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FEEDBACKS - PART 4
June 25, 2006
"Thank you. I sit
here tonight with tears running down my face. After spending this
afternoon sitting with my grandpa who just had hip replacement surgery
and was trying to bargain with me to take him home now, this hits
extremely hard. Your presentation was beautiful!"
"There is not much
more that can be said about this extraordinary piece. Having cared for
my father for 13 years many of the photos reminded me of him and the
joy that we shared. I would not change another day that I spent with
him. I am very sorry for the person who has not experienced the love
and joy of his/her parents. It is truly a magical thing. Thank you so
much for sharing this with the world. Lynne S., Seattle, WA."
"Really beautiful.
Wish I could share this with my parents who have passed on. Sent it to
my children and hope they read and remember."
"I have never heard
anything more beautiful Thank You."
"This could not have
come at a better time. We just placed my dear father in-law in a
nursing home recently and we are experiencing every single thing that
was written in this great message. The forgetfulness, weak legs, the
same stories over and over again, and the anger we know this is just
part of the aging process. We love our father/in-law and it is so sad
to see this happening. Beth Gerst"
"This is a beautiful
site and very heart wrenching. I am a Nurse and have worked in Nursing
Homes and have seen many sad things that children do to their Elderly
Parents. My hope is that anyone seeing this Slide Show will be touched
and think about each one in depth. Also to evaluate their own
relationship with ageing parents! Joanne Hess."
"Done quite well with
touching pictures and music but a thinly disguised attempt to
'guilt' offsprings into taking care of their parents in their 'old
age'. The basic message being: Look at all the things I have done
for you and now you owe me. I found this manipulative."
"This slide show was
a real reminder for me to always do what I need to do for the right
reasons, no matter how I may be treated. In church this morning there
was a soloist who sang 'You Raise Me Up' and the message was on
'Interruptions' and how they are really God's appointments for
our lives. I praise God that He can raise me up to care for my
Mother-in-law even when it's not convenient or pleasant. Thank you for
being a part of that lesson for me. ~ Barbara - Cape May Court House,
NJ"
"Please get this on a
DVD. I wish we could help. These are the most poignant words that I
have ever read; don't let them disappear. E Taylor - North Carolina"
"This is probably one
of the most touching pieces I have ever seen. My mom has Alzheimer's
disease and I have her in an assisted living near me. This really
makes you think about all she's done for all her children. Thank you
so much. Donna Belcher, Sanford, FL"
"Yes, it is certainly
a beautiful and touching video, and should inspire all of us to love,
appreciate, and care for our precious elderly loved ones. However, and
maybe I'm alone on this one, I thought there was a hint of a 'right
to die' message here, which I oppose. Anybody else feel this way?"
"What a beautiful and
touching presentation. I am a Senior, moved by this message and the
Josh Groban Music. It all brings me to tears and warmth in my heart,
hoping that my children will 'remember'."
"This
presentation-slide show is the reality in mostly western world.
Children are often neglecting here for their selfish pleasure. This
message must travel all across the globe to make every child for
making them realizing the naked truth: 'What goes around comes
around.' Splendid job for waking us up many of us."
"Crying out loud.
This touched my heart so deeply. I went through all the phases
of your video with my aunt, she was a 'mother' to me. She
struggled holding on to life this past year and at last I had the
honor to hold her hand as she took her last breath on June 2, 2006 at
the age of 86. God bless. Kathy, Mantoloking, NJ"
"A friend from back
home e-mailed me this wonderful slideshow and the lyrics by Josh
Groban. I have enjoyed listening to it over and over again. It reminds
me of my dad who died of brain cancer 15yrs ago and also my
grandfathers and great uncles. I love the elderly."
"From Vancouver
Canada: Scary! Most of those words just came out of my mother and
father's mouth. They are at that time when they are getting strong
minded about what they want to do. It's different from what I want. I
want them here forever and in any condition, but it is about what they
want. Our job as children now, is to respect their wishes and
unselfishly support them. Why fight during their last few years. When
they repeat themselves, it's faster to just say yes, when they're
wrong, just say they right as you will have the rest of your life to
do the 'right' your way. All parents want a sense of
'completion' about their role. Letting them be happy and complete,
should make you more happy!! Enjoy."
