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FEEDBACKS - PART 5

July 9, 2006

"Having taken care of my parents and in-laws, all gone now, then working as a caregiver for other elderly people; having visited nursing homes, and hospitals, I saw the need to write something to my children, to be opened in my final years. I consistently put it off, and then tonight I received Parents' Wish via email from a friend. You have saved me the trouble of composing my own letter. I will close now and send the email to each of my adult children. Thank you, Jo Ann"

"The 'subject' says it all. A relative emailed the 'movie' to me and I cried it touched me so. I've now tried to E=Mail it to a friend (I'm just learning)."

"I received the Parents' Wish presentation today and have thought of nothing else since reading it. Tears came immediately and the emotions stirred the memories of my beloved parents. I lost them both recently, one to cancer and the other Alzheimer's Disease. Thank you for such a moving piece."

"What an awesome thing you have done. Tears were running down my face as I read and listened.  I know that the day will come that one of my parents will pass away and at that time it would be impossible for the other to be left alone and I am fully prepared to take the surviving parent into my home and take care of them as they have been the best parent's any child could hope to have. Thanks for a job well done and an insight into what children with elderly parents should do and what they should know about how it is to be elderly. Carolyn

"I just lost my father in-law on July 3rd. I was his care taker. Even though the last six weeks where really hard I would not change any thing I did or say. We became closer in his finial weeks then the past 20 that I have known him. My husband and I were with him when he passed. He went peacefully. Parents' Wish is just what I needed. It is very true and beautiful."

"It is so beautiful and so very true. It touched my heart. I began working with the elderly at the age of 14 in a nursing home. My passion began then. I am now a case manager and outreach specialist working with our elderly community."

"This was absolutely beautiful. Definitely something for people to think about when they interact with older people. I will pass this on to my friends and family and hopefully they will enjoy it as much as I did."

"It is my experience that parents who have been as good and loving as those portrayed in your show do not have to remind their children of all of the things they did for them. It is manipulative to throw in your children’s faces that you did your job – you were a good parent – to get them to do something for you. I can tell you unequivocally that I am well aware of all that my parents have done for me and would walk through fire for them. They have never needed to say a word. The thought is lovely and the message is correct, but I would be INFURIATED if my parent sent this to me!!"

"Recently I lost a close dear friend of mine. This guy took me into his heart and helped me so much after the loss of my father in 86. I am going to try and find a way to get this played at his funeral on Friday cause everything in this was the man that I knew. Thank you again and please keep the great sites going like this one."

"I cried the whole time watching this. It hits my heart because my parents are moving out of their home after 51 years because of health. God love the person or persons that put this together at this time. Pat, Evansville, IN"

"It made me cry, I am going through most of what is here right now with my mother, it causes me a lot of pain in my heart BUT I have added it to 'my favorites' as it is a help to remember when times get hard what she is going through. My mother is a 'born again Christian' so I KNOW what the end results are and I praise GOD for His love through Christ Jesus."

"I am deeply in awe of this video! Through my tears, I have read it twice. I lost my Dad when I was 19 and my Mom later in life @ 45. How I wish I could've seen this Video prior to their passing, as it would've changed my childish outlook. I have problems with my children, and hope that they will not only open this tremendous video, read the words, listen to Josh's wonderful song, but open their hearts again. You have done a wonderful job and the work is simply beautiful. It is absolutely true and heartfelt!"

"WOW!!!! I can not stop crying, how true, how true to the heart. All that was said is how I believe my mom and dad saw growing old. It obviously is not fun getting old, when your physical capabilities go and if your mind goes. All I can say from experience is to be patience. They raised us we should have it in our heart to do the same when the time comes. I feel I had some patience but there is always room to improve. Show them you care!!!! from St Louis Lou Ballard"

"WOW!!!! I have cried and cried. My parents are aging and I see so much truth from your slideshow. It was so awesome. I sent it to my parents with the attachment that I prayed I would be the daughter who could let them go when the time came. My parents are my best friends and I NEVER want to be without them.  It is so hard to let go of those we love so completely. I am so thankful they gave me the life they did and that this video so portrays it. I hope I can give it back to them as wonderfully as they gave it.--- SD in AL

"Just want you to know how much I appreciated your 'movie'. Was very sad for me because my children don't and won't have anything to do with me. So I understand the thought behind it. So many thanks for the thought of it. Kind regards Bruce B"

"It is the most touching email I've ever received. Along with my mother and other elderly relatives the Parents' Wish hits close to home. Not too mention becoming one myself someday. God bless and thank you to all that put forth the effort in putting this site together in order to share with others."

"This was a beautiful video. I have never seen anything like it. If you have anymore like this I would like to hear about them."

"That was beautiful. It made me cry. There was so much truth in the message and Josh singing made it more special."

"This brought me to tears. My Mother was my best friend and constant companion. Caring for her was the most difficult but most rewarding thing I've ever done, or will ever do, in my life. Mom came out of a coma the day before she died and we watched her favorite movie together, Fried Green Tomatoes, about a young girl dying of cancer. At the end of the movie they all celebrate her life. Which I think was my Mother's point... don't cry for me, celebrate who I was and will always be in your heart!"

"Very well done. Thanks for the effort that went into preparing it. And the music was perfect. Thanks again for the effort."

"I just viewed this ever so touching tribute, and forwarded it on to others. I was truly touched, due to the loss of my dad to lung cancer and mother to Alzheimer's. The words to this are very familiar, for I have experienced this. Also I am losing my ability to walk and use a wheelchair. So the words to this reach into my everyday life."

"Awesome I am going through a heartfelt experience with my mother. I watch this almost daily to get through the day. I send this to many individuals who are also experiencing sadness with the parents. May god bless you for making our lives enriched. Joe"

"I love your movie. It reminded me so much of my grandmother. She died; we were very close. Thank you so much! Jeff"

"My daughter sent this to me today. I just hope and Pray when I get older these will be her thoughts. I wish every child with a sick or elderly parent would have a chance to read this. I am a caregiver, and I have seen both sides where the children understand the parents and then where they don't have a clue. The children get very upset with the parents for getting old or getting sick. I thank God for giving me a heart to care for these people, for I will be old one day. That was a beautiful piece."

"This site is absolutely awesome! I am 54 and have lost both of my parents. There is a time in our lives that we become the parent, and the parent becomes the child. It does take a lot of patience at times, but I do remember what they sacrificed for me. They both died with dignity, and I hope that I made them proud! Youth just cannot grasp this concept, but if they see this, I believe they will. They need to be ready as much as they can be because we do not know when we will be the parent!"

"I was moved to the depths of my soul. What a gift you've all given the world. Thank you."

"Undoubtedly, this has got to be the very best e-mail I have ever received. Thanks to all who put this together."

"I am a caregiver for a 100 year old aunt. I am sooo tired. You just gave me a month vacation through this video. Thx may God bless you and your work."

"This is so beautiful. Thanks!"

"Beautiful!! I ended up not only thinking about the content but crying and sending it to my three grown children--saying that I sort of felt that I was getting pretty close to some of them except the one about 'Do not make me eat'--(ha ha ha)--anyway---great job which many will benefit from immensely."

"I just lost my 94 year old Mother on June 3rd, 2006. She lived in our home for 1 1/2 years prior to going into a nursing home for a year. We lived every one of these steps with her. I do not hear a 'right to die' message here. I hear a parent like my Mother wanting to go 'home' where she will be whole and more alive than ever for eternity. When angry and sometimes ugly words come from their mouths, we need to remember, this is not the parents' heart speaking but a tired and ailing mind."

"Not enough words to adequately express how much this meant to me. My parents are getting older and as I sat (choked up) watching and listening to this, it really hit home. My own children have nothing to do with me so I will not experience this as I grow older. I hope all adults out there have loving children. It means the world. Vickie"

"It is my pleasure to know and feel that a message send to me which I send to all my friends and love ones will spread like this. What a such wonderful feeling now people give important to the old ones especially to their aged parents. But how I wish I knew and see this when my father was still alive. Anyway wherever he is, I know he will feel how great he is and thank you you dad for all the wonderful memories you gave. From Elsie of Dubai dedicated this to my love ones."

"Another excellent site, congratulations upon it. I wish that all children and teenagers throughout the world could see this site and contemplate upon it for just a short while, maybe then their own lives may be just that little bit less stressed and their own relationships more meaningful. Peter Stickland, Perth. Western Australia."

"I don't know what to say but it is 'GREAT. I can't stop my tears dwelling in my face. Before I realized what did my parents do for us just to live this wonderful earth but seeing this makes me more understand and love my parents. Sad to say my dad passed away never say I love him always/forever and thank you for what he did. But I know he is listening to me. Papa I love you and thank you so much. Hoping many could read and view this so that they will be enlightened and touched with this video. This is great. I played it many times."

July 8, 2006

"I wept all the way through it. My parents are 86, my mom has Alzheimer's and my dad is quite deaf and losing his eyesight. Sometimes I fight for patience - thank you for sharing this, it will help me to do so. Carole"

"I can say in all honesty that when I read the Parents' Wish I truly did all the right things. My Mom repeated herself, couldn't remember what she was saying, couldn't do things for herself, and felt her independence completely slip away. I would listen to her over and over, tell her I couldn't remember what I was saying a lot of times, and that people should do things for her, she deserved to be catered to, and I would tell her what was going on and ask for her opinions on different things to let her feel that she was still a part of decisions that were being made for her. It made my heart feel wonderful. Our parents need to be treated with the love and respect they deserve. Marie from Lynbrook, NY"

"This was wonderful! We all wish we could have done a little better by our parents and grandparents. But really I have few regrets as I truly loved my parents and grandparents. I sent this to my six daughters. I hope it effects them as it has me. I loved it. Thanks so much. Billie Garrett, Texas"

"I recently removed my mom from the nursing home to come home with me. Many family members wanted her to stay there; 'a better place than home' , but I could not stand to have her there isolated from the world and constantly asking to go home. With her diminishing mind she still knows what is going on around her and is improving since she came to live with us. Her time is short but our family will gain much with her remaining days. Your video hit like a ton of bricks and all my siblings will receive it."

"I am writing from Council Bluffs, Iowa. Just a short note to tell you that I do volunteer hospice work and was very touched by a Parents' Wish. There are so many that need to see this message! Beautiful. Truly!"

"All I can say is WOW. And thank you. Having been in geriatric nursing for almost 18 years, this movie really touched me. I am passing the site on to the staff development coordinator at our facility as it is good to remind us every so often that our patients are someone's parents and deserve the utmost respect and dignity as they end things as they see fit. Everyone has different needs, may I always remember to see the person who was and not just look at where we are today."

"This is one of the most beautiful things I have every watched."

"I am full as I type this. I can't stop the tears. My parents are in their late 80s and 90s and they are struggling with health problems and I haven't been as kind as I should have been. I plan to do better as of today. My wife and I are grandparents and in our late 60s and early 70s. We're heading towards what my parents are barely coping with. Whoever put this together- a HUGE thank you. It was much better than most sermons I've heard!"

"In a few words -- wonderful. This says it all and with Josh Groban's beautiful song, no other words are necessary. Thank you for lifting me up today. Lee Hixon"

"It was so real to me as I just lost my Mother Jan. 24, 2006 at the age of 93. She had been at the nursing home for a year, after a long illness (cancer). Thank you so much. I cried all the way thru the slideshow, sent it to my children. I am 71. God Bless you !!

"I want to thank you for that touching letter. Everything that was said was so very true. I picture my dear mother and father in law as I am reading the letter and I had tears in my eyes. I love them so very much and they are wonderful people. Thank You. Esther Zorzi"

"I think everyone else has expressed all the feelings one might have while watching this magnificent, moving film. I'm taking care of my 89 year old Dad who now has colon cancer and is a warm loving person and I cried through the whole thing and I've been crying ever since and thanking God that I am understanding all that is happening to him and his feelings and all that he is going through. Thank you for putting it into words, pictures and Josh Groban's song. Terrie Murphy"

"This is a beautiful tribute to the parents you had in mind. I also have a beautiful set of parents, my father died 34 years at a young age, however, mother is living at age 91.5 years. She is precious to me and I can identify with the message very well and truly I can live by it as well. Thank you so very, very much for sharing this beautiful message and music with me!"

"I watched your video and I wanted to thank you so much for it. I grew up with my grandmother living with my parents. When she developed dementia the easy thing would have to put her in a nursing home but my dad and mom would not. They cared for her at home. They sat with her and allowed her to die at home with dignity and love. My parents told me they would not place this burden on their children. After watching my parents I do not consider it a burden I consider it an honor. Watching your video reminded me of how much we owe to our parents. I feel sorry for people who believe taking care of their parents is a punishment."

"I find this piece to be the most beautiful I have ever read along with the words and music. It is truly heart opening and full of compassion. This says it all. It made my heart full of joy and love above sadness and touched my being with peace. The people involved with this piece are truly blessed with heart. May you continue to share your compassion and peace with the world. Marjorie from Florida"

"Very beautiful- many of us have taken care of our parents as long as we were able. When the time comes that we are physically unable to do it- don't feel guilty for admitting them to a nursing home. I am a retired nurse- so I know what it is to take care of the infirm and elderly. Its true that a lot of people can't be bothered with their elderly loved ones- and they are the losers. I will save this to re-play often- besides, Josh Groban is my favorite. From a 77 yr old granny"

"This is awesome thanks for sharing it with me."

