
because he is my Grandpa. I pray and hope for everyone out there that
they can take this message to heart and always remember that at some
point in our lives we have needed help ourselves. I pray that we may
always remember all that we have been given and we will give back when
that time comes to help or give to others as we have been given too."
"I don’t know how to
express my deep appreciation for this slideshow. Almost one year ago,
my father passed away and this was SO touching that I finally able to
let go and weep. Once again, thank you for this. You’re imagination
and sincerity are INCREDIBLE!! You managed to express, in a short
slideshow, a VERY powerful message and I’m EXTREMELY grateful!"
March 5,
2008
"There are no words
to describe one's feelings when viewing this presentation. It's really
difficult to view this without a few choked up tears!"
"I just finished
viewing Parent's Wish - how awesome! My sister sent this to me
as we have lost our mother a couple of years ago, I am so proud to say
that I was never embarrassed to take my mother anywhere, bathe her or
help her in any way. I miss my mother and she was all I could think
about while this played. Thank You!"
"Absolutely
beautiful! I wish I'd had this to share years ago with my children on
behalf of elderly and ill relatives. I'm so glad a friend shared
this!"
"That was pretty and
I hope I have the strength to help my parents like they did when I was
younger. My boyfriend just lost his dad a few weeks ago and I
understand greatly the need to be patience when they need our hands to
help them along. Thank you for sharing a great reminder to us all. God
bless."
"I cried at every
different scene. I am a blubbering idiot, I swear. It is so sad but
true. I loved Josh's singing and the scenes that accompanied his song.
Thanks from the bottom of my heart. Carol"
"Thank you so much.
My friend sent this to me last night at 7:35 pm. My father died last
night at 7:45 pm. I just opened this up. There is not much else to say
– you have so eloquently said it for so many of us. I had a great
relationship with my Dad and am blessed that we shared so much joy.
Thank you again. Anita"
"I shared this video
with my staff. Very moving, beautiful and all so true. Thank you for
sharing. God Bless. Claudia A. Abeita, Manager, Pueblo of Isleta Adult
Day Care Program"
"I just buried my
mother yesterday and this tribute finally gave me the release I needed
to really grieve. She made it to her 86th birthday near the end of
February, but at that time, many of the things mentioned in "
Parents' Wish' began to happen to her. Watching her go was not
easy, but feeling like we'd done all that she needed helped get my
siblings and I through it. I hope we gave her all the dignity she
deserved and more. She was an amazing lady and if I'm half the mother
she was, then my children are truly blessed. Cindy =0)"
"I loved the slide
presentation. JO, Whitby, ON, Canada"
"Reading this, I
thought of our only child, our son. Our world was him. Yes we were
close, my husband was in the army, so we moved around a lot. Our son
grew up to be a nice young man. He was in the navy a few years. He was
still living at home when he met hell, married her. Our Granddaughter
is 16, daughter in-law took us in to court with lies, she lies to our
son, but where he knows this yet, I have no idea. I have not seen my
son or granddaughter, since my granddaughter was 3. I am still crying
over reading this, yes our health has changed to the worse in last few
years. God bless who ever wrote this. A mom and a Grandparents who
also were parents to over 100 fosters children. If I sound so upset
try crying every day. And then you Pray. I Hope this goes home to a
lot of families before its too late."
"This is the most
beautiful e-mail I have ever received. What a great job you did on
making it. Rosalee Pruett"
"Emotional and
moving. I cried all the way through. My dad doesn't keep well and I
thought of him throughout this. We live 100s of miles away from
friends and family and I miss them dearly. My mum's memory isn't so
good (my mum had Alzheimers) and this has made me think twice twice
about keeping my patience when she repeats herself and 'doesn't
listen'. I will share this with my daughter and we will probably
cry together all over again."
March 4,
2008
"I think this is a
powerful message, very relevant for today's life style."
"Well done! Thanks!"
"Thank you!"