"Our teacher
recommended us to view the Parents' Wish presentation. So we all did.
At first I was really curious about the show. Our teacher told us that
the presentation caught her heart to the fullest so when I heard that,
I had an idea that I might cry coz it's all about parents. For all
those who had read this: treasure your parents... love them... care
for them. You have only one mother, one father. Learn to respect and
love them. just like what they did when you were just a kid."
"I too was moved to
tears. I try not to think of the day I may loose my mother. She
has been there every step of the way as I have raised my children. My
stepfather has been the only 'Tata' my kids have known.
My in-laws are now 82 and building a smaller home! We have been
uncertain about their decision to do so. After watching this video I
have a new appreciation for my in laws, and I will support them in
what they are doing! I realize this is not only the way things used to
be, but our Christian duty! Forgive the mistakes and the 'grumpy
old man' just love them for what they are and what they have
contributed in the past. What an inspiration!!! Cindi, INDPLS IN"
"What a beautiful
tribute to our precious older generation. This has hit the feelings of
the elderly squarely on the mark. We all need to be reminded that our
parents and older family members are a treasure and though our minds
and bodies fail, the love for our children and grandchildren will
never change."
"Absolutely
beautiful. What I would say if I knew how."
"This was sent to me
now as my mother is dying. So much is so relevant on how she is
passing on. I cried and cried. It says so much of how true everything
is."
"This was the most
touching thing I have read in a very long time. I cried and cried some
more. I am in the process of moving and taking my mom and dad with me
which I am sure will not be an easy chore for my husband or myself. My
parents are in their late 80's and my husband and I are not too far
behind them it seems. Thank you for such an inspiring message
and just at the right time."
"I expect to pass
through life but once, if, therefore, there be any kindness I can
show, or any good thing I can do for any fellow being, let me do it
now.. Bonnie and Dennis"
"It seemed as though
the song and poem was written just for me. I know it wasn't, but I too
am not up to all the technical things. I'm just learning to type. I
didn't want a computer, but now I spend too much time on it. My
granddaughter sent me the Parents' Wish because as she said,
"Grammy you were a parent to me". It warmed my heart. I have
sent this to all the folks my age and some young people too. Hopefully
they will listen. We all get older. And lonelier."
"Thank you for all
the work you did to allow all of us to see Parents' Wish. It made me
cry; it made me smile; most importantly, it made me realize I need to
spend more time with my mother who has dementia and be much more
patient with her"
"The timing of
receiving this e-mail was so profound, I cannot begin to put my
heartfelt feelings into words. I wept and wept so deeply. It will
certainly help me put my caring for my aging parents in the right
perspective. This e-mail could have been sent by God Himself. It
pierced my soul."
June 24, 2006
"My mother is 92
years old. I thought of her throughout the entire movie. I thought of
my son reading it and how it might touch him. It is beautiful and
thought provoking."
"Loved your message -
truly touching. Could I humbly offer another poignant line for when or
if you make version 2.. 'Remember dear children that old age is a
journey for us all, and we have just got here first.' Best
regards, Peter"
"I just lost my
Mother on May 29, 2006. This is such a lovely tribute. Momma I miss
you but I know it was your time to go HOME! I'll meet you there one
day. I LOVE YOU So Much! Terri Ann"
"This is so-
Beautiful and true. Thank You and God Bless You! Lana"
"I have never been
touched as that show did. I am 68 and totally disabled and in a wheel
chair, and have children that live close to me and they hardly ever
come over to see me nor, do they ever try to help me in any way. I am
not sure who did the first power point on this, but my hat goes out to
them. They surely must know what is going on in our lives as seniors.
God bless them. Jerry burns, California"
"There is so much
truth in what you say. I appreciate your message. As we age we
appreciate the attention of our young ones. Thank you. Mildred Turner"
"I have no parents
and I'm sick with cancer, all I did was cry. So beautiful. I lost my
Father-In-In law almost a year ago and all he keep saying is that he
wanted to die. My sister and brother took care of our mom when she was
sick with cancer and I would do it all over again. It was the most
rewarding thing a child can do for a parent. We know our mother was so
deeply appreciative that we did that for her and so are we. Please if
you have elderly parents out there take good care of them and love
them like it is their last day on Earth. Thank You For the Most
Beautiful E-Mail I ever have gotten."