"The Parents' Wish is just beautiful. When I got it from a friend I sat and listened to it then email it to our children and family members because it's the greatest . Thanks, KM"

"This was the most beautiful video. It has quite a message. Thank you for sharing your talent. Mother of four who lost her own beloved dad in October 1990 now my children are older 29-28-27-22 and I would give anything for them to have had more time with their grandfather."

"This was the most beautiful thing that I have ever seen. My son sang this song at college and got a standing ovation for performing it. He looks so much like Josh and truly loves singing this song."

"Awesome - just awesome. I, too, would like to send this to my grown daughters, but the Mom and Dad would be too painful since my late husband sexually abused one of my daughters and we do not ever speak of him. Please let me know when you have a copy for a single parent. It's so beautiful and so true. I want my Mom to have a copy as well."

"I am usually very cynical about a great deal of the stuff that is sent to me on the internet but this...well, as I was reading this I started crying, and I do mean really crying! I just lost my Dad last year to old age. The Lord gave me the courage to just sit with him, hold his hand, rub his arm and well, just plain talk. It was so awesome. It started me think of age, death, and many old things. I believe that this reminds us that older people are those with feeling also. Maybe our bodies don't always cooperate but our mind in general still young. It is beautiful."

"I was deeply touched by this presentation, even though much of the writing was grayed-out. I look forward to being able to see the slide show whether on the computer or otherwise."

"What a blessing! Thanks, Mother of five, Christian school teacher in Del. Missouri, Texas and Concordville, Pa. Church bus captain, Sunday school teacher and serving the Lord... receptionist for Lockheed Martin (MSOC) Mission contract for Nasa. Really a door keeper for the Lord!

"This is beautiful! It made me cry, but it was a good cry. Every child needs to see this! It's very inspiring! Very true, and most of all Very REAL!"

"This is one of the most beautiful Power Points I’ve seen in a long time. There is also another one going around, with the same message, but different pictures. Both are very beautiful. Thanks for the great work you did on this Power Point to enjoy with the e-mail families all over the world. Special Thanks to your wife and children, for allowing you to work on this, so many families can enjoy. Cheryl C. Cavalier,  Larose, Louisiana"

"My mother and I cared for my father for 27 years, he passed at 95 years old. I miss him dearly and I prayed him back from countless near death experiences. He suffered much too long because of my selfish needs. My mom is now 82 and going thru the same stage of life. I don't want to make the same mistakes with her. But I can't seem to make her happy. It hurts very much. Your work came just at the right time. Some of the items I forget to do, thank you for the gentle reminders. I am sure this will help!"

"This is the most guilt trip ridden website I have ever had sent to me. "If you are a giver, you don't ask for anything in return. I am a parent. And I became a parent when I was ready to love and to give unselfishly. The message of this website is not only odd; it's selfish. No one with real parenting instincts would ever send this to their child."

July 7, 2006

"I just watch the Parents' Wish video and cried through the whole thing. The words are so perfect and touched my heart. Josh Groban is such a special man and has the voice of an Angel. My mother died at the age of 88 and I experienced many of those feelings expressed in this video, while caring for my mom. This brought back many memories and smiles for me. Thank you for such a beautiful tribute."

"Thank you for taking the time to put words, music and photos together to help us understand and have peace with life."

"This is wonderful tribute. My husband recently passed away and this song will be for him. Keep up the good work."

"I just have to say it brought tears to me eyes. I work as a home health aide. I wish I could send this to all of my patients families how have forgotten them or treat them like they are the kids themselves. Thanks for making such a wonderful page. I hope it helps to awake a lot of people in this world."

"I am both parent and child, sometimes thinking I’m the bologna in the middle of the sandwich (generation). Your slideshow brought a tear to my eyes. Ok, several tears. I saw it from both from the parent’s perspective and the child’s. Again, thank you! This is a wonderful slide show."

"What a phenomenal tribute to parenting and an astonishingly real life understanding of what both the elder persons go through AND the responsive feelings and thoughts of the next generation or two to those older people they love and cherish. My heart aches sometimes when I think of how hard WE tried to understand and love my husband's mom (and she us) as she grew older and more dependent on us. God bless you and all those you mentioned were responsible for this heart wrenching and heartwarming look into a real 'reality show'. It was beautifully done with perfect music to complete the wishes!"

"Parents' Wish really moved me. I felt that lump in my throat. I am a nurse working with elderly and these slides are so true and real. They remind me to be patient with my patients. It also made me more appreciative of my mother who is still alive. This wonderful woman I love so dearly. Wilhelmine Adrien Dominica"

"An absolutely beautiful piece. The few who viewed it as a 'guilt trip', they most of all, have not received the message. Dick, Iowa"

"Thank you, what a wonderful treat to have read the Parents' Wish. Hope all children read this, someday they too will be in the same place. Vicky Benedon"

"I have seen so many emails sent by friends, but this is the most beautiful and moving email that I have ever received. Thank you so much."

"It really touch my heart, I was in tears. This should be read by each and every son and daughter in the world. I wish it could happen? Mark NZ"

"I have never seen anything as inspiring and touching as your Parents' Wish video. it serves as a constant reminder that we have so little time and opportunity to thank our parents for everything they did for us while we were growing up. We can never repay them well enough."

"It was fine until it got to the part where it said something about wanting to die and end life in dignity. It sounded to me like asking and/or giving permission for euthanasia."

"I enjoyed listening to Mariah Carey much more because her tight dress made my grandpa so happy. If only he hadn’t had that heart attack when we discussed her attributes. Still I know that he died happy. Thank you for reminding me."

"I am a senior who has been touched to the max by this. I'm nearing many of the stages in this beautiful piece. And how true those feelings are. As I sat with tears running, I sent it off to my children in an attempt to let them know what it's like for us and to please understand. The song 'You Raise Me Up' was just too perfect for the whole piece. Thank you for realizing we are still viable human beings with feelings and for doing such a wonderful job. It's too beautiful for words. Ruth Fisher"

"This was beautiful and heartfelt. My father sent it to me, (Mom has Alzheimer's). I am a nurse in a long term nursing facility, and I deal with this each and every day. I have forwarded this to everyone I know. It will be saved, and viewed many times. Thank You, Kathi Petti"

"It did amazing things for my heart and attitude. Being an only child puts a tremendous amount of strain on your own life as well as those around you, but this video made me really stop and realize the strain my parents go through every day. They are truly as dependent on me now as an adult, as I was of them when I was a child. It seems only fitting that as their child, I am able to give back some of the love and guidance they spent their life giving me. Thank you for a beautiful video. SK"

"What a wonderful tribute to our 'heroes', our parents. It takes becoming a parent yourself to truly appreciate all they do for us, each and every day, no matter our age. Thank you for sharing with the world. What a beautiful song to go along with it. So meaningful. The world needs more of things just like this. Thank you, thank you. Debbie"

"This is so beautiful. But will need to wait for the single parent version, in order to send it to my kids. Again beautiful and very touching."

"Both my parents are ill. My Mother is in a nursing home and she has said the same things to me. People use to ask me 'Why' I didn't put her in a home sooner. I kept my promise to her, that I would not put her in a home until I couldn't care for her anymore. I worked in a nursing home for 21 years and I have been asked many, many times 'Please, just let me die'. this is the best thing I've come across in years. Thank you so much for making it available."

"I have had the privilege of caring for both of my aging parents in their last days. It was an honor. Often I felt I could not live through another day of it but I wish I could go back there today. We had many precious moments together, I only wish I could have more. I hope that someday my children will love me the way I love my parents.  I hope they learned the lesson of love that was displayed before them."

"As both a parent and a grand parent, this was so very moving. Thank you and God Bless You"

"Thanks you so much for sharing Parents Wish with all of us! My hubby and I both have aging parents and it provided us with a much different way of looking at things. You have enriched our lives more than you will every know."

"This was sent to mew by my sister and God bless you. It's the most beautiful thing I've ever seen. Keep up the wonderful work."

"For sure grab the tissues. I just lost my Mom 4 weeks ago and I feel she was sending me a message. I sat for 4 days to watch her die. I held her hand to the very last minute. OH MOM I MISS YOU SO SO BAD. This says all that I have been threw in the past few years. It is truly how I felt about my mom. I was there for her as she was when I was little. Thanks so much. I hope the rest of my family listens to this. Mom until we meet again. My heart is with you."

"I was sent this wonderful video by a friend and sat watching it with tears streaming down my face. Our Mum has had Senile Dementia for many years now and it just seemed to put into words what she is feeling but can not express. Thank you, so much, it was wonderful. Pat in England"

"I love this video! It really makes me sad and that is my biggest fear. I don't want to be old but everybody is going there! I hope my daughter or my son will take care of me. Good video!"

"I'm the Administrator of a small Retirement Community. Several of my resident have seen it and would love to see it as a group. Thank you for producing such a beautiful message. As my staff and I watched it we pointed out certain residents that each portion reminded us of. It was a very tearful experience. Thank You."

"There are so many single parent families, or divorces where mom is on the east coast and dad on the west, or one of them is already passed, possibly a different closing signature or a choice of would be useful."

"This will be WONDERFUL for in servicing nursing home staff and generally for use with residents as well. Thanks for a very touching presentation."

"I have moved my 74 year old mother in with me a couple of years ago to take care of her. Even though I love her with all of my heart, we have a good and bad days. I will definitely put your website in my favorites to visit on our 'bad' days. I am thankful that my friend sent this to me. I will also be sending this to my siblings."

"Too beautiful for words. Thank you. A Parent of Three (3) Grown Children"

"I needed that. I will keep it to play over and over. I feel at times that I'm alone and need to be reminded others are going through the time of life with their elder parents also. God help me to remember ALL my parents did for me and make me more loving when the ears don't hear and I must repeat and repeat and repeat and the knees won't go and are slow."

"I don't think I have ever cried this much for an e-mail. My mom has always told me that if she gets to where she can't take care of herself to just let her die. That's the part that broke me down. I love my mom and my dad so much, I can't imagine my life without either of them."

"When I was 12 I asked my Mom, 'When all 6 of us kids were grown, who will take care of You and Dad?' I don't remember her exact reply but I then said 'I would stay and take care of them' She said 'Thank you but I want you to have a life of your own'. As it turned out I didn't get the chance to keep my promise because Mom died very suddenly.  After watching your presentation I now think I understand how my father is feeling. He wants to be back with Mom, he is doing his very best to get things in order for us 6 kids so that he can leave. I've been bucking this, but now I think I understand and will be more supportive. Love you Mom! Theresa Flaisman Wolf"

"I was proud that I didn't disrespect my Parents by yelling or screaming or calling names like I know some people do. I let her say her piece but I did say some of my concerns. I always remember that God says, 'Honor thy Mother and Thy Father' so sometimes even if they are wrong, you just refrain yourself from the argument and disrespect. All that is in this video is to the tee. It has always happened for me and my siblings, they have brought us up properly and respectfully and I love them dearly. My Parents sent this video to me and I know it is just another way of them saying they always will love me. You are one of the guardian angels that God has watching out for us. Thank You Dearly! Love My Parents Always, Hawaii"

"This is by far the nicest thing I have ever seen on a computer."

July 6, 2006

"I have watched my mother care for my aging grandparents for the last two years prior to their entering an assisted living facility. I found it necessary to forward the movie to my mother and she too was very touched. In the future, when caring for an aging adult, either professionally or within my family, I will always refer back to this movie as it creates understanding instead of frustration and fear. Well Done. HKA"

"This is an incredibly beautiful and touching site and I thank you for making it available to everyone. I've spent time reading every page on the site and can't agree more with all the positive accolades you've received. As a mother and grandmother if there is one thing I would change it would be to request you add at least a couple more senior women to the pages. As it stands now there is exactly one page that is devoted to a senior woman, two pages that show both male and female hands and eleven pages that are exclusively males. You should know I viewed this four times before realizing how few senior women are represented on the pages which speaks to the beauty and touching words found there and of course one can't go wrong with Josh singing."

"I am speechless with tears streaming down my face. What an awesome tribute! Makes one think."

"It is really well done. The pictures are great, the music is right on but the wording makes me feel like I am begging to be taken care of and understood by my children. It should also be shown to caretakers in nursing homes or hospitals or even at-home caretakers. I think that they go thru the routine so often that they forget the humanity of the job. It's still very well done."

"Excellent! It made me cry and think! Having taken care of both parents, and very ill husband, and now a 95 year old aunt. Thank you."

"How moving…thoughtful and wonderfully done. I forwarded this video to so many who have the same thoughts after watching this. This video should be put on TV in commercial spots for all to see and think about."

"This is absolutely undescribably awesome! I have sent it to everyone I have access to online. I keep coming back myself!"

"Thank you so much for such a beautiful story. My kids say they will take care of me but you never know. I emailed a copy of this to each of them. I think it opened some eyes. God bless the writer of this. Millie"

"This piece of art was truly amazing. It was beautiful and was truly spoken from the heart. Being a 16 year old and coming close to having to leave my parents behind and live my own life it showed me what I have to look forward to and showed me to appreciate my parents more and more each and every day. Thank you so much."