"Thank you so very
much for the wonderful slide show and music on Parent's Wish. I cried
all the way thru, as I now am beginning the elder years of my life.
Everything about the song and pictures, are so true. It's only when
you see your close friends, and close parents and relatives, aging, do
you realize that you are too. Thanks so much for putting into
perspective. Joan Hoffman, Grand Rapids, Mich."
"I love what you have
done. I hope this helps many young people understand the elderly
(myself included)."
"This is such a
beautiful site, I watch it over and over. I have a Mom in a Nursing
Home, and often get frustrated with her. This slide show made me look
at things a lot differently. I also have 5 brothers and sisters, who
seldom visit mom, and I sent this to all of them., hoping it would
affect them too. Carol"
"At some point, way
back, they were everything: food, security, shelter, clothing, health.
It was direct and practical; they gave, I took. They taught me how to
work, to accomplish. I wish, sometimes, that they had taught me how to
love, for I have been a struggling failure there...... When
parents die, they do it whispering, 'I love you, now grow up.'
They leave us to deal with ripped-raw feelings and new definitions of
who we are. They leave us to savor the bile flavored guilt of being
their children. They leave us without parents."
"Great slideshow!!!"
March 3,
2008
"My father is 84 and
is doing very good for his age. But I can see the slow decline. A
Parents' Wish has touched my heart and soul. I will send this on
to everyone I know."
"This slide show was
so beautiful and the music so appropriate. I sat in my room alone
sobbing as I watched, and the tears still flow. I am a nurse in a
nursing home, and everything about the slide show was so true, my
fellow nursing friends thought I was crazy to work in a nursing home
and not a hospital, but my heart is in the right place. Then as I
continue to watch, I think of my own parents in their 80's and I
continue to cry because I think of their mortality and all the tender
love they showed my thru the years. Wonderful!!!! Thank you!"
"I have sent this to
everyone on my list, including some that I don't really know. The
greatest sermons ever were not delivered from a pulpit. Well done,
good and faithful servant!"
"I just lost my
father and I miss him so much. I only wish I had seen this before he
passed. Thank the Lord I still have my mother and I will save and
watch this as a reminder. Thank you!"
"Thank you!"
"What a wonderful
presentation that was. I'm still in tears! Please notify me as soon as
your CD is published as it would touch the hearts of so many here in
Florida. Thank You so very much for sharing."
"Wow, absolutely
beautiful. I was extremely close to my grandfather, who passed away 4
years ago this month. I am so very proud that I could do for him that
of which he could not do for himself. What an honor it was to be part
of his life and I am eternally grateful for that he has given me. This
was truly beautiful. Thank you."
"I sat and listened
as tears rolled down my cheeks. I have been caring for my parents for
the last ten years and have watched their health get progressively
worse. I lost my parents last year and pray that I gave them all that
they needed and deserved. I hope they knew how much I truly loved
them."
"This was very
touching. My mother died 5 years ago from Alzheimer's Disease. I was
her caregiver until the end. My mother and I had a very special bond,
I was the youngest of 4 and the only girl. Watching this brought tears
to my eyes and a lump in my throat. It reminded me of my mother's
deterioration and not being able to communicate what was happening to
her. Every day was a new challenge, little by little the mother that I
depended on who I adored and who was my best friend was wasting away.
I made a promise from the beginning to take care of her at home until
the end. I kept my promise though it was heartbreaking to see her
suffer every day. Now I take care of my father and I sometimes forget
that he is getting older and seeing the Parent's Wish just reminded me
again to be patient and kind. Thank you for your beautiful work. I
will pass it on. Gina - California"
"Amen"
"Thank-you so very
much for this wonderful, wonderful wish. I work as a familial-clown
(Fools for Health) in long term care homes. Your presentation here has
brought everything full circle. It is WONDERFUL! I will be sure to
pass it on to the other familial-clowns in our program which is a
registered Canadian charity. I will also pass it on to the activities
directors at the long term care homes where we work. God bless you,
Sandy Radvanyi"
"This was so
beautiful and sure hit home with me a grandmother of 66. I cried the
whole way through the song and pictures."