"My mother passed
away on 24-3-06 and we had that song played at her funeral. It was
very moving and the tears flowed profusely for a strong woman who
ended her life so frail as the result of bone cancer. Thank you"
"Grab the box of
kleenex!! That was so beautiful. Having my 82 year old father in law
living with us, as his caretakers, this hit home big time and serves
as a wonderful reminder to us all. I will replay it, and I'm sure cry,
often. Thank you for such a touching piece! Anisia Robinson - CA,
Anisia"
"I am actually typing
this with tears in my eyes. My husband's mother is 95 and lives with
us. She is in the hospital now and has lost the will to live. She is
so weak. It was her support and encouragement that gave my husband the
drive to become a Major League ball player. This song is so perfect. I
am going to get the CD and it will play at her funeral when she passes
away. Thank you for this."
"This has to be the
most touching thing I have seen on the web. I'm not one for sending
things on to others but this had to go out to my children and every
parent I know."
"I am overwhelmed and
so happy that you were able to get this back online. THANK YOU, THANK
YOU, THANK YOU!!!!!! Bev"
"Oh my God, I can't
believe how extremely touching and emotional that was! I read every
feedback and couldn't stop crying with each one. Nobody with a heart
can get through that video without tears - it's impossible! I lost my
mother-in-law and father-in-law (they were the very best!) but I still
have both parents and I thank God every day for that! I love you Mom
and Dad (and Wynn & Bill). Reene"
"I really felt like
it was a huge guilt trip. My dad sent it to me and I'm sure he didn't
mean it that way, but we already know how to care for people. We don't
need to be told now how to be respectful. That's what they taught us
long ago. I know that many elderly are discarded by their families,
but that has never been the case in our family so why make us feel
like we are not going to rise to the occasion and treat our aging
parents with the same respect we saw them treat their parents and
grandparents with? We aren't perfect, but we are 'good'
children. Lay off the guilt!"
"I can't thank you
enough for this wonderful, tearful, yet inspiring show and poem. My
mother has Alzheimer's and my brother can not seem to understand that
she is still our MOM even if she doesn't recognize them as in the poem
her smile and her love is still there for all of us to see. I hope
they will watch this and remember all that Mom has done for them and
all that they should be doing for Mom."
"This is one of the
most beautiful sites I've ever visited. Such true words must be spoken
to our kids time and time again. Our kids grow up forgetting all we
did for them with pride and how proud they made us with all their
accomplishments. When we grow old and weary...they walk off to start
their own lives and forget those who helped them get there."
"My mother broke her
pelvis in 2 places Mother’s Day 2004. The next year in a home, she
never really recovered. She died the week before Mother’s Day 2005 at
age 99. She was ready to go long before this. My wife commented to me,
'It is amazing that your mother could do such a wonderful job of
raising you 3 boys, but it takes the 3 of you to take care of her and
you can’t do it'."
"I am a mother of
four, grandmother of nine, great grandmother of two. I stood with my
daughter who has two married daughters and listened and read the
Parents' Wish and both of us were crying. It is so touching all
parents should view it and listen to the words of the song 'You
Raise Me Up' by Josh Groban. It is simply beautiful and inspiring
to say the least. Thank you for producing it and please find someone
to help put it back online. Nell Berry"
"I would have loved a
download option to this to save on my computer, or to send to family
members that have computers but do not access the Internet, and in my
family there are several. We lost our Mom this February, and I can
truly relate to this. You have done a beautiful job of this!"
"It is a terrible
shame that the web host is worrying about... you guessed it....MONEY!
Maybe they need to look beyond this and truly understand the point
this video is trying to make. Not only is it speaking about parents,
but our relationships in general we have in our day to day lives. This
piece touched me so deeply that I can't express it in words. thank you
from the bottom of my heart for taking the time to put such thought,
humbleness and graceness into this for no reason or benefit to you
other than to reach out and do what we were intended to do. love,
respect and appreciate one another."