"This had me in tears. I was just talking to my daughter today about my parents and how difficult it’s getting. My parents are going through these ordeals now. They each experience what you see here: the forgetfulness, the slowness, the awkwardness, the stubbornness, technology they don’t get. Made me realize that maybe I haven’t been as open-minded, patient, and understanding as I should be. I realize now that I’m the one that has to change my life and ways to help them through this. Thank you for that."

"Thank you so very much for the most wonderful, touching slideshow that I have ever seen."

"Thank you so much for this. It is beautiful. I'm glad to see there are people out there that feel this way about there parents and older adults. You should be very proud of yourself for this. I love it."

"Tears are still pouring down my face as I write this e-mail to thank you for putting to words how my parents must have felt as I so lovingly looked after then before each of their deaths. The song 'You Raise me Up' has always been a favorite of mine and with those pictures and words - it is just so so sad. I miss my parents so much and this inspirational page indeed gives people a chance to see how their parents must feel as they grow old and feel they are just a 'burden' to their family."

"Oh, how right on this movie is! I went through the cycle with both my mother, my mother-in-law, and finally, my father-in-law. And someday, in the not too distant future, it will be our turn. May our children also understand, with gentleness and grace, this final phase of life. Thank you for such a beautiful presentation of it!! Lynn Van Vleet, Spring, Texas"

"Perhaps the most important kitchen table wisdom one could learn is to respect your parents. This tribute is a brilliant way of getting everyone back to basics and to REALIZING what truly is important in life. Go home, get off the cell phone and hug your parents today – who knows what tomorrow will bring."

"Loved this one which was sent to me from my brother in NYC. We love it here in NY state."

"Currently, my mother in law shares our home with our family, it is a joy to have her with us, but then there are 'those times' when it can be taxing. After watching this slide show my eyes were opened, how quickly we forget where we were, not very long ago that she was the strength of the family. Actually she still is. Days turn into weeks that turn into months and this made me realize what a great opportunity we have to learn from her everyday. There will be a time when she is gone. Then we will only have memories, so we all should live each day like it could be our last."

"I really enjoyed this email. I found out that my dad need to have triple bypass and have 2 girls of my own and this really lifted me today. Thank you. Kay Mayberry"

"This was so touching. This needs to be on TV as a commercial - to let teenagers, younger and older people to wake up and take the time to take care of your parents. Tammy Chapman, Columbia, SC"

"I thought that was lovely. It's so sad that most children don't take the time to get to know their parents as people and not just as mum and dad. I lost my dad when I was in my early twentys and my one regret is that I didn't get to know him as a person and not just as dad. Now both parents have gone and they are sorely missed but I thank God that I was lucky enough to have parents and not have bad memories of them as so many people do have."

"This was forwarded to me by a very close friend, who like me is a ‘young’ senior, just recently retired. How wonderful this is; and how awfully true! We have had aging parents and we must all realize that they too, long ago, were young with great hopes for the future. Hopefully our own children will remember we too were young once, and our greatest creations were these children. Thanks for the opportunity to comment and to say THANK YOU."

"I grew up in a not so good family life, my parents had so many troubles, and I ended up being sent here and there, in and out of foster homes. I never felt like this was something I had to do. I wanted to take care of the ones that took care of me as a child! I hope our youth of today read this Presentation! People are just to busy it seems today to care about anyone else but their self. Our world needs more Love in the Families! As I tell my friends who still have the joy of having their parents, spend every day that you can with them, for mine were too young when they passed on. Life is a gift, untie the Ribbon. Enjoy it for tomorrow may never come!!!"

"I will not regret that finally I can cry after I saw this wonderful Parents' Wish. Thanks God I still have a time to show/prove my love to my Parents. Also thank to the ‘creator’ of this ‘short movie’ with everlasting feeling touch. Regards, Oswald-Indonesia (a son and a father)"

"This old man cried knowing everything said in this Parents' Wish is true. My wife and I are experiencing many of the things that are being said. As if they are coming out of our mouths. Not too long. ago we were the ones fussing over our parents. The roles are now reversed. We have lost our feeling of immortality a few years ago. Now living the best we can in the winters of our lives. We do love our son and daughter very much as well as our in laws. And the love lights of our love are our five grandchildren, the families and friends. We are happy. Oscar Apostol Roseville, CA".

"I am forwarding this on to my mother-in-law. Her mother has Alzheimer's and she is having difficulty with her in a lot of these areas. I know it is hard on her to see her mother and best friend slipping away. Her father is hard of hearing and doesn't see very well. He is a very independent man who will not ask for help. Things are deteriorating faster than anyone imagined. Thank you for making this slide show to remind us of the things that are most important."

July 5, 2006

"Very simply put, this is fantastic. I am a 72 year old Dad and Grampy and I have just started to exhibit the signs of what you so beautifully show in this piece. The doctors tell me I will not be getting any better, but I still have enough to send this to my kids and grandkids so that they may more fully understand what we are going to be going through. God Bless you for helping me to prepare them for the journey. I was just wondering how to tell them when a friend sent this to me. Problem solved."

"For the moment, I had to stop. I just could not continue reading and listening to this absolutely beautiful (to put it mildly) piece of artwork because I could not see through the tears. This creation must have been designed by someone who has faced many, if not all of the issues that are addressed throughout the entire video. It is that reason that began the tears, and that, combined with the lyrics, which I am sure have gotten to many, many, grateful mothers, (such as myself) finished me off. I'll have to try again another time when I am alone. Sue Pyron Acworth, GA"

"I just wanted to tell you how beautiful this Parents' Wish email is. I loved it. Thank you."

"Words cannot express how touched I was by this video--But. I just want you to know that it was presented with so much sensitivity for all ages."

"What a wonderful way to convey to your children your wishes for them and yourself in your last years. Beautifully done and it makes this delicate subject so beautiful and meaningful to both parties. I wish we could get more e-mails like this and that the whole TV world could see this so true to life video especially our new younger generation."

"As a healthcare provider caring for mainly elderly patients, this piece was especially touching. Each day I see patients who once were vibrant, productive people in society, raising families, working at careers, now reduced to confused, helpless souls. Whenever we come in contact with an elderly person in our daily lives, we should stop and think that once they were as young as we, as vibrant, as healthy - and that someday we will all walk in their shoes and should give them the respect we would so hope to receive ourselves."

"I just received and played this beautiful Parents' Wish. I sent it to both daughters. Yes I read it but cried all the way through it . I will keep it and try again with out tears!"

"This was the most outstanding slide show I have ever seen. I was my mother's care giver for several years. Unfortunately, I lost her this year. The one thing I am thankful for is that I always had time for her and saw her on a daily basis. I've been married for many years but parents were always a priority in mine and my husband's life. It's so hard losing them but I think to lose them and have regrets would be unbearable. This slideshow brought back so many memories - it was beautiful."

"This is absolutely beautiful!! There are no words to describe it. As a senior mother and grandmother, this really has a wonderful meaning. Thanks for sharing this with me."

"Truly touched by this wonderful presentation. God Bless you and most of all God Bless all the seniors in this world. May he give us strength to see them through this critical time of life and prepare us for the inevitable. Sueva Molinaro"

"Very beautiful and very very well put. I worked in a Nursing Home and Retirement Home and can very well understand this. Well done."

"A wonderfully touching and moving song and pictures. I I don't have either of my parents anymore and miss them and will always be thankful to them. I am - like all of us getting older and am now on the other side of life and know that time is running out slowly but surely. Where would we be without our start in life through our parents who we are a part of, and where on earth would we be without their unconditional support. Their love is irreplaceable. Lorna Brown from England. Now in Los Angeles.

"Just a wonderful way to remind us children how much our parents mean to us. My Mom is getting on in age and is slowing down in the mind and sometimes my kids and me, can get a little impatient with her, but this slide show really reminded us of what she has done for us and what we need to do for her."

"Truly touching! I loved it. Please correct to, "We love you, Child."

"My family is currently going through exactly the same thing with our mother. She fell and broke her hip and has been having a hard time getting well. We see daily improvement but she has her days when she wants to just die and get out of the pain. Other days she is glad we fought to keep her alive. Your beautifully done slideshow explains better than anyone could what it is like to grow old. Thank you for putting it together.

"The slideshow was made very well, and had wonderful transitions. There are only three minor bad things. One was the song. It sounded like it was trying way too hard to be emotional, and came off as overkill. On the same line, some of the messages were emotional to the point of being corny. And that leads to the only bad thing that actually infuriated me. It was using ellipses (...) at the end of every single sentence. It is extremely annoying to read that. That last sentence had no air of mysticism. It's just annoying. A bit too emotional, like those commercials for the Christian funds raising food for starving children, but otherwise, generally good job."

"Thank you so much for the Parents' Wish. My husband and I are going through a lot right now trying to take care of my Mom (which I finally had to put in the nursing home) who has Alzheimer's, his Mom whom has several health problems, sometimes it is so trying. I thank you for this . RW"

"I know that it will touches everyone's heart. It touches mine that I even cried. I am so embarrass because I am feeling this to my mother that I love so dearly. It open up my heart and beginning to understand more about her situation. I know that it's not too late for me to do the right thing and to show my mom how I really love her and wanted to be with her longer so she can see my youngest child to grow up. I still have a lot of things to learn and my mom will be the best teacher for this. Thank you for giving me the chance to read this very beautiful letter/slide show"

"This is beautiful and I couldn’t help but cry reading it. Everyone should be able to see this, especially when you are a young adult or adult when you feel so good healthy and top of the world so you will never forget the struggles and pains your parents took to get you there. Remember, they ask of you so very little as they get old, to listen, to spend little time with them to include them in your life. This is a beautiful and touching illustration."

"This is the most beautiful e-mail I have ever received and it really hit home. My mother passed after our 20 year fight with Alzheimer's. She left with dignity from her own little bed surrounded with everyone she loved. It was a difficult time for my dad and I caring for Mom alone at home but we wouldn't have had it any other way. Now, I care for my dad who is so lonely without the love of his life of 72 years. He says all he has to do is sleep and think about Mom ~ The site is perfect and so true. Cindy"

"Thank you so much for such a meaningful and true aspect of our lives. I have a sister with Alzheimer's and it is so sad, but yet touching to be with her. I just love Josh Groban and have his music. The song 'You raise me up' is definitely the best that you could have chosen for this presentation."

"I've seen the Parents' Wish presentation and I must admit I was touched by it! I am a Catholic Priest in the Bicol Region, Philippines. How I wish many Filipinos would be able to see it as it would surely help in strenghtening family values."

"Thank You, Thank You!!! Finally a wonderful message for all ages to truly ponder and keep in our thoughts."

"This is the most inspirational and moving video I have ever seen. It say's it all. A picture is worth a thousand words! Thank you so much!"

"How very beautiful and touching. I was crying by the end because I have lost both my parents and miss them so much. I think those who thought this was encouraging euthanasia are wrong. My mother suffered a long time with cancer and she was ready to die. She held on until she was sure that we would take care of my father and that we would be ok. Only then did she let herself go. Our gift to her was telling her it was ok to go. It was the hardest thing I've ever had to do but she needed the release. Thank you for putting this out so everyone can read it. Sharon"

"It's a wonderful and thoughtful creation. I lost my father a few years ago and I wish he lived longer to see his children and grand children grow. My mum continues caring me like her baby. I cherish her love and care. I thank GOD for letting my mum be close and supportive to my life. I wish my kids too understand the parental love and live a caring and a family bonded life. I love my parents and enjoy being a parent. I always care and will continue to do so... David from Sri Lanka"

July 4, 2006

"It was quite enjoyable, beautifully made and the music appropriate. As a single mom, I would never be able to send it to my children, because there is no 'Dad' participating in my daughters' lives. Whether a parent faces raising children as a widow/widower, a divorced person, a single parent by choice, it would be nice to have one that is from 'Mom' or from 'Dad' to utilize."

"A wonderful message. I just spent the last three months of my dad's life with him, and I hope I was able to fulfill his wishes."

"Thank you. What a fantastic way to show my growing sons how much I love him and how much I might need them one day. Thank you!"

"Thanks for putting this on the email! I'm taking care of my 80 years old mom for last two years. I had to quick my job and do with let....but Mom and Dad did without for me when I was a kid!"

"I’m completely speechless!"

"I am an in home care giver for the elderly. Parents' Wish is on the money. I always try to explain to others that the elderly are like children. But, there is one big difference, they have EARNED our respect. The elderly depend on us as we did on them. A little advice, don't get frustrated with the elderly, they cannot help it. Just hope they do not realize how much they need us. Always treat them with dignity and give them choices. Remember, we all will be in their shoes."

"I loved the movie, love Josh Groban too. Just one thing bothered me and that is the comments that speak to ending one's life rather than letting God have control, as I believe He is the one who should decide. Many times I've seen hospice nurses carefully make sure that those who are dying are comfortable and even at home with their families. I appreciate them so much! Thank you for letting me comment. S. Oregon"

"Thank you for the putting the best video I have ever seen together. It made me realized those unhappiness and grumbles I have with my parents seemed trivial. I will constantly remind myself that I was once young and how much love and sacrifices they have made for me. They now deserve more of my time and attention. Janice, Singapore"

"That Parents Wish is beautiful. I just lost my dad June 20th and just received it and it reminded me of my dad. Thanks again for sharing it."