"I just viewed your
slideshow. Thanks for sharing the aging perspective! I have one aging
father in law who just visited us yesterday. He's always been nice and
pleasant to us and likes to have our kids over in his house with my
mother in law. Yesterday, he just said something that kind of annoyed
me. He said he only wanted my son to visit for no more than 3 days and
that 5 days was too long. I always thought he liked having our 3 kids
for a 1 on 1 visit. So after viewing your slideshow I just shrugged it
off and left it to Dementia! He's not thinking well! The song that was
played was also my son's favorite piano piece. It was appropriate.
Yuppies from Florida"
"I am a 48 year old
man, this made me cry."
"I was so touched. I
have a ninety + year old mother and she has said so many of those
words to me. I will try to listen more attentively and compassionately
from now on. My heart breaks each time she says she is ready to go and
I tell her it is not her decision to make. She just smiles and says
she has outlived her usefulness and needs to go on to be with the
Lord. Thank you for helping me understand more of what she is
experiencing."
"Just wanted you to
know I am really impressed with what I saw on the computer. I have my
mother living with me and she is 90 years old and living way back in
the past when she was a girl. I love her dearly and it was wonderful
to watch the slide show. Thank you ever so much."
"That was absolutely
beautiful. It is not only what we would want from our children, but it
is also a reminder to us baby boomers as our parents are getting older
to show them this respect and love as well. The Bible tells us in
Ephesians 6:2 to 'Honor our father and mother.' This a
commandment with a promise, for God continues by saying, 'That is
may be well with you, and you might live long on the earth.' They
deserve our love and respect for all they have done for us. Thank you
for this important reminder and so wonderfully communicated."
"I just want to say
thank you so much for a beautiful message that this short clip
conveyed. It was sent to me by one of the sisters from our church. It
came at a time when I was facing some difficult times with my Son, to
a point where we were about to separate as mother and son permanently.
We both played your clip and shed very painful tears. My son realized
all that I wanted for him was the best. All is well and we have moved
forward. Thank you. God Bless You. Jennifer & Trent"
"We received this
link in an e-mail last week and have just put my father (who is 78)
into a rest home. He has had a few strokes so movement and
conversation are difficult. It was timely and so inspirational to see
this message and be reminded of that word 'respect'. I found
visiting my father that day (and from then on) so much easier. Thank
you."
March 2,
2008
"A close friend to
both my family and me, mother is experiencing Alzheimer’s and was
recently placed into a special care home. When I hear him tell me that
his mom can not remember his name or recognize him when he walks into
see her, it brings it all into focus for me. May god bless him with
the strength and power to due the best he can. Also thank you for
helping me show my love for the ones who got me started in life.
Recently I have felt my parents have not really wanted to be part of
my life or my families life and it has made me just stop trying to
talk much with them. I do not like that and just watching your Parents
Wish slide show made me realize I must keep trying. Keep the faith
Barry"
"Just awesome......."
"Beautiful! Nough
said. TjMcCollum"
"I am an *Angel* of
mercy... I am a 'Caregiver' The longer we are on this
earth...the greater chance we will journey down the road called 'Old
Age' Thank you for the REMINDER!"
"Very well done,
kinda takes ones breath away."
"Thank you for such a
beautiful thoughtful, meaningful message. It deeply touched my heart
for although I'm mid-age I'm at a point where I truly understand the
decisions that has to be made and the lose that is felt. Thank you
again, I cried all the way through, both times. God Bless you and your
work, Mabel Jefferson"
"My 97 year old dad
died a few days ago and I was sent Parents' Wish by a cousin in Canada
. My dad lived with me for 8 years before a fairly peaceful death and
when I opened 'Parents' Wish' it gave me great comfort that I
had looked after him as he would have wished. I sent it to my niece
because her dad-my brother - has Parkinsons - is not in fact old only
63 - but the 'wish' applies so much to him I am sure it will
help her to understand what her dad needs as the illness progresses.