"My mother has
Alzheimer's and this video touched me so deeply, words can not
express. I have Josh Groban's CD and the song is so fitting for this
life experience I would not wish any child to witness on one of their
parents. It makes you realize what is truly important and we need more
of that is today's world. Too much violence and war!!"
"You all have done a
wonderful thing with this slide show and I know it is touching so many
hearts and families. God Bless you for all your time and effort to put
this out on behalf of all of us mothers and grandmothers!!!"
"This came to my
e-mail at the most perfect time. My daughter in law's 98 year old
grandmother is dying of old age. I showed this to my daughter in law
and we cried like babies. This will be read at her funeral for all to
hear. It is so important people understand! Sharon in Florida"
"This slideshow
deeply touched my heart, bringing forth flooding tears from my eyes,
and addressed the last few years of my life. Not only has this video
addressed my grandparents and my parents, it expresses exactly what
I've been feeling and wanting to say to my children. Maybe after they
view it, they will have more understanding and compassion for myself
and my father. Thank you for sharing it! Serena Wilkinson"
"This viewing brought
tears to my eyes. I must show it to all of our youth at our family
reunion. Thank you so much"
"Thank you, Thank you
over and over. This is so beautiful and so needed by the millions of
us caring for our aged parents! Thanks to each person who has helped!"
"This was absolutely
awesome, very heartwarming and so very true. I loved every minute of
it. Franki"
"Wow! This must have
some power! After my viewing of Parents' Wish and giving you my
feedback (June12)! There was a knock on my door! My brother and
sister-in-law came to see us after three years of a misunderstanding.
Also my children who have no been in contact all responded! Wishing my
husband 'A Happy Fathers Day! This was nothing but a miracle!
We did not hear from them for any other holidays-- Christmas Easter or
anytime else. Thank you for this miracle. Peggy Lee And Robert Lee"
"As soon as my father
told me to watch it I loved it. I realized everything my parents do
for me. I really loved it!"
"This is wonderful!
My mother died in 1996,in a nursing home, where I feel she had just
given up on life. The hardest decision I ever had to make, was to say
'comfort measures only' and let her die peacefully. Thank you
for presenting this meaningful video."
June 23, 2006
"Just want to say
thank you for this wonderful Web-side."
"I lost my Mother and
am caring for my dad with my brother. This really hit home and made me
more thankful for my parents and what they have done for us. Best
thing I've seen on the web in a long time."
"Thank you for the
most beautiful poem I have ever read. My daughter sent it to me and I
sent it on to my other daughter and son. Please try and put it back on
whenever you can. S. Vario"
"This is one of the
best slideshows I have seen. It was so very touching! Thank you so
much."
"My name is Melissa
and I am a Nurse at a local nursing home. This video touched me so
deep. I consider my residents my additional family, and to read the
words and hear the music playing it just absolutely touched me. I
wished my co-workers could see this and remember to treat my residents
with great respect and dignity. Thank you again for such an inspiring
video. Melissa Brooks LPN/Assistant Director of Nursing, Wewoka,
Oklahoma."
"This brought such
tears to my eyes. I do remember the frustration I had when my mother
took ill, as my children will when my time comes. I am forwarding this
to both my sons and I hope that it will make it easier for them. Thank
you for the most beautiful site I have ever seen on the computer."
"This is one of the
most SPECIAL slideshows that I've ever seen, I do hope you can show
this again in the near future, all my friends that I sent this to,
agreed. Thank you so much for something so BEAUTIFUL. Marcella"
"I work in a nursing
home and during a training program I attend at my corporate office, we
were shown this slide show. The whole room melted to tears as we
thought of our residents. Thank you for reminding us that it is for
these reasons that we work in long term health care, and that we can
only pray that when it is our time to receive care, that there will be
those whose hearts are filled will care and compassion and will offer
us respect and dignity."