"This was the most beautiful site I have ever seen. I had a good cry, because at this time my mother is failing in health and am dealing with it like the story says too. At times it is hard but I just sit back and remember the times with my parents."

"I cannot begin to tell you how much this means to me. I have had Josh's closer ever since it came out. You Raise Me Up was a song I heard him sing on Good Morning America. I sent this to all my friends. It reminds me of my mom before she passed away. Takes me right into the holy place with God. Wonderful. The greatest email I have ever received. Nina, AL"

"It is a very moving song. My parents are getting older and I feel so lucky to still have them in my life. They mean the world to me. I have sent this to my friends and hope it moves them to."

"Truly, truly beautiful! And so very true. I took care of my mother for a year until she was full care and had to be put into a nursing home. My mom took care of her mom when she was dying, I was 5 years and then my kids watched me take care of mine so I'm hoping that they will do the same for my husband and I. This is truly heartfelt to me- i cried like a baby-god bless you all- old and young.

"Your video seems so beautiful and touching as one first views it, but it smacks of accepting euthanasia and mercy-killing. I want my children to know that God is the author of my life and He will decide when to end it, not me, even if I am depressed and no longer want to live. I hope my children keep making me eat and drink, in so helping them to respect life and it gifts; to see that even in our suffering we are joined to our life source, the One, True Creator, GOD, whose Son, Jesus Christ has suffered, so we may live gloriously forever! Thanks for you time! Kathy"

"I received the link to Parents' Wish on the 4th of July 2006 and I have now listened to it five times. My heart is touched and the words express my exact thoughts and the music is perfect. This is a classic and should be remembered as the great site. I sent this link to my children with the hope that they will be touched also. Brenda L. Hudson"

"So touching and moving. It really made me think of my parents. My father has gone on to heaven, my mother is 83 years old. I certainly will think before I get frustrated at her because she can't hear as well as I can, sometimes she moves slower than me, or she is hard headed or maybe just independent. All in all this was wonderful! I thank GOD for a CHRISTIAN childhood. Thank you so much. Linda Freeman-Hurricane, WV"

"Incredibly beautiful . Thank you to whoever put this together."

"I was so moved by this. Its unbelievable. I lost my Dad 6 years ago to a number of illnesses. He needed a Kidney and I wanted to give him one of mine, but he told me he wanted to die, he didn't want to be here any longer and I couldn't understand why he chose to leave me but now thanks to Parents' Wish it has made dealing with losing him a little easier. Thank You you don't know how much this has helped me. Corrie Fleeger"

"God, and only God, should choose when and where we will pass on. And God, will also determine where our next life will be; Heaven, Hell or Los Angeles, California"

"Thank you for this extremely moving video. I am in tears as I write. I will send it to my remaining daughter and my grandchildren, and to all my friends with computers. The message is priceless."

"I cried so much. The words are very true to life and is so touching. The lyrics linger in my thoughts for days and nights and I feel very sorry for those who have unfilial children. I like to request, if you should have any CD/DVD please let me know. I will like to purchase a few to present to my friends and especially to those who have children really need it."

"Thank you for this! My husband is not well and it will help some of our children understand what he is going through."

"This beautiful thank you so very much. Bill and Gaye Crowl. May god be with your project."

"The first time I viewed it I sat crying, but it wasn't a sad cry but a cry to realize the depth of human love and kindness and the circle of life. I only hope our children can appreciate it. When I sent it to a friend of mine, she used it as her wedding song when her dad danced with her!! It's beautiful to be able to touch people in their hearts and make them see that love between parents and children is truly ageless!! Thank you for creating it, Yvonne in Sheepsheadbay Brooklyn." 

July 3, 2006

"It is a lovely show and very beautiful. The music is good too. I think for some situations this would fit. Some children are raised in loving and caring homes. There are parents out there who are kind to their children and love them in the true sense of love. However, not every child lives in that environment or had at one time. We need to keep that in mind too. The movie is moving yes, but let's not get so up in emotions that we forget the kids whose parents do abuse them. Again, not every parent is abusive, but there are those who are."

"This is simply stunning! My mother is slowly dying of pancreatic cancer. God has given us 22 months since her first diagnosis. In January 2006 we felt she had less than six weeks. God is so Good. She has been teaching her daughter, granddaughters, and great-granddaughter to quilt and piece a quilt."

"A very wonderful and touching video. A good reminder for everybody on how our parents unconditionally and lovingly brought us up. Guiding us all the way without any complaint, just pure love. May we all give the same kind of unconditional love to our respective parents. No complaints or heavy hearts from us, just pure love.  Joy Robles"

"I take care of my mother, she lives with me. I will remember to think of this every time I get angry or up set with her. Who ever this is from THANK YOU!"

"That was so moving, and get a younger person thinking about there parents and how to help them more. To appreciate all the things they have done for us, and is still doing for us. we should always remember the love that our parents and grandparents have showed us!"

"I sent this to all the parents I knew including my daughter (she is a very good mother and I am proud of her). She does like to tease me and correct me some times, tell me when I have already told a story (Ha), but always with love. This says it all. I cried all the way through it. I love it. It says more than I could ever think to say."

"Thank you so much for this beautiful parents wish. I work in a Retirement and Nursing home community and I truly wish that the children of these dear older people would be able to see Parents' Wish. I would hope that it would make some of them take time from their all to busy lives to visit the parent they have placed in our care. "

"I lost my mother in 2004 to Alzheimer's and my father last year to kidney failure. My husband and I cared for them for the last six years and we became very close. I miss them terribly, this pulled at my heart strings very hard. It definitely made me sob and made me feel that they were actually thanking me for understanding all of the feelings they had, all of which you mentioned and more. Thank You For Sharing. Audrey in California "

"This slideshow is just absolutely wonderful. I forwarded it to my two oldest children."

"As a representative of a hospice program responsible for the training and education of staff and volunteers, your movie Parents' Wish would be great for all."

"The video is fine and the message is succinct, but it takes way too long to tell the tale. All of the text floating in from space is overkill. If it was cut down to a total of two minutes maximum, it would've been much better received."

"We are 72, reaching for the sky at this point in our lives. Thank you for these few moments of thought and love. I shall shed a tear and move on."

"Mom and dad, Thank you for the lessons you two have taught me. Seeing this video makes me see just how close you two are from going home. It's bitter sweet but part of living is dying. So knowing what reward is waiting for you two for a job well done is comforting to me. I just want you to know while you two are still here I love you to thank you with all my heart Your son Billy"

"This was beautiful. Now I know that I was a good daughter. I always told my mother that she would never be put in a rest home. When she could no longer do for herself, I would. She raised me from the time I was born; now it is my turn to take care of her. I miss my mother. She passed away a little over three months ago.  I sat there, after she passed, and talked to her. I told her that I was angry that she left me but I knew that she was no longer in pain and that she is now free."

"Truly a beautiful piece that brought tears to my eyes and a lump in my throat. It will continue to remind me to have more patience with my aging father, as he has always been there for me. We expect too much when changes in memory happen, and we must remember it's frustrating for them as well. I look forward to sharing this with other friends and family, as it was shared with me."

"Thanks so much for such a wonderful inspirational between Moms, Dads and children. More awesome things should be written to bring families together without selfishness. Everyone I sent this email to got a great response. Keep up the good work and I feel more blessed just reading it. May God Bless Love You! Doreen Clark"

"This is beautiful! My mother is bad with Alzheimer's but is lucky that my father is still with her 24/7 and gets most credit for taking care of her. I liked your comment about just being there to talk to her. She can not walk at all and sometimes I feel useless. You confirmed that just my being with her and talking to her is very important. Bless you for making such a beautiful and meaningful screen. B.Williams, Chesterfield, Mo.

"That was a wonderful video. I work as a care aide and have 3 younger children, it makes you think of your own mortality and how true it is."

"I opened it in the morning at my office and I started crying but was smiling at the same time. It had touched me so much that I feel like I wanted to talk to my mom and dad and tell them that I love them so much and no words could explain that. I will forward this to all of my friends so they can remember to remember all the things that our loving parents did for us and in return we should do the same thing."

"There are no words to express what I feel right now. Hearing and watching this presentation brought tears to my eyes. I think of the many times I get so angry when my poor Honeybunch isn't able to do the things he once did, when he sleeps so often when we watch a movie together or when he complains about his back or his aching bones. How does he put up with me and doesn't complain but instead, he says how much he loves me and is so glad he met me and he's so happy I'm here with him. I hope I can change and be more understanding and patient. Thanks for sharing it."

July 2, 2006

"Mere words I cannot find to express just how beautifully touched I was when I listened to Parents' Wish. Truly a work of art! Carol Palmer College Station, Texas"

"Just want to let you know this was the most moving site I have ever seen from a parents perspective. I sent it to my own two daughters plus to my friends who have children for them to pass on. Most of us love our children unconditionally, which is not always returned, but I pray that this will soften hard hearts as well as give gratitude, and foresight to those children who love us.. very inspiring and fantastic song to accompany this amazingly haunting topic. Praise His name and thank you.. Karin.....in Australia."

"I think this is meaningful and would hit many people hard but it is totally inappropriate for a parent to send to a child. Coming from that source it is nothing but a guilt trip."

"The fact that families, children and parents are not valued particularly in places like America is a result of a system that pits people against each other and views individuals as commodities. If people spent less time chasing that almighty dollar which most people in America never attain anyway and spent more time to fighting against a government that certainly is not about freedom or democracy in America or anywhere else for that matter maybe they would be a lot happier. Frankly I find these works silly, sophomoric and a bit insulting to one's intelligence."

"My father and mother sent this e-mail to me today and I opened it this morning and have not stopped thinking about it all day. I just played it again for my husband. It has touched us and it is so true what it says thank you for putting something liked that out there to share with others."

"Wow. I am a geriatric physician. I wish I could get and 8x10 of each screen to hang as a collage in my office. I tried printing them but they didn't turn out."
[Webmaster's note: A printable copy of the words of the slideshow can be found by clicking here.]

"As far as I read every one's comment, I did not see one comment saying it was awful. The reason it is awful, what can be so nice as to remind us of bad things us went through in life, and the bad things to come as yet. Memories suppose to be nice things, and as we age we should all be looking forward to nicer things, than to be reminded of what is in store for us."

"Thanks for what you have done to get and keep this out. I needed this."

"I have watched it 2 times and have sent it to my brothers and my son and my daughter....I lost my Dad 3 years ago and this really touched me...Thank you so much."

"I was truly touched after watching. Thank you so very much for sharing this with all people. I sent it to my daughters because I can never express myself to them. You did it for me. THANK YOU!!!!! Truly Yours, A Kansas mother"

"I am at a loss for words to describe the impact. It truly hits home- a grand slam."

"What a wonderful piece of advice and support to all of us who are caregivers, while siblings ignore, steal from, and turn their backs on their parents who had given so much."

"What a beautiful video - I work in a nursing home.........this is just perfect....I hope everyone sees this soon...."

"This is by far the best e-mail I have ever gotten in my life!!!! My Mom died last year when I was seven months pregnant with my first child. I have tears of joy and sorrow. My tears of joy is for my son that he may one day read this. In doing so he will understand what it means when parents grow old. My tears of sorrow come from missing my Mom and knowing I could never share this e-mail with her. Thank you for taking the time to use technology to do something so beautiful. Sincerely, Carol"

"What an awesome video. A Yahoo fellow list member posted it on her email and I just now viewed it, with tears in my eyes. It reminds me of all the emotions coming forth in the interactions with my ever vivacious, loving mother, now 82 years old and experiencing some memory loss. Thank you for all your hard work in making sure it remains on the internet for all to see. Carol Bilbrey"

"I am an RN who works in hospice. This would be so helpful to my hospice families. I pray you get the copy write issues resolved soon. I feel certain Mr. Groban would love for his music to be a part of something so beautiful and needed."

"The scene about 'wanting to die' is inappropriate and offends many religious beliefs. It truly spoils an otherwise dedicated effort to relate old age and its infirmities to our children and solicit their love and compassion. A deletion or modification is very much needed."

"As I sit here this morning with my own Mother lying in a hospital bed in her room getting ready to make her final journey , your video touched me deeply, brought tears coursing down my face, but left a joy in my heart knowing I have been able to give her her final wish to end her life in peace and dignity surrounded by those she loves. Thank you from the bottom of my heart."

"My Big brother sent this to me...I was very touched by it. You all did a wonderful JOB!!! God bless and keep you!"

"It is a very true and wonderful slide show. Really gets you to think more on how our parents feel in their older age. Thanks for creating it."

July 1, 2006

"Thanks so much...It is absolutely beautiful."

"This wonderful poem and music was so heart warming and made me think back about both my husband and mother who died three months apart, just two years ago. I can still remember my mother always saying that she wanted to be with God and that she was waiting at the top of the mountain for him. My husband was not a religious person, nor I, but after listening to this I feel that though we do not go to church, God is in our hearts. I have listened to this and read the poem many times and I thank the person who did such a fine job of it. Just thinking about it brings tears to my eyes."

"My parents would never keep reminding me what they did for me. I was a gift from God and in their charge, also my parents wouldn't say they want to die. My parents might say that they are ready to go home to the Lord and I won't needed to be told how to treat my Mom and Dad."