Thank you, Marion"
March 1,
2008
"Absolutely beautiful
and inspiring! I listened to it three times in a row and had to choke
back tears each time! I forwarded it to our children as well as to my
brothers and sisters so that they could in turn send it to their
children. It also serves to remind us of the tremendous debt that we
owe to our own parents. Thank you again very much for this immensely
inspiring audiovisual presentation! We need more presentations of this
nature in our troubled world to remind us of what truly matters in
life. Rich"
"That was so
beautiful! Thank you! It was so inspiring."
"Totally Awesome!!
Thank You so very much for making this available to all those who care
to realize the facts about family. God Bless. Art Jernberg, Michigan"
"Dear Mr. Groban,
this was so beautiful! I am sure this was a lot of work to put
together, and sir, I have to tell you that I have watched this 3 times
since I have received it from my girlfriend. Please tell
everyone that was involved that it was very very beautiful. Give
everyone a pat on the back for a job well done. Sincerely, Margaret
Lane"
"This presentation
brought a lump to my throat, so touching, it's a keeper and a definite
forward to all my kids and my friends. Thank you. J. Kennedy"
"Thank you so this
video. It is the most beautiful video I have ever watched the words of
the song are very touching and Josh Groban has a voice from heaven. As
an older parent I cried from the beginning to the end and beyond. I
was/am touched in a profound way. The website has now been sent to my
children and all my email contacts. Thank you for a moment to stop and
smell the roses. Georgia Walker"
"A Parents'
Wish is so beautiful and accurate. It made me cry for my dad who
passed away this past year. He was two weeks short of 97. A Parents'
Wish, made me relive when he was at the nursing home. We took such
good care of him because he was such a giving and loving man. We took
him home often and we brought him to eat out twice a week. He enjoyed
that so much and after he broke his hip and had surgery. He tried so
hard to regain all his strength but his bones were too weak. When he
couldn't go out anymore he just let go and wanted to go to his real
home. I saw so many people at the nursing home who had no one visit
them. The nurse said if the patients here could only get 1/4 of the
attention from their families that you give your dad, they would be so
happy. So after dad passed away I decided to get together with my
friend. She plays the keyboard and I sing and we volunteer our time
every week to entertain 6 nursing homes in the area. They just
appreciate it so much. Its worth more than money to us. It is very
rewarding. Sometimes they cry and sometimes they laugh depending on
what we sing. But at least they feel."
"My husband and I are
seniors (and I mean seniors) loved Parent's Wish and sent it on to our
two boys. HOWEVER, as the mother who gave birth, raised the children
mostly while the husband was making a living for us, I would like to
have seen pictures of the mother holding a child. I really felt left
out, so to speak. My husband says I am being picky and should just
enjoy it. Well, I do enjoy it but having stayed home, giving up a good
job to be there for my boys, cannot help but feel mothers don't always
get the credit they deserve, such as in this case. I know the title
was changed and that is why the Dad is always shown - still... Thanks
anyway, and hope our boys enjoy it. No doubt they will phone and thank
their Dad for sending it on!!!! Mary Edwards"
"Josh is always great
and that song was special to that presentation. Thanks. It was a great
experience that I'll be happy to forward to our family and friends."
"I want to thank you
for creating a slide show of the Parent's Wish. I love it very much
and I couldn't hold my tears back every time I watch it. Thanks for
sharing it. I just wish that everyone get to see it so that each one
will understand the feelings of every parent. This is really one of a
kind. I also want to thank my friend, dally for sending it to me. In
return, I send it also to my friends for them to experience what I
felt when I watched it. I hope that you can put it on CD. Its a
priceless treasure. More power to you. - Alice"
"I love it very much.
Thank you for sharing it with us."