"You have touched my
heart with the Parents' Wish . I wish all of our children could watch
the side show then all of our children would understand us when we
reach the so called Golden Years. The ending of the side show was so
overwhelming I Cried as many others have done. Caroline K "
"This movie has been
truly touched by the hand of God!!!! The Lord will bless you in your
search for a sponsor, for HE is leading you!!! You are so very
inspirationally spirited by the Lord. Thank you, and Bless you, Lori
Stoneback"
"My parents are
celebrating their 50th Wedding Anniversary this weekend and this
couldn't have come at a better time. It made me realize how much they
need me and my brother and how much more time I need to give to them.
Thank you for giving the entire world this gift. Janet, KY"
"My only daughter
informed me over a year ago that she and her husband will not be able
to care for me or her father in the event of a long term illness and
that I should purchase long term care insurance for myself and her
father. I do not want to cause any riff in my daughters life I decided
to send this Parents Wish to her any way. My wish is that I continue
to be able to care for myself until the end. I truly enjoyed seeing
this slide presentations and I did get a chance to share it with my
daughter and one of my adult granddaughters."
"That truly was
beautiful. It probably won’t be maybe 20 years tops before my folks
need taken care of, and 20 years after that, I certainly hope my
stepsons don’t forget about their dad and me. Thank you for taking
time to build this reminder of what really is important in life.
–Shannon Whitehead"
"God Bless you for
making this available. At this time my two aging parents have moved to
be near me. My father has recently been diagnosed with cancer and is
on chemotherapy. This is a beautiful lesson for me to read and see.
How true it is....life is a cycle of love. Thank you Thank you."
"This touched my
grieving heart with comfort and love. February 2006, my Dad died after
3 long years in bed. I watched him go from a strong, demanding,
independent dad to a bed bound, skeleton of a man. The man I saw dying
was not my dad. I set him free from my heart long ago. Yet dad
suffered without words to explain why. I know he is at peace. This
video comforted me. RW"
"Very touching and
true slide show. A lot of Kids seem to forget who raised them and tend
to see their elderly parents as a burden."
"Just
beautiful.........and sad"
"Thank you so much
for such a beautiful piece. I work in a Veterans Hospital/Nursing Home
in Illinois and when I got this email I shared it with as many
residents as I could gather without creating chaos. Also, my Mother is
in a Nursing Home and I forwarded it to her Home and ask activity's to
share it with their members. Kail in Illinois"
"That was simply
beautiful it's touched my heart, absolutely super. Keisha from
England"
"This video is truly
awesome! I'm so glad to see someone using the internet for valuable
material. There is so much garbage out on the web but thank goodness
for inspiration like this! Thanks for allowing us to view it! I think
it's worth the work for this message to get out! Wendi K. Williams"
"I thoroughly enjoyed
this piece and passed it on to friends who are parents and some who
are in their golden years."
"I just wanted to say
'Thank you' for this beautiful Parent's Wish. I have never seen
so many tears flow while listening to an email. What an inspiration!"
"This web page is
beautiful. It made me cry in remembering how it was when my parents
grew old and passed away. And it also sends a message to my children
as to when I grow older. A beautiful message and thank you for it."
"The comments about
the lack of women in the movie seemed so unnecessary. I am a woman and
it did even occur to me that there were more men than women in the
video. We need to get beyond this thinking and enjoy it for what it is
meant to be. GOD BLESS"
"I am going to visit
my Mom at the nursing home tonight and have asked my sister and
brothers to join me there to view this beautiful, moving and
informative show, but apparently you have reached the ceiling and no
more viewers can enjoy and learn from this. Neshat"
"I'm absolutely
speechless. I receive dozens of emails every day. This is without
question the best I have ever seen. Please do not cease to make it
available. It needs to be spread about this world. Sincerely,
Christine D. Rosinski"
"I really enjoyed the
slide show and it touched me and my family so very much. My mother has
Alzheimer’s and is unable to do a lot of things for herself. She has
always been independent and a very bright lady. This has been hard on
the whole family and has been hard on mother to accept also. I sent to
all my family and know it will mean a lot to them also."