"I thought the music and the pictures were beautiful. I agreed with parts of the video, but not all of it. I believe that older individuals may need to be handled somewhat differently, especially if they are at a stage where they need help either physically or mentally. They may, in fact, need to be told to eat for the benefit of their health. I also think that if you have a loving relationship with your children, they will naturally take care of you out of love, not out of guilt. I felt that parts of this video invoked feelings of guilt rather than simple love and loyalty."

"Totally awesome I sobbed my heart out!! Whoever did this- I thank you!"

"Years ago my Mother came to stay with us after she had cancer. So many things on your video rang true.  We were really blessed everyday that we were able to have her here with us for that short time that she stayed with us and she always said that she never wanted to go to a nursing home and we told her she never ever would. This video is priceless. I cried from start to finish. Thank you."

"This was beautiful and touching. All fathers and mothers should make their children aware of their wishes. I had a brother who should not have had his life prolonged as a vegetable in a nursing home for eight years because his 5 children loved him and didn't want to let him die. It would have helped them to let him go without guilt if he had told them his wishes before the accident. Sandy N. Port Richey, FL"

"This song is so beautiful, I went through this with my parents and now my children will have to go through this with me and my husband (80 and 85 years old) but I hope this will make them think about old age and know that life will not always be like it is for them today."

"I have turned this on 4 times to watch, and cry as hard each time. So touching. I too, lost my mother and saw her deteriorate and unable to take care of herself. I am so happy that I looked after her, and gave her the love and support that she needed in her old age. JO"

"I have never seen anything so heart warming, and true in all my life.........God Bless our parents!"

"I am a 67 year old male and I still cry when I watch It, and have sent it to many !!!"

"Very touching and poignant."

"This is wonderful, I sent it to my daughter and her children. My Grandson (age 11) offers his shoulder for me to steady myself and my granddaughter always help me up and down stairs. I could see myself and millions of others in this beautiful video. Thanks"

"It was very heart warming and also made me a little sad. Hoping I was not like this to my parents. They both died so quickly. They were so loving and kind.  I know I think of them a lot and have missed them all these years. My problem is that I have not been able to forward this on to many of my friends."

"I would just like to say thank you to and for the person or people who have put this beautiful and most heartfelt message on the web! It has touched my heart and I'm sure it has touched many others and is continuing to touch more hearts! It really makes you think of how we can take for granted our parents sometimes and how it's important to love them, respect them and cherish them because without God they wouldn't have been here nor have you and I."

"Wow! Wow! This is so powerful. What a wonderful way to share life's experiences with your children. I'm a mom and grandma and not in the best of health but I sure want my kids to know I love them with all my heart and I know they love me and now you showed me the way. Thank you soooo much. Pat in Fla"

"This is just so awesome. As I sit here trying to see through the tears to type this thanks for true meaning to real life. At 77 years of a blessed life and reflection of the times with my parents, especially my mother who lived to be 99 1/2 years old. I can see history repeating itself. God bless you for this great word. Dorothy T."

"I just received this through my yahoo messenger and to my curiosity I opened it and I found something, something that made me think about my parents. Something that made me realized how much I love them and how much I care for them and not just for them but also for my grandparents. This is a very beautiful poem dedicated for all the parents in this world. I hope everyone will know about this.- Thyrde"

"This was so beautiful and it brought tears to my eyes. I only hope my children will see this and maybe understand us a little better. We are not there yet but we are not far off and our children still expect us to be the same as we were many years ago. They do not have much patience for 'old age' and this can be very frustrating. Thanks for a beautiful way to tell them!!"

"This is incredibly touching. We are two very devoted young parents, who think, work and live our lives for our two beautiful sons. All we want in return is for them to respect us and not throw us in the streets, but what better way to convey the message than this beautiful, marvelous, breathtaking, and tear-bringing message and music? You've done such a wonderful job. It's hard to think that we're going to get old, but we should accept it and hope that our children will respect and one day they will understand how much they mean to us. Migena Alikaj"

"Beautiful job. I now have my mother in a nursing home and some days it becomes trying and this is the most awesome thing I have ever seen besides God's creation. Thank you so much."

"I cried all the way through it. Had to watch it twice to see it all. I wish I could express myself that well."

"Absolutely loved it........I cried the whole way through."

"Thank you for a wonderful reminder. As I sit here preparing to take my elderly parents to my son's wedding five hours away, I needed to be reminded on how precious they are to me. How blessed I am to have them here with me and to enjoy this day. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. 'DC' Florida"

"I wanted to thank you for doing such a great slide show. It makes me understand as a child, my parents point of view. Did I cry? Of course I did. It was very emotional and a job very well done. Thanks!"

"I cried as yesterday was the second anniversary of my mother's passing and in three weeks it will be the third anniversary of my father's passing. Losing both parents in just eleven months of each other was very hard but I somehow think my mother wanted to be with my father. I will send this to my children and hope they see what I saw- a beautiful presentation not to be missed. Thank you for the time and energy you put in to something so compelling."

"It's absolutely beautiful. I lost my Mom and Dad last year and seeing this made me understand some of the things they said to me."

"I wept when I viewed this. This piece went straight to my very core. But please, may I make a suggestion? In the first frames, remove the phrase 'had to' from the parents' memories of caring for their children. Simply remove that phrase, which implies reluctance and a sense of drudgery, and is not needed. 'We read to you a thousand and one times the same story until you went to sleep...' 'We chased you with your thousand excuses to get you to the shower...' With unconditional love, freely given to the young and to the very old, the heart does not recognize 'have to'.
[Webmaster's note: Good point. I'll bear that in mind when we do our next revision of the slideshow.]

"This is an excellent show. It really tugged my heartstrings! I've never received an email as touching as this. This is a very perfect piece for both parents and children. It reminds us that growing old is really inevitable. It allows us to realize the unique love and care that only parents can give to their children."

"Wish I could have shared this with my parents and grandparents."

"So many feelings, so many emotions, so many thoughts. I have walked this road, and I am a better person because of it. The pride I have from the role I played in those last 4 to 5 years of my dads life will stay with me forever. To all who were a part of a Parents Wish thank you. Lets make God proud of all of us. God bless to all. Tommy"

June 30, 2006

"Thanks for the great job. I am the chaplain for Springhill Fire and Rescue and Hernando County Fire and Rescue. I put the address on my chaplains web page and word got back to me that some of the fire fighters (men ) cried when they viewed it. Great job."

"I'm sitting here with tears still flowing down my face, I have sent this to my own three children, every word is so true. It is positively the most beautiful an emotional e-mail I have ever received. Thank you to everyone that contributed to this incredible piece."

"Thank you! It is so easy to be impatient when we are in a hurry or something. It doesn't mean there isn't a HEAP of love there. Thanks for slapping me back to what is important. I hope that I can always be exactly what my Mom needs. I will always remember these words and thoughts whenever I am with my Mom! Cathie, Warrenville, Illinois"

"I have shed a many tears just watching it.  I lost my parents, a sister is the one that went through the feeding. I need one for me to watch while thinking. I went to a daughters house in Indiana. God Bless You-Clara Cole"

"Our Daughter sent this e-mail to us, and it is so beautiful and inspiring, love it, even though it makes me cry. Thank you, Mrs. Dale (Ruth),  Hallett, Lyons, OH"

"Thank you for this wonderful piece. I had just sat down with my son who is 23 only a few days before I got this from a friend, and told him how much I loved him, as I have at every opportunity. I sent this to him and he said he cried nearly all afternoon over how beautiful it is. I know there will be times when I am a problem to him but, I know his love for me is very deep and that he will rise to the occasion and be there to help all he can. Corrine Steer"

"This was a very moving and touching video for me. It reminds me of my 90 year old grandmother who raised me and to see what she is going thru and knowing her wishes to let her live her life to the fullest the way she wants. God Bless you for this."

"Well, I just cried a bucket. The film has made me (and my husband watched it) realize, not that I didn't before, that we become our 'Parent's Parents' when they cannot take care of themselves. Joanne"

"My mother had dementia and it was very hard for me to see her go backwards the way she did and that I could no longer carry on a conversation with her. I also know this may happen to me some day and is a little scary. I sent it to our daughters because it is exactly how I feel. It was so beautiful and brought tears to my eyes."

"Thank you for sharing this wonderful tribute. God Bless You."

"My sisters and I are taking care of my mother, age 87 who has Alzheimer's as well as colon cancer. A great reminder for us and a message needed for everyone. Barb"

"Beautifully done. Thank you."

"I am an only child and have been a caregiver of elderly parents for 11 years now. A friend told me about the website. I sat and cried as I listened to this. It is a good reminder how important it is to remain involved in our elderly lives and it helps to see things in a different perspective. Have compassion and respect for them for we to will be in this same position one day. Jan…Georgia"

"This is the most amazing e-mail I or anyone has ever read or seen. Thank you for allowing me to share this."

"This just hits right in my heart. Our seniors are the book of wisdom, we can learn a lot from them. I lost a wonderful dad I would have done anything for and I was blessed with 2 wonderful grandparents and I have learned great lessons from them about compassion and family. I thank God for crossing my path with them."

"AMEN and Amen!"

"This e-mail brought out so much emotion, that I just sobbed my way through. My mother is 94 has Alzheimer's, cannot walk, has to be washed and dressed and has to wear diapers. She is still at home and we, her children take turns caring for her. Sometimes it is hard to get her to eat. When I saw this e-mail I realized this is not important but she is. Thank You. Norma"

"My name is Leanne. I'm 23 years old. Yesterday, as I went back home with my dog from the park and McDonald's, my papa was in the mood and happy. He told me that there's this site he wants to view with me. At first, I really do not have any idea on what is it all about. When it played, I began to cry in front of my papa. He's telling me that 'this is what me and your mama wish for as we are getting older now. In our age, its not to lived but to survived.'  I was so touched and can't help crying everytime I view it. It's a wonderful movie to share to everyone."

"My gratitude to those who created this video. I need this loving reminder as my parents age. I am reminded of our reciprocal love and their need for dignity. I pray for God’s guidance as my parents age and for someone’s loving hand as my husband and I grow old. Thanks again for a loving tribute to life."

"Thank you for sharing this treasure of memories and reminders of all the unselfish acts of love and parenting that so many of us were the lucky recipients of.  I was filled with deep emotion and sadness because we all need to be made aware and reminded frequently that we must take the time to support, love and lend dignity to our parents as they are faced with aging and many of the symptoms of debilitating illnesses that some of them will experience. The unknown author was able to put into words all the thought, feelings and emotions that many parents experience."

"I am a nurse that graduated from the Philippines and have served the elderly and the geriatric population in the USA for over 15 years especially the Veteran Population. I could very much relate to the slide show that I viewed in your website. It was done so beautifully. The background music and the presentation was superb. I was so emotionally touched by it."

"What a beautiful slide show, how touching."

"WOW! This touched me as a parent and as a child. It made me think about my parents, and how difficult they are now that they are in their 70's. It also made me want my children to know how I feel, and will feel when I am that old. Thank you so much for such an inspiring site. You made me cry, in joy and heart ache. A. Nation, NC, USA"

"Going through hard times right now with a mother who is ill and needs lots of attention - this humbles me into not complaining and I don't want to not be able to view it as needed!"

"Wonderful video - I look forward to receiving and sharing it!"

"This is such a beautiful message. Thanks for sharing it!!!!!!"

"I am a nursing assistant in a hospital and a health care center. I wish they would show this during orientation for all our new hires. It gives you a different view of those you will be caring for. Syrina Podeweltz"

"Thank you so much for spending the time in putting this together. It is the most wonderful way of saying what millions of parents would like to have but could not say to there children. My wife and I are two of those people. I cannot tell you how much this has meant to us to be able to email to our children. Bill and Lorna Wilson"

"The Parents' Wish was just beautiful. My wife and I have adopted Josh's song in honor of our disabled daughter who passed away on June 25, 2003. When we hear that song it inspires us tremendously and we think of the good times we had with her all of her 39 years. May you produce more works like this. Charles and Margaret, Baltimore, Maryland"

"My 90 year old mother is in better health than most 80 year olds, so this made me think how special she is and I need to remember that when I get annoyed with her. It is a beautiful piece and I believe I read it this morning because she is spending part of the day with me. Sandy Wichita KS".

"I loved this video and would love to have it to show to our church. Sometimes people forget all their parents have done for them and too many times they are placed in Nursing homes and forgotten. Thank you for being willing to develop this and share with us. I know God will bless your efforts and touch many hearts. Respectfully, Connie Rhyne"

"This was the most beautiful slide show I have ever seen. It really struck a chord with us, and a wonderful reminder for the care and concern we have for our elders, Thank you. M. Forney"

"This has to be the most beautiful thing I have ever heard and seen. My eyes are drenched from crying; it really hits home and gives me a new perspective to try harder and be more patient. Thank you from all my heart."

"Thanks for what you have done to get and keep this out. I needed this!"

"I was in tears reading and listening those beautiful and inspiring message with Josh Groban song as a background. It is fantastic! I know it is hard to be old even though I am still 29 years and single, getting old is one of my fears in life. It is served as a reflections for us young adults, to love our grandma and our parents unconditionally as they did to us. They are our angels!"

"Before my husband passed away from ALS in October 2004 he loved it when I sang along with this song when they played in on our religious station in Southern California. Thank you so much--I love Josh Groban. Caroline Bryant"

"It was really touching and as child it moves me so much regarding my attitude towards my parents and as a teacher I am also hoping that I may be able to make my students view this amazing and touching presentation so that they may value much their parents because as you know teenager resort to rebellion whenever their parents tried to mend their lives."