February 29,
2008
"Thank you----very
touching and well done. I am sending this to my grown children in
hopes that they will feel this way as we are aging. Carol McIntyre"
"Your presentation
touched my heart at a time when I needed to be reminded."
"Thank you! Its
beautiful."
"THANK YOU! to all
involved in the production of this wonderful presentation, and to the
beautiful friend who sent it to me. Growing old is a blessing and yet
having endured the many changes a long life brings parents are then
often treated with impatience and disrespect or even as an
inconvenience. I am privileged to still have both my parents (in their
70's); I pray that I can always be to them the friend and support they
have been to me. We often forget how rapidly our world is changing, we
have come along way from radio sagas and black and white TV to
inspirational, colour movies clips sent via internet which touch us so
deeply; and most of our amazing 'oldies' are keeping up! Gotta
love 'em. Andrea S, Qld, Australia"
"I work in a nursing
home and this is the most beautiful thing I have seen. I hope to get
this to all my co-workers. A must to see!!!"
"This is truly a
wonderful video which puts life’s losses into the context of love. It
gives us a deep appreciation of the meaning of relating to our parents
and all of the elderly in unselfish reciprocal ways. God bless your
efforts. Father Terence Curley"
"I have an elderly
father, and my friends said this is beautifully done."
"Thank you so much,
this was just beautiful and so true with us old folks. It was very
touching. Opal"
"This is so very
good! Thank you!"
"I want to tell you I
love Josh Groban but the words and pictures put together are heart
rendering. If only children grew up and took to heart and lived by
these words the world would be a much better happier place to live in.
God Bless all the Children and their parents and of course America.
Rosie Richfield, Springs N.Y."
"AWESOME!!!"
"Thanks for all your
work. It is beautiful and really touches the heart."
"What a powerful and
wonderful slideshow. Denies"
"I am a 62 year old
mother and am struggling with losses myself. I’ve never seen myself,
my friends, or my husband as being 'old'. I lost my best friend
5 years ago and this e-mail has me crying so hard that I’m just not
sure how I’m typing, so please excuse any errors. I’m going to forward
it to my children and to hers, and I thank you so very much from the
bottom of my heart."
February 28,
2008
"I received this
e-mail a couple of weeks ago. It brought tears to my eyes, but I have
to tell you the complete story. Last July, 2007, my son got married,
and they (him and my daughter-in-law) had this song played during
their wedding ceremony. I interpreted it as them talking to each
other. However, when I received this e-mail and mentioned it to my
daughter-in-law, she told my that is why they chose this song for the
ceremony, because of the way it was supposed to be interpreted, about
children talking to their parents. I just can't hold back the tears
when I hear and read this e-mail over and over again. I lost my
parents two and three years ago, respectively, first my mom and then
my dad. I miss them both very much. There was a point in my son's
wedding during this song they handed us roses in memory of our lost
parents and their grandparents. In a way, I am glad I didn't know the
true meaning during the wedding ceremony, otherwise I would NOT have
made it through without crying a river of tears. Now I can do that in
the privacy of my own home. Thank you again for the beautiful e-mail".
"This is a very
powerful slideshow that every parent that had grown children should
have them see. I cried, and forwarded it to my two sons."
"That was a wonderful
moving video. My husband and I were really touched by it. Thank you.
Barbie"
"My father just sent
me the link for the Parents' Wish and I sat and tried
desperately to choke back the waterworks (tears). I have to say that
it truly makes me think and feel intense emotions. Since I have young
children, it actually makes me think about how I feel about them, and
the patience we tend to forget about when interacting with our
children as well, when we are tired or not feeling well or not having
a good day. I know I've seen somewhere 'note from child' or the
like, but the compilation of this Parents' Wish, left such an
impact on my heart that I felt the need to write. Thank you!"
"I read and saw this,
as I am 79 years now, I cried as I saw and listened. We don't think of
the time when we are at the age of being old. But it just takes the
love you get from your children just a hug and say I'm here for you.