"My Mom died in 2001
of a terrible battle with cancer, knowing only 3 months before our
Savior decided to take her. My husband and I spent those months
caregiving her and doing our best to show how much we loved and
appreciated everything about her. Sadly, I lost my Dad of bone cancer
last year. Again, we caregave him and every day had to watch him
suffer. After reading this BEAUTIFUL, TOUCHING presentation, and
crying my heart out, I realize how blessed and thankful I am for
putting my life on 'hold' to care and comfort them both when
they needed me the most. A 'keeper' for sure."
"I want to say I love
your video. It made me cry and think of my father who died in 0904,
and makes me appreciate the time we had together."
"Thank you very much
for that inspiring and moving slideshow presentation of the dreams of
the dear old parents. I am an ordained minister of the Iglesia
Filipina here in the Philippines particularly here in the Diocese of
Iloilo. How I wish I experienced longer time with my parents. How I
wish children nowadays will realize the difficulties and the love
parents are experiencing just to give a better and brighter tomorrow
for their children. I pray to Almighty God - the Most Loving and
Merciful Parent to bless our parents. Padre Boy Salazar"
"A beautiful video. I
related it to my grandparents as my parents gave us up when I was a
toddler. I would like to have passed it on to my two children,
however, like many people these days, I am a single parent, so the
signature 'Mom and Dad' really isn't appropriate for someone
like me, but for the number that it is applicable to, I am sure that
it will be passed on to those more fortunate."
"Very encouraging and
an inspiration not only to children but to parents. Please share this
with all of the aging population that live in the United States and
the world. Please get the word out as best as possible. Every body
needs to see it and they do not have access to the web so please fine
a way to get this message of hope life and love out to the people."
"This slide is the
most beautiful slide I have seen on the computer. This really shows
what older people go through. They no longer have their independence,
their dignity, they feel frustrated because they can not do what they
used too. We all need to reach out to the elderly, and do what we can
to make them feel better about themselves. Not take over just be there
for them. Listen to what they say, make them feel good about
themselves rather then tear them down.. We only have them one time
around. Cherish them even when it is hard."
"I just managed to be
able to watch the movie clip yesterday before it is taken out today .
It is very emotional and touching especially four days ago. I have had
my 59th birthday. I have 3 grown up children and I have E-mail about
it yesterday."
"I am so thankful
when I saw and heard the video because now that my mom is 72 and very
weak due to cancer and I'm the only one who took care of her my
patience and understanding took longer than I expected because I
realized how great they are when I was a child. Thank you very much
for that wonderful video. Merle Montano"
"This is one of the
sweetest emails I have seen. Thank you so much for sending it. I love
Josh Grogan's singing, and the words to the email were
heart-wrenching, but so true for we who are in the older generation.
God bless you and God bless all our older mothers and fathers who
don't have the love they need, or who are mis-understood., or
neglected."
"I have never read
something so beautiful. It was like from heaven. My husband is
handicapped and we had some problems with our children, they read that
and life has changed . They all cried a lot and it has affected
everyone. I have listened to it a lot and cry everytime because it is
so true, all the words and the song by Josh was perfect. Thank you for
doing this, it has changed so many lives and you should be so blessed
by all the responses. Sally Corley"
June 22, 2006
"This was truly so
well put together and very touching to one's heart. I found it so true
to fact of life, that we must never forget and always respect the love
of our parents. We too will grow old one day and what a beautiful
reminder this is. Thanks so much for an inspiring touch of love to be
passed around."
"I was angry and
frustrated with my mother and we had not spoken for 2 weeks. I broke
down when I saw this. I am no longer angry and I now have a better
understanding. I just logged onto it again and to my disappointment it
could not be accessed due to the 100,000 lucky people that did see
this. I was hoping to send this to my 2 sons."
"This brought tears
to my eyes and so wished that just for a day, and hour, or even a
moment I could be with and say how much I have loved my father who was
suddenly called home at age 56."
"I find it a huge
disappointment that you finally can enjoy viewing a slideshow such as
this on the computer and now people are not allowed to see it (because
of bandwidth restriction). You are able to see negative issues and so
many terrible things on the computer, so why take a positive thing
that not only could but can change the way people think? Parents need
their children to see the positive in them and in the elderly. I sent
this on bragging about the beauty of this and now these people can't
see such a beautiful thing. HOW SAD!!!!
"Thank you for
creating such