"I cried buckets of tears, it was so beautiful."

June 29, 2006

"The music really blends with the story and it is very touching. I recently loss my mother and this movie made me realized the value of patience and understanding towards our parents when they reach old age. Thank you for sharing this wonderful story."

"Wonderful, is all we can say. We're at that age now, and we tried to understand our parents problems as they got older, so we hope our kids can understand what we're going thru now. They're all great kids, but have so much going on in their lives now (and with the fast pace of today's world) -- it's hard to 'stop and smell the roses'"

"I wish I could have sent this to my father before he passed away. Also sitting here trying to type with the tears running down my face. Loved it. Thank You. Keep up the good work."

"Absolutely beautiful!! I love it for my elderly father and pray that my own children will love it for me!! Thank You"

"My husband and I can't express enough how touching this video is. Thank you for sharing it with the world. I have sent it to so many friends and family. We are all approaching this time in our lives. I hope my children will pay attention to it. I feel many days that I am about there. May the Lord bless you for the good you are doing in the world. Creig and Sharon Jewkes, Utah"

"This is a beautiful and inspiring video. Thank you for sharing it with the world. We need more things like this."

"Thank you. Very powerful and a good reminder."

"The movie and the music fit perfectly. I am deeply touched and deeply appreciate the person who designs this, although this is the second time I view the movie, my tears still well-up. In this modern era, there are many children out there who have no filial piety towards their parents, this would certainly arouse their conscience. As for myself, it makes me think of my mother of 80 years old who is living alone, I should have spent more time with her. Thank you very much for everything."

"Wow! A truly beautiful, poignant and inspiring presentation. May all children view it and learn from it."

"I thank God for elderly parents who taught me to work and earn an honest living. They taught me to have a lot of patience and respect for people and their property. If a person has a loving family, they are truly rich. All the money in the world cannot erase the wonderful memories of a family's love during good times and bad times. I wish that all families would love each other more than a lot of things. Walker in LA.

"If anyone who ever reads this worked in geriatrics like I do and still has a negative feedback I would like to know if you have a soul? My childhood wasn't the greatest either but as a friend just brought to my attention, you can't just see the black and white all the time you have to look for the gray sometimes. Who ever put this together definitely has a soul."

"What a beautiful piece--I'm still brushing tears. Makes me think about my children's Father. My parents -so many thoughts..Thank you for putting out such a great Parents' wish."

"This is one of the most beautiful things I have ever viewed on computer. I have sent it to my daughter and hope that she listens to it and that it soaks in. My parents are both gone but sure wish I would have listened to something like this before they passed away, especially, my mom. Keep up the good work."

"Great! Very touching. My one suggestion is not to continue to mention 'like we did for you when you were young' in multiple slides. I would present the slides that do not pertain to those things we may have done for our little one at one time near the beginning. Then transition to all the sayings/slides that pertain to what we do for them when they were young, but not to remind them until the end. The last slide should be one of a Mother and Father helping a child accomplish something wonderful with the simple reminder that 'we ask that you do many of these wonderful things for us while remembering that it was much of the same we did for you many years ago.' Or something similar. Or just don't change it. It is just my thoughts."

"Thank you so much for the movie. When I got it did made me cry. It was so beautiful. I play it everyday."

"I am writing from Utica, NY (upstate NY). I am a Boomer and my parents are in their mid70's. I found this site from my synagogue, Temple Beth Joseph in Herkimer,NY. After I stopped crying, I gave it to my sister in Albany NY. Thank you from my soul."

"I congratulate anyone with good health and resources that take care of their parents. It was extremely stressful caring for my parents and in-laws that had Alzheimer's, Lou Gehrig, and Parkinson's between them, all at the same time. I would not send this to my children, however. It is a little too guilt-inducing. They have all they can handle raising their own children and surviving. I am confident they will do what they can. The rest is up to me and God."

"Thank you so much. I am now living with my mother in order to help her. We watched it together and cried together."

"That was wonderful!! My Grandmother is 80 and starting to do some of those things you mentioned. I needed the reminder and the cry. The music really moved me. Thanks. Kim"

"The slide show on a Parents' Wish was beautifully done. It certainly brings tears to your eyes."

"This says it all. It's the most beautiful and heart felt piece I've ever received. As an old guy, my time is short. I sent this to my kids. I hope they get the point. Thank you for creating such a wonderful message. John"

"I couldn’t stop crying. My daughter is only 3 and I am 45."

"Your video is well done and truly addresses issues which the children of senior citizen parents need to hear. The third party approach of this video is effective as attested to by your numerous feedbacks. I would have only one suggestion. As a retired physician I have seen hundreds of patients who never received your message and seldom, if ever, visited their parents in their sunset years. After their parents passed, they felt guilty and remorseful that they did not do so. Perhaps you could add that issue to your excellent video when next you modify it."

"Thank you for making my day brighter. Your efforts are very much appreciated."

"Thank you. It is a beautiful presentation that every child should see."

"This was so touching and so very real. I am not well and I gave birth to 2 children that need to see this. Beautiful".

"The most beautiful and moving example of what it is all about. It applies to all."

"It is truly beautiful and something I would like to pass on to people who do not have computers. Thank you."

"Loved your video. Would have liked to see more culturally diverse photos, though. This message applies to ALL people of all cultures, nationalities and ethnic groups. Messages, advertisements and public service announcements all serve their purposes at a far greater extent when those who view them can relate to the images both visually and mentally."

"Thank you for putting this video together. It probably is the most moving thing I have experienced so far on the internet. Both of my parents are gone from this earth now, and I wish I had one more chance to show them each patience and hold them up as they walked. I hope that my child is as touched by this video as I am."

"I just finished viewing this magnificent work of art, words, and music. I am sitting here crying and it has touched my heart over the love I have for my 78 year old mother. And how hard it is to see her aging. Thank you so much for your ministry and love for people especially for the aged."

"Parent's Wish is so moving. Thank you for this great work."

"This movie has tears running down my face. Very touching, thank you. I will forward to those people that I know will appreciate it. Laura Lai-Minteer"

"Mom no longer hears as well as she once did and there are times she repeats herself over and over again, but after reading and listening to Parents' Wish, I realized that all the things Mom has done for me while growing up and even after I was grown up far outweighs the little things I have to do for her now - in fact what I need to do pales into insignificance compared to everything Mom has done for me!  Parents' Wish has brought me closer to my Mom and has renewed the immense respect I have always had for her. Aaron R Chen, Jakarta, Indonesia"

"Absolutely wonderful. I cried all the way thru. It's so poignant. We have 3 kids, and I will send it to them to let them know how it feels to be older. Thanks a million."

"Absolutely wonderful. I am going to send this to everyone I know."

"It's a beautiful slide show...except for the big box on the left."
[Webmaster's note: We've removed the control panel on the left. Hope you'll like the new look]

"I thought it was absolutely beautiful. And the words so true and full of wisdom Wonderfully done."

"Thanks so much for the much needed reminder I so desperately needed to hear and see. I will now think hard before becoming impatient with my 87 year old mother. We all need to hold dear and cherish our elder loved ones. Oh the wisdom they can pass on, if we can listen with willingness and open heart. Thanks so much for a most beautiful reminder. God bless Jo Gebbia-Wismar"

"A beautiful piece of work. A work of truth. The movie is great and touched me so and helped me to keep on keeping on and try to be a better daughter in law. I want my husband to see this also. I had a good cry when I listened to it and read the lines. I had to repeat it several times. Thanks again and God bless you for your efforts."

"Today is my mother's 86th birthday. I've learned to consider it a privilege, rather than a burden, to help her with her daily life. Your beautiful video and lovely music confirms that I am on the right path aging and maturing gracefully with my mom. Thank you so much for doing this. It really made me miss my dad who just passed away a few months ago. My heartfelt aloha and mahalo to you. God bless. GCF"

"Touched my heart deeply. Strengthened my belief and value of showing love and gratitude to 'mom and dad'. Thank you for your effort to share this meaningful message. God Bless You Always!"

"Thank you for a wonderful and meaningful video. I was very moved."

"I would just like to tell you that you people have done a wonderful job. I have no words to thank you. I'm 18 years old girl and this was sent to me by my parents and after viewing the clip,  the respect for senior citizen has increased by 100 times more. Finally, I would just like to say THANK YOU."

"This was the most awesome thing I have ever seen, it brought tears to my eyes, and raised the hair on my arms - The author took all the thoughts and put them to words, that every parent would want their children to know, and Josh Grobans music makes it complete! Every adult child in America should see and hear this. Thank you."

"Our father has Alzheimer's/Dementia for almost 3 years now and we recently placed him the VA Center for Progressive Care in Pittsburgh. The Parents' Wish touched me as how I know that these would be our Dad's words if he could say them. I pray that he doesn't realize the things that have gone on in his life in the last 3 years.  I want to send this to my own adult children so they know the words that they will only see in my eyes someday if the disease passes on to me. Thank you for the words of love that need to be seen by all who has been touched by Alzheimer's"

"I was an only child, in my 50's when mom died and dad came to live with us. He was a great dad, I was always proud of him, but then age came on and I had to realize that the major man in my life was leaving me, physically and mentally. He missed my mom so bad!!! This tribute to the Parents' Wish is just what my dad would have ordered. Dad knows I loved him, but did not know how to deal with the major mountain man of my life turning into the frail human being he had become. Thank you for this beautiful site."

"Thanks for reminding us that even we will become old some day. The paradox is that we all know it but forget to remember and live our lives otherwise. Knowledge is like a fertilizer to a plant. It has to be fed regularly until the plant becomes self dependent. One just cannot give the whole fertilizer required to the plant in one go. Such work works like the fertilizer which clears the illusion. It is really awesome and hope it helps many souls who loose the way in between. I am one of them. Samir Kapur, India"

"This slide show is so totally true. I lost my father in 1997 at the age of 98 and 1/2 years of age. Taking care of Dad, and seeing him go through his last few years was very hard for all of us. I cried knowing that what I was seeing and reading was also going to happen to every human being if we are lucky enough to live that long. I pray my children can learn from this and have compassion for me when I am at that stage in my life. ~ Thank you to whomever put this together and then shared it in such a beautiful and touching way.... Martha"

June 28, 2006

"Oh my! This has made me realize how I am seeing my husband. He is only 66 but some of these same things I see in him. I hope I will be a better wife and person by watching this video. Thank whomever put it together. I want to send it to everyone I know. I sent it to my daughter and hopefully she will send it to someone else. It is definitely worth watching over and over again!"

"I was very inspired by the video. It brought tears to my eyes."

"This is the most awesome presentation I have ever received via email. I am 60 yrs old and will be sure to keep this for my 2 girls someday. Everything about this presentation is just really awesome.. Keep up the good work".

"As we sit here in tears we are so grateful to have read this beautiful slide show. I thank my Sister in-law for passing it on. We hope our children view it and understand how true it is and that we could not have said it any better. Thank you so much. Jim and Joan Berube"

"I have watched the presentation three times this evening, and each time I find myself sobbing. Thank you for helping me understand my parents more, so I can enjoy them now, while they are still here."

"I listened/watched the video and it brought tears to my eyes. My Mother, who will turn 84 this summer has Alzheimer's. As I live in the same city, I am basically the main caregiver. I also find myself impatient with her forgetfulness and having to explain things to her over and over. I get frustrated with her hiding her belongings and then blaming others for taking them. It makes me sad when I think of all the help (both physically and financially) that both Dad and Mom gave to others when they were in their 'better years' and now, when Mom is in need, there are very few of them that show their faces. Thank you so much for this wonderful and inspiring piece - it truly has given me the 'fuel' I need to continue doing what I do! - Bonnie

"This is so beautiful. It brought tears to my eyes. Thanks"

"A friend of mine sent this to me and it is absolutely beautiful! I am one of three children of an octogenarian and she is still lively and feisty! But there are times when I do remember the old adage...'Once a man, twice a child' and take a breath and smile at my Mom, instead of getting angry. Thank you for this, because I hope that someone will be kind to me when I get to 'the golden years'.

"This Parents' Wish was perfect. It was sent to me by a cousin, who was very thoughtful and new of my frequent impatience with both my parents. My dad is 93 and my mom 89. This collage and music was as if it were written specifically for me. It came at a time when, instead of truly appreciating the life of my parents, I was becoming more and more impatient with them. Thank you so much for allowing me to come to my senses. I sincerely appreciate it."

"WOW what a touching tribute to our parents."

"I am desperately in love with my children and when I saw this I cried my eyes out. There are times when I forget how special the time is that I have with them and this truly helps me to remember how precious they are to me."

"Would you please send me some Kleenex, I can't stop tearing. This is the most touching thing that I have had sent to me in years."

"I think much of what is here is very good/very accurate and needed. However, in the two or three slides about the wish for dying. I personally cannot agree. The music/sentiment is felt, but if a parent does all those things then they should also show courage through to the end.. .the natural end. Otherwise your screens on so much that was shown by the parent is lost when they 'give up' versus fight. Tim Nieman"

"Awesome!!! This should be shown in personal care homes for staff and families to watch. I worked in healthcare for 20 years and the verses in this video are not always followed and they should be."