And Josh surely God in Heaven will reward you for sure a beautiful
song and video. God Bless you. Sincerely, Ann Bode St. Peters,
MO"
"This was sent to me
on a day that has been really hard. See, my mom has Alzheimer's with
dementia. She has recently been hospitalized with pneumonia and has
taken a turn for the worse. Right now she is back at the nursing home,
still very weak. I pray everyday that God will take care of her, if he
should see that it is her time, please make it a peaceful journey.
With all of the love that she has given to people through out her life
time, she truly deserves this journey. I am so grateful that I am able
to be with her everyday, to touch her, read to her, brush her hair,
and to feed her. She is my mother, what else can I say. She would do
the same for me. I know her time on earth will soon be over and she
will be with my dad. Therefore I do not hesitate a moment to let her
know how much she means to me. I am thankful for the mom she has been
and the things she has taught me. For I am the one truly blessed to
have a mom like her. When she does have a moment and will wake, she
raises her hand to touch my face, that is will I will miss the most.
Patty Hunold New London, MO"
"This is beautiful."
"I work with the
mentally ill, geriatric patients. Those with Mental disorders, as well
as dementia and other challenges. The philosophy of work is Gentle
Care. My parents suffered strokes five years ago and recently they
have both passed away. Watching this video helped me to be more
patient and loving."
"Thanks, This is
beautiful and authentic."
"Our Adult
Services/Adult Protective Services unit was particularly moved by this
slideshow."
"This was the most
realistic view of growing old and trying to get someone younger to
understand. The message was great. Thanks. However, I have no doubt
that Josh Groban's song was just beautiful. It is unintelligible. It
has an echo and the words are garbled. I had to turn off my sound
because of the distraction. If there is any thing you can do to fix
it, it would be ever so much more enjoyable. Thanks and God Bless."
[Webmaster's note: For the
benefit of viewers with a slow dial-up connection, we had to reduce
the size of the slideshow- and this was done by reducing the quality
of the audio portion.]
"This is so moving.
My prayer is that everyone cherish your elders. I lost my parents at a
young age. By the time I was 21 years old, all the elders in my family
had gone home to glory land. I love this rendition. It is so moving.
God bless you for taking the time to minister to us all. Norma"
"It is really moving.
I am from China, a psychological learner. I know many people have
traumas inside originated from the parents' relationship. This one can
be of help."
February 27,
2008
"My aunt sent me your
web movie and I really liked it. Thank you for publishing it, I think
it is something that every person with aging parents should see."
"Just beautiful,
brought tears to my eyes, Beth Cameron"
"My mom sent this to
me. My grandma passed away in Dec. 2005 and had Alzheimers. I am
thankful for the time I was able to spend with her and If I was
frustrated I would remember that when I was little she took care of
me. I will always treasure the times we had as she got older whether
she remembered them or not there were the lucid moments and I knew she
remembered me. Thank you"
"My husband and I
have raised our granddaughter and would like to send this to her, so
is there anyway to get a grandparents version. We are very close to
her and she is a part of our living willing.
"The presentation is
fantastic and literally made me cry. Please let me know when a CD is
available, as I would like to order two at least. Thanks so much for
making the web presentation available!"
"I loved this,
sometimes our kids forget where they come form and what we went
through to get them to where they are now. Maybe they will understand
more about us as we get older. I sent this to my 4 kids and they all
said that they really enjoyed it. Each time that I listen and read
this it makes me cry, it is so touching and meaningful. Thank you.
Josh Groban's could not have done any better than this. thanks. Betty"
"This is a beautiful
power point."
"Wow. This is pretty
powerful. I am a 53 year old male and viewed this in my office this
morning. I was moved to tears as I thought of my 80 year old mother
whom I love dearly. Right after viewing this I will phone my mom to
let her know that I love her and that she is in my thoughts. Thank you
so much for sharing this important message. I have forwarded it to a
number of my colleagues, friends, family members, and my two
children."