"I have sent this to my children many times and to my friends also. My parents are gone now but I never regretted doing for them. Josh Groban's 'You Raise Me Up' is just perfect for this, it brought many tears to my eyes. When I watch the slideshow I think about myself and how fast the years have gone and I hope that by sending this to my children they will understand my feelings."

"It was so touching that I've forwarded it on to my two children and my older sister. I could hear the voice of my 92 year old mother reaching out to my family. It is her prayer to live the rest of her life with dignity and surrounded my her family's love and support. Merci beacoup for sharing! Mary Lynn Curry"

"Absolutely Awesome. Thank You! Dr. James A Cardin"

"My 95 year old Mother died today after spending her last years in a Nursing Home. I only wish I had seen this message my daughter had sent a few days ago. After spending a few years in the nursing home caring for our mother we became a part of their family and my sister and I have come to realize that the caretakers and the residents are very special people and we need to pay more attention to those that do not have families or friends to be there for them. Remember someday you will want someone to help take care of you."

"May this information so beautifully put into song, pictures and written words make it to the hearts of those who have parent who really is near the end and unable to say these words to their own child. Thank you for touching my life at the perfect time. Laura in Kansas"

"I would like to say well done at producing this slideshow which probably brought back many memories to some and probably gave others a 'wakeup call' and prompt them to pick up the phone to call that person so dear to them."

"WOW!!!! This is the greatest thing I've ever seen. I couldn't read it without getting choked up."

"Extremely depressing and unnecessary."

"What a beautiful and profound piece. I have forwarded it to many people. Thank you so much!"

How intensely beautiful, moving and real!! I lost my Daddy 9 yrs ago to cancer and my Mama Feb 2005 to Alzheimer's. I cared for both of them and never regret a minute of the time I was given to be with them and try to pay back all they had done for me through the years. I am now a nurse in Long Term Care. I adore my patients and fully understand the journey they and their families are making. Thank you for such an emotional reminder of life. ST, LPN, Tenn."

"It is unfortunate that in our society we see old age and struggles as something bad. Although the music, images and words are powerful and play on our emotions, it does not negate the fact that the last few slides seem to condone assisted suicide. The world would be a better place if we spent more time visiting not only our parents but all those confined to a hospital or nursing home. My family will remember all those who are suffering in our prayers. Mike"

"Absolutely beautiful and meaningful. Brought tears to my eyes. Contains wisdom which we can all benefit from."

"Thank you for one of the most moving tributes to parenthood and aging that I've ever seen."

"I enjoyed this though the music didn't come through. I sat with my parents as they died 2 weeks apart. My dad had a cerebral hemorrhage and mom had a stroke and when dad died she was overwhelmed. I fed her until she could no longer swallow brought on by the stroke and died shortly after. I know they are together and that I did all I could for them while here but miss them so very much. Thanks for the words. Rosalee"

"Awesome!!!!"

"Absolutely wonderful! My five siblings and I rotate our elderly parents errands every week; and in viewing this presentation it has become so clear why we so freely and openly give back to our parents. They gave us so much, best of all they gave us a happy childhood. I only hope that we can give them happiness in their old age. Rosie Dominguez"

"This is so true, as it was with my mother who recently passed away. I will pass this on to my children so they will understand. Thank you. Debra Harper"

"This is simply beautiful. Very inspiring and very heart touching. It makes us more appreciative of what we have today to enjoy, because as for tomorrow it might be gone. It makes us strengthen our faith in the Lord and makes us be appreciative and know that God loves us and will take care of us at no matter what age we are. God bless you, you have touched the hearts of many, have a wonderful day. Kelly S. Miles"

"You have developed a wonderful, poignant presentation on aging. We just recently laid to rest my wife's mother at the age of 95 1/2. My wife along with several wonderful care givers lovingly cared for her in our home the past nine plus years as we learned the lessons of your Parents' Wish. If I were a carpenter, I would say that you definitively hit the nail on the head! This is a message to be shared by those of all ages. The wisdom is timeless."

"Every person that has an elderly loved one in their life, or caregivers of the elderly should be required to see this often.. to remind them.. us.. how much our parents gave to us when we were little. I am a caregiver to the elderly and I just lost my mom recently who for years could do nothing for herself. These are the words we told her when she felt bad that we had to care for her. It was truly our honor and pleasure to give back to this beautiful lady. Your video reminded me, again, how truly blessed I was to have had that opportunity. Debbie"

"After taking care of my mother for the last 5 year of her life, I can surely identify with this most beautiful slide show and all it represents. It has just passed the first anniversary of my mother’s passing from Alzheimer’s and I sure wish I had seen this that first year of caring for her. Up until the day she died I didn’t know it but she was teaching me and touching my soul with each and every 'trial' she set forth for me. I am a better, and richer person for having cared for her and by learning the lessons first hand that are depicted in your presentation. Anni Bender"

"This is another propaganda 'in sheep's clothing' for euthanasia/assisted suicide. It says, when the parent 'wants to die' we should 'understand' - and 'help them end their life with love and dignity' - no. To help someone through to their natural death with love and dignity is what we should do. To say to someone who 'wants to die' - 'you will die when God wants - not when you want', and to help them to offer their sufferings to God, and to use that opportunity to lovingly care for them all the more."

"This is more a reminder of the frailty of our aging than a hope for our children to understand. It sort of says we did this for you so now we need your help and understanding. If in fact we did all these loving things for our children we will get our just rewards and do not at this age have to explain it to our children. It is beautiful, but miss worded and strikes me as still parenting our children. Sincerely, Dean Austin Texas"

"This is such a touching video. I received it this morning and, as my mother passed away one year ago from Alzheimer's dementia, it was so appropriate that I sobbed. I am also a nurse in a dementia unit and interact with 26 of the most loving patients. This video is so true. This is awesome. Love, Kathy Kolodge"

"Oh my gosh, that was so awesome. It almost made me cry. It makes you really think of how your parents may be feeling getting close to that age when they might not be able to take care of themselves, and how they worry. Thank you for making this possible for me to view. Janette"

"So parents deserve the same treatment they gave their children? I hear the most horrible stories of parental neglect, mistreatment, and cruelty in my substance abuse program, and I pray that we can love unconditionally, not just reciprocally."

"I was deeply touched and crying at the same time. You know it's not easy to let go of someone you loved. My Dad passed-away because of cancer. He was my best friend and my life. It was that I feel so empty because, he was the reason why I strive hard to be a good daughter because he deserved to be honored by my love and respect. I wanna thank you for sharing this things. I feel enlightened."

"Great effort and a very inspiring and artistically apt form…. in times of this troubled world where love is so lacking and where impoverished individuals and the elderly are lowly regarded in society. Please continue the good effort….do no be discouraged!!!! Cheers. Ivan from Singapore"

"This was the most beautiful video I have ever seen and so real to life. Sometimes people forget or don't even think that someday they also will be old. I think this video could be taken in so many different ways but it was taken to me just remember to respect others wishes and each other. Sally Coole"

"It is amazingly wonderful and devine. Kindly share more with us"

"There are no words for how amazing and powerful this is. The person(s) responsible for this need a huge hug and ALL of God's blessings."

June 27, 2006

"This was beautiful and eye-opening. I am sending it to my children and to all my friends who are parents. I hope my children will be as moved by this as I was. Thank you!"

"Now that I am past 65 I relate. It brought tears to my eyes, since I was sent this by my daughter-in-law... assuring me she would be there for me and my bride of 35 years when the time comes."

"I was very touched by the slideshow and music. I am an Administrator for a nursing home and feel that we often forget why we do what we do. Thank you in advance for any info you can give to me."

"I have viewed this clip and cry each time I see it. My mom is experiencing memory loss and I sometimes am not very patient with her but after watching this I will try harder not to be impatient with her. I love her very much and she has done so much for me in my life, I will be there for her in her old age. I don't believe this is a propaganda for Euthanasia, I think it just says let me grow old and die with dignity!"

"This was not only beautiful and powerful but it sent a message that we needed to hear be it either a positive or negative one. As a former nurse who served elderly in the nursing home this was the message that I believe they all wanted not only their children to hear but also we their caretakers. I do not see this as a message to starve us or to kill us in our old age but just as it really says.... let us go with dignity and yes, there are those who fear death and parents and children who are at odds and may have been for years. Ruth Phares, Peoria, AZ"

"This was absolutely beautiful and was so touching as I remembered my own parents and the wonderful gift that I was able to give them as they began their journey to meet the Lord as a former nurse to the elderly this was so remindful to me of the joy I had to share my 'youth' with them as I served them as their nurse! The memories of those times are something I will treasure for years to come. Thank you for sharing this with the rest of the world and may it help to remind the children of our elders what our parents did for us. Even the worse of parents still deserve the kindness of our hearts."

"This is truly the most moving and inspiring slideshow and writing I have ever viewed. My husband and I both took care of our parents, my mother passed away in 2000 at age of 92, and was living with me at the time. She expressed to me the desire to go ahead and leave here cause she thought she was a burden to me. I always assured her she wasn't and that I wanted her with me rather than anywhere else. My mother-in-law lived between us and her daughter's home. We shared the caring for her and she passed on in March of 2005. I am so proud I had the honor and privilege of caring for my mother. This brought us to tears but it is oh so true. Thanks for sharing. Faye and Jimmy"

"Beautifully done! As seen in your feedback section, your video is generating lots of comments and discussion and that's great, considering our unique differences. Yet viewing it as a whole, the message of *acting out of compassion* for our aging parents seems to be at the heart of it. And I thank you for sharing your message in this most moving way."

"It comes at such a poignant time in my life and my mom's. Just today, I accompanied her to the geriatric psychiatrist, who informed us that she has the beginnings of dementia, or possibly Alzheimer's.  I have four young children of my own, and have been impatient and abrupt with her, and now I realize that this is the beginning of a new phase of both of our lives. Your slideshow brought home the message to me that I must be there for Mom, even when it might be inconvenient -- just as I am for my own children. She was always there for me, and now it is my turn. Thank you so much for helping me realize how I need to slow down and enjoy her before it is too late. Frances Stelken, St. Louis, MO"

"Thank you. I needed this so very much and have struggled with my parent's advancing age (86) and failing mental and physical health and my frustration and inability to 'fix' anything. This comforts me."

"This is a very touching mail. I remember my deceased parents whom I have not seen for a long time until they both dead. And I did not even go home to see them dead. I left the country 2 years after I graduated from college. And have been living in the US for some 30 years now. I feel the pain a parents feel when their children are gone. I pray that my kids will always be there for me when my time comes.. A Sim 06/06"

"I am 75 yrs old and have always missed my parents since they passed on. I can only hope that my children will feel the same. Your show has given me a time to reflect. Thanks.:

"Thanks for such a somber reminder of our needed love and patience. My father is 94 and my Mom is 86. Both have congestive heart failure and chronic obstructive pulmonary disease. Both are on oxygen and yesterday my Mom went thru cancer surgery. It could not have been received at a more needed time. Makes me shameful and given me a good scolding as well as cry. I am filing this to send to my children someday!"

"This is such a BEAUTIFUL email. Make you cry. I sent it to my daughter and she also thought it was a joyful email. Thanks"

"I am in the Health Care Industry and felt the phrase, 'If ever we do not want to eat, do not force us. We know well when we need to and when not to.', could be a little misleading in that, it is a true statement for someone who is alert and oriented. On the other hand if someone is confused and has dementia then they may not know when to eat and our experience is not to 'force' them but rather encourage them.

"Thank you so much for such an inspiration. I just recently lost my Mother in Law who had been bed ridden for over 8 months. We cared for her and spent so much time away from our 6 children that it took a great toll on my husband and I. After reading this, I thank God that we had that time and that opportunity. She was a strong and wonderful woman that taught me so much about life."

"I could not have said it better myself. Our children (even teenagers) don't realize how special life is and not to take things like family for granted. I pray about it all the time. Sincerely, Jill Dill"

"This is the most touching and heartwarming song I have ever heard. I play this song over and over again. When I first heard this song I cried like a baby. I sent the link to my father with a letter stating 'Thank You so much for what you have given me while I was growing up and for the unconditional love over the years.' It even made my dad cry (which he never does). The next day he called me and said thank you for sending me that link to the song.This song was written with such grace and dignity that words can not even begin to describe it. Sincerely, Debi B."

"I cannot think of a better way to express how we all should be treated in the last part of our lives. I will pass this on to every person I know in hopes that they too will see people as they should be seen. Thank you so much for this presentation. I hope all is inspired by this."

"This was one of the nicest tributes from parents to their children that I have ever seen. Dwayne Hutson, Wasco, CA"

"I can honestly say, I needed a kleenex to dry my eyes. How very loving and touching this whole site is. How sad that some see it, and do not see the message for what it is, but try to read their own selfish, self-centered problems into it. I have read some say that it's not for everyone. That is why everyone has a choice. If you don't like the site, go elsewhere, simple. Some say that it is a weak attempt at something or other that is negative. How sad to have a heart so filled with resentment and anger that you find no beauty in the love of others, and the warmth of caring for our parents. I only wish mine were alive, for just one minute more so I could tell them I care, only one minute more. How sad to not know real unselfish, unconditional love for others, as God has for us."

"I believe this is a very powerful slide show. It is beautifully put together. I think it is has a great statement regarding the elderly people. I don't feel this has anything to do with do this for me because I did this for you. It is merely stating to be patient with me for I am still your mom or dad. I have just slowed down, lost some things along the way and need you to be understanding as I was with you. Don't harden your heart towards me and don't abandon me. I still love you and wish it were me taking care of you, not vise versa. But, someday I may need you like you needed me."

"What a wonderful e-mail that truly brings life into focus. Life itself is but a fleeting moment and then our loved ones are gone. But, our memories of the wonderful times we shared last until we, too, must pass this earthly life and leave our loved ones to be with our Father in Heaven. Then we can be together again and, once again, share our love in an even deeper manner than was possible here on earth. So, our life here on earth is but a brief time to prepare for that wonderful time when we are reunited in that loving place, called Heaven. JF"

"Beautiful -- I loved the song - pictures and all the words written.. I have lost both parents so the words brought lots of tears for my loss as well as beautiful memories as well as sad ones. Shirley Verrill"

"Thank you, it did make me cry, and I will try and help others older persons, My parents are gone, so I will pass it on. VI Miller"

"This was the most touching video I have seen in a long time. I am a senior citizen, 58, and I have had problems that make me seem like I am 78. My health has never been good, but it is going down pretty fast. I can really relate to this."

"I was really touched by your web site. A friend of mine sent it to me and I thank God that she did it was so beautiful. Thank You, for the encouraging things you wrote."

"This is so beautiful. It made me cry. I am now getting close to the age that some of these things could happen. It happened already to my late husband. Its sad but we have more yesterdays than we do tomorrows. Life is a journey and this is just part of it. Thank you for reminding everyone how important life is."

"I have had so much more hands on contact with my kids than their father and it was that way in all the households I knew of -- I felt so left out because dad was pictured in every scene of this very moving video."

"I had no problem with I just wanted to thank you for what you did. It was a very good thing."

"So cool!! It's touching my heart deeply. You know, we always need this kind of things to remind ourselves sometimes. To remember how much our parents gave us and paid for us. God says: Love others. But most of people forgot that the parents was included."

"This had tears coming down my face. I work in a nursing home I wish this could be shown to every family member and workers. My Mom and Dad had Alzheimer's and now my brother and one of my sisters have it .They are still young so watching this it tears at my heart. I know that a lot of people should be understanding to the older people but they just look at them like no care in the world."

"Beautifully done; deeply emotional - what an important message to send to our children."

"This is really simple and touching... something that happens everyday and people do not cherish this special ties with their parents. I am really touched and will tell my friends about this. I hope this will continue to change the lives of more people as I am sure it had already done so for many till now :) -hUi jUn-"

"I was moved deeply. I watched it again and again. Thank you very much!"

"My husband and I took care of my mother and father when they were aged and in ill health. They were loved and cared for with compassion. At times it was difficult to be the caregivers when both my husband and myself had jobs to go to every day. We are not religious but one doesn't have to be in order to appreciate the words and sentiments and the beautiful music in the Parents' Wish. Love and respect are easily returned if they were freely given. CB and JB"

"I felt a certain sadness when I read about what I know my Mother is experiencing now, and what I am entering into. I pray that my children will have as much compassion and understanding for me and my husband when we reach that point as we had for them when they were little ones. We are all in a life cycle, crawling, walking, leading, and then following. With God's grace, we will have families that love us as we are."

June 26, 2006

"This should be part of orientation in jobs that are for assisted living and nursing homes. It is awesome."

"Now that I able to see through my tears....Thank you for the ever so special reminder of how fragile our parents have become. Tender, patience and caring need to be remembered foremost. Barbara, California"

"I loved it very much, and will definitely forward it on to many of my friends. I especially am a HUGE fan of Josh Groban, (a totally hooked Grobanite!). I appreciate the fact that your link goes right to his website. Thank you for using his music to express this sentiment the best. It was truly beautiful and I must remember these words. Meri Lynne Magli"

"My mother is in the last stages of Alzheimer's disease. We like to had lost her last week and she pulled out of it. Still wondering why this video was sent to me at a time like this in my life. Maybe it's trying to get me better prepared, who knows but thanks to whom ever I owe."

"My 2 sisters and I are caring for our 91 year old mother. Your video has helped us to better understand her. And for that we are grateful."

"Wow!!! Awesome!!! Beautifully done!! There is no way to describe the emotional impact it had on me! I am 64 and both my parents are deceased. It gave me a whole new light as to how they must have felt. It really made me stop and think back, and made me even more thankful for the life they gave me. I sent it on to my children in the hopes that when the time comes they will have patience and understanding as I progress into old age. And thank you, Josh Groban, for such a marvelous song with words that touch the heart! Joanie Kirby, Aurora, Kentucky"

"Thank you for sharing this beautiful Flash Movie. I received Parents' Wish via email today. It really touched me so much that tears poured down my face. It is a very Inspirational and terrific show, and the lovely music, 'You Raised Me Up' was suited for the presentation of this lovely show. God Bless you and all who helped to produce this wonderful show. Margaret, Antigua, West Indies."

"After having been the prime care giver to both my wonderful parents, this says it all. It has touched my heart and soul, as I lived those days with Mom and Dad. Thank you and God Bless!"

"Wow! I am happy that somebody put this site together! See, I lost my 'best friend', my father in a fire just going on 3 weeks ago now. He was a great man to me!  Dad lived a god life! Now i am struggling with the fact that it happened so suddenly! My mother is still in the hospital and having horrible pain! I love my mother very much and I know without the words that she loves all of her children! Thank you and I will definitely forward this to my friends and hopefully they will pass on this great tribute to the elderly. You have sang and written what I have felt about the elderly my whole life!! Lisa, OH"

"May God richly bless you in your endeavors for such a timely message that all of we as parents wanted to say but couldn't. Only the Lord could have brought this together with your help for 'such a time as this'. We are praying for His financial blessings for you and this project in Jesus name. Amen and amen."

"I was so touched by your slide show. This made me realize the importance of parents in our lives... why we should never take them for granted.... even at their twilight years."

"Just wanted to say that this is beautiful. I lost my father when I was 37 and my mother 5 yrs ago. Not a day goes by I don't miss them. I was an only child and had the most wonderful parents. My mother had Alzheimer's and just watching this reminded me so much of her. Thank You"

"That was a beautiful! My mom recently passed away, me and my sister were taking care of her and we would get upset when she would forget things or she would have trouble doing things she never had trouble doing but just a few days before she passed did we come to learn how sick she really was but we didn't want to believe that our mom needed us to take care of her. Just always remember when they say they need help they really do, they don't want to ask but they have no choice its just as hard for them as it is for us."

"I am the mother of two ANGEL DAUGHTERS. I am blessed by their love and devotion. I would have to say I don't need to pass this beautiful story to them. I think about other families who really need to send it on to their kids. Thanks for sharing. Anita Jackson"

"It is so moving and true. My mother lives with me. Believe me, it does require much patience. In a month and a half from now she will be 101 years of age. She is till going good! Still enjoys going out."

"This was so true and beautiful. My Mom and Aunt (her sister) just died 80 and 85 -- I so understand this was their story!"

"This was the most moving piece of work I have ever seen. Thank you so very, very much."

"My dear friend sent me this. I cried all the way through it. I lost my Father to Alzheimer's in March 2005 and my Mother to cancer in Sept 2005 and this really hit home to me. It is absolutely beautiful. Thank you so much. EH in Arizona"

"I wanted to tell you how wonderful the site is. My father just passed away on Friday, after a long term of suffering. Many heart operations, memory loss, confusion and most of the pain was from not being able to do for himself. Going from independent to dependent; was the frustration my father went through. It was one of the hardest things that could ever happen to a person. Take good care of your parent, or grandparent; they are a precious jewel, that will be missed so deeply. Sincerely, Esther Smith"

"This was one of the most beautiful and truthful explanations of life I have ever read. Thank you for sharing this amazing story with me. Sincerely, Evelyn Waugh."

"Thank you so much for such a wonderful site - it is truly beautiful and so truthful. Many of us in our 30's and 40's view our ageing parents as burdens and forget that we were once that way to them, only they didn't treat us that way. I will happily forward your website to everyone I know. It teaches valuable lessons about compassion and understanding that I think we ALL need to hear."

"By the time the song was over, the tears started to fall. I am forwarding this on to my children and I wish it had been around before my parents passed on. Thank you - Naomi Comeau"

"This is one of the most beautiful movies I have ever seen! It brought back many memories of my dear mother, and I am sending it to my siblings and my children. Thank you so much for saying so beautifully what I have wanted to say for a long time. Becky, Sebastian, FL "

"This has really touched my heart – and I am sure it has touched other hearts"

"This is a really great video and music, touched me deeply. Thanks"

"This brought home to me all the loving thoughts I ever had about my parents, and how I hope my own children will see this and absorb the message into their hearts, and be patient with me when I am going through those experiences in later years. I cried right out loud as I viewed it and I thought of my precious husband who just died in November. Jan in Mason City, Iowa"

"I want to thank you for this touching slide show. I'm 15 years old and I love it. I almost cried. Its hard for a teenager like me to cry. I love the song and my mom showed me this when she got the email from a friend about it and I watched it then. I want to send it to all my friends. It touched me in an unreachable place, thank you."

"I sit here with tears, and goose bumps. This is perhaps the most beautiful presentation piece I've viewed on the web. I'm 61 years old, and moved 5 years ago to take care of my dad (now 92) after my mother passed. I can relate to and cherish every frame and phrase presented."

"Very beautiful, it touched my heart. My Mom has Alzheimer's and I know this is what she would like to say to me. I will pass this on to my two daughters. Mary Olivierre, Dublin, Ireland."

"This is incredible. Best I have seen. We raised 3 children and are raising our two grandchildren. This is beautiful. Thank you very much."

"I was really touched by your Parents' Wish slideshow and I admit that I needed a tissue or two during it."

"This is very outstanding and touching. It bought tears to my eyes. Thank you, Thank you. It is the most beautiful mail I have ever read."

"That one about parents wish made me cry.. thank you for reminding me how special life is"

"It is a parents responsibility to take care of their children and not throw up in their face that 'If it wasn't for me YOU would have died or not been here!'  I love my parents but they don't feel sorry for themselves and try to manipulate to get the attention and sympathy. Older people many times cannot help themselves and lose their faculties. As kids we are patient and if we left them to their own pity parties they would die---plain and simple."

"This was absolutely beautiful. Thank you for reminding all of us 'children' what we owe to our parents. Carolyn"

"Awesome and true......didn't care for the music but the message came through loud and clear!"

"I really enjoyed your movie. Thanks so much. You made me feel a lot better. My dad passed away 2 years ago and I needed something like your movie. Thanks so much. Joseph Wilson"

"Watching this slideshow has been an emotional experience. It has made me happy to know so many people share the extraordinary love I have for my parents and my children. You have made me reflect...you have touched my heart...thank you."

"I was so moved by Parents' Wish. I just recently had to move my parents into an apartment to down size them from their home of 24 years. I thank them everyday for raising me the way they did and I now understand the roll reversal we all face as our parents age. This is a beautiful and moving production, so to everyone who worked on this piece, thank you! Mary Cardini, Harahan, LA"

"Thank you so very much for this inspirational video. It brought feelings to the surface for the balance with my mother; of age, 83. I truly thank you from the bottom of my heart."

"I was so happy that a friend of mine thought of me when sending this. My mother is still with us, at the age of 83. I will look at her with much more respect, after viewing this special video. I thank you, also for letting us all see age in a different and enlightening way. Joyce"

"God Bless You!!!! You have said what most of us feel but do not know how to express it!"

"I am 64 years old and just lost my dear sweet mother 10 days ago. This just moved me and expressed what I am feeling. I can only hope I provided all of these beautiful sentiments and thoughts to my mom in her final months and days. Beautiful! Karin Gibb, New Cumberland, PA"

"A nice piece. Sad but good. Not sad at what my kids will do when I am real old. Already 65 but sad if I fulfilled my duties as a child towards my parents who passed away. God bless you. You proved internet can be put to noble issues also. Shahbaz Asharf, Montreal, Canada"

"This is the most wonderful and meaningful e-mail I have ever seen. I am almost 70 and my precious husband is almost 76. He has 4 incurable diseases and I know that he will not be with me forever. We have been married 52 years. I sent this to all of our 4 kids. I hope they take it to heart. I cried all the way thru it. Ginny W."

"This was the most touching, 'real' site I've seen. The tears rolled down my cheeks as I related to every line I read. I saw myself as well as my dear parents. I will always remember sitting by my dying mother's bedside as she whispered, 'I love you very much and don't ever forget it'. Thank you that I can pass this on to my children and hope they see what I saw and remember it for that one day in the not to distant future."

"That was the most awesome video I think I have ever seen yet, and I have seen a lot of beautiful videos. Thank you for your very inspiring work of art. Juanita, Ozark, MO"

"I cannot stop sobbing. I realize how much I love my mother who is going to be 81 years old in July. She is starting to forget a lot of things and it makes me so sad. This video was beautiful and I can't wait to send it on to my six brothers and sisters and my daughter. It also is frightening that I too will be in this state some day and I hope my daughter will care for me when that time comes. Thank you for this wonderfully inspiring piece."

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