"Amazing!!! Although
I am only 58 I am already beginning to face some of those 'what was
I saying' moments so this hit hard but said EVERYTHING that we can
expect as we approach old age. I feel that this video will speak to
both young and old and will bridge the generation gap for those who do
not know how to express what they feel and for the other side to those
who so badly need the understanding of the perils of old age. Thank
you so much for all the hard work, Beautiful!! In Jesus Name, L.Payne"
"After a particularly
rough week with my mom, I received this in an e-mail from a friend and
after viewing it felt a new-found respect for the ordeals my mother is
going thru now in her old age."
"This video is
absolutely wonderful and so very true. I remember my grandfather
looking at me and saying he didn't want to live anymore, and I
understood exactly why. He had lost his wife of over 50 years not even
a year before when he told me this. He looked at me and said there was
no reason to go on. As much as it hurt, and as much as you want them
to be around forever, you want them happy. He passed away not long
after that, but I knew he was happy and would see his wonderful wife
again. Thank you so much for this video!"
"This was absolutely
lovely- the music, the simplicity of the words and the truly touching
pictures. I just lost my husband. He was 93. I hope I never made him
feel anything but how valuable he was in the universe. I could only
respect him for who he had been, and hold him dear for the loving
nature that showed through the infirmities. I am sending this out to
my son, so he too may recognize the love I've always had for him. He
may need the same patience with me one day; as he will receive in the
future from his own sons. Thank you! Well done! H. White"
February 26,
2008
"That was truly
touching and Quite wonderful. What a lovely job everyone did. Thank
you Thank you. Honour White"
"I would like to
impart to you how I felt after watching the PARENT'S WISH video. It
was sent to me by my nephew who is currently based in Singapore. I am
so touched and so overwhelmed, smiled after feeling my tears roll down
my cheeks. I am sending this video to all my friend's children. How I
wish I was able to impart this deed to my parents who both passed away
already. Thank you so much."
"Thanks for a good
cleansing cry! My Dad is passed and I am very thankful my incredible
Mother is still with me. I hope to care of her when the time comes. I
will remember these comforting words."
"This truly touched
my heart, and made me shed quite a few tears. My father has been
diagnosed with Alzheimer's and this is our life. Thank you for the
tribute! Cynthia Houston, Texas"
"Thank you for such a
beautiful production."
"This is the best
beautiful slideshow I have ever seen."
"I loved your video.
It brought tears. It was so beautiful."
"I can’t even begin
to put into words the gratitude I feel for having found your video and
the wisdom it holds. These words are words so many of our seniors
feel. I blogged about your video as it touched a deep, deep level in
me as my life is dedicated to serving seniors. Thank you from the
bottom of my heart for your continued efforts to share this video and
wisdom with the world. When my mother told me she was ready to die, I
told her it was OK knowing it would make her journey easier. After her
memorial service all I could think of was that I wish we had played
Josh Groban during her service. Your video is a visualization of my
feelings and my love of seniors. God Bless You for sharing this gift.
I took care of my mom and dad and I saw their humiliations when parts
of their body or mind were not as active as they had been during their
lives. There is no greater joy than caring for our parent’s and in
sharing this video it would be my wish that children everywhere learn
the real value of our seniors. Thank-You"
February 25,
2008
"This was so moving.
My husband and I both cried when we viewed this. We also sent to our
son and his reply back to us was: 'Mom this was beautiful thanks
for sending to me.'"
"Thank you so much
for this lovely tribute. I lost my Mom in October 2007 at the age of
86. She had been in an Assisted Living home for 3 years. After losing
her best friend there the year before, she just lost her will to live.
She was very independent and hated having to be somewhere that was
truly not her home. At the end, she was not really sick, just lost the
will to go on and told me she just wanted to go home. My dad passed
away in March of 2003 and it was very chilling watching the video
because the grandfather at the end of the video with his grandchild
looked just like my Dad. It not only gave me goose bumps, but also
brought me and my family to tears. Shauna E., Tooele, Utah"
"Absolutely
beautiful. I am only 70 now, but it makes me appreciate my deceased
parents all the more. Very moving and beautiful. Thank you!"
"I just have to email
you and tell you what a great impression this slideshow has been on
me. I go to an Alzheimer's meeting every first Monday of each month. I
wanted to have the members of our meetings see and hear it. Well
hopefully they will get a chance to see and hear it. I am sending it
to our instructress. Thank you so much for the opportunity to have it.
From Rella Marin."
"This was the most
moving e-mail I have received in a long time. Thank you mom for
sending it to me. I will never forget all you and dad have done. GOD
BLESS YOU AND EVERY FAMILY OUT THERE."
"Sooooo beautiful!
Thanks!
"Simply put, the
short video is very well done and has an excellent message."
"I am Danah, fourteen
years old, from the Philippines. I never thought of how important my
parents are. I would even answer back everytime I am scolded by my
parents, or say mean things in front of them. Even if our school holds
confession twice every school year, I keep on committing the same
mistakes to my parents. However, as I saw this provoking presentation,
it made me realize that I should treasure them, instead of despising
them. And that, I should be thankful to the Lord, for giving me the
most wonderful blessing a child could ever have- their parents. To
my mom and dad: Mama and Papa, For almost fifteen years, I have been a
headache to you. I know that it's hard for your part to raise a child
like me. So, I'm sorry. I don't know how to say this...But....I love
you, guys. Really. I hope that you could forgive."
February 24,
2008
"My Mother just
turned 85 and we have been in a hospice house in NH for 16 weeks now.
The end is nearing. Nothing has moved me as much as this
song/tribute/words. I cried like I haven't in the past 16 weeks and
probably need to cry more. I don't know how I will get through the
next few weeks. Your song, pictures and words will help me. Thank you
so much for this moving tribute. Pat S."
"Thank you so much
for reminding me how important my parents are to me…….Bless
You!!!!!!!!!"
"Thank you so much. I
do not have any children but helped to take care of two parents prior
to their deaths. I did think of the sacrifices they made when my
brother and I were raised and anything we could do for them was but a
small token of appreciation. I have a slow dial up system in place and
I thank you for making it possible for me to view this wonderful work.
Karen in NJ"
"This is so
beautiful. I nursed my own parents through their declining years and
tried always to remember the love and patience they had shown to me,
when their bodies and minds could no longer function well. I couldn't
give them health or longevity but I tried always to give the two
things I could: love and dignity. If I could change one thing about
this presentation it would be to leave off the 'Mom and Dad' at
the end. There are many, many single parents out there who would love
to pass this on to their children but the 'mom and dad' thing
isn't applicable."
"I'm a 57 year old
mom sending this email to my daughter and son so that they may be
patient, compassionate and understanding when it is my husband's and
my time to be considered elderly. Hopefully, they will remember this
beautiful portrayal and be kind and patient to us in our older years.
Thank you. Bernadette Sheridan, Union, NJ"
"Thank you for the
reminder!"
"Thank You! It takes
me back to when I cared for my mother-in-law. I loved her so much and
I remember so well the times that she would look at me and in her eyes
I could see the very words of this presentation. I am thankful that I
was able to read what they were saying. My love and respect for her
out weighted any difficulties we may have encountered. She is truly
missed and I hope upon hope that my own children will see me the same
way. Sharleen Farrington, NF, Ont, Can"
"This is so beautiful
and True, My mother is 92. This hits me so hard my heart aches, with
so much wonder of where the years have gone and what she is going
through now at age 92. I am a mother and grandmother and hope my
children will be there for me when I am old and need their love, for
no one knows what being old is really like till you get there. This
video and music explains it all. Thank You!!! It opened my eyes to
wanting to spend more time with my 92 year old MOM."
"You have done an
excellent job with this video. At 73, it expresses many of my own
thoughts and brought a tear to my eyes. Thank you for all your hard
work in preserving this masterpiece."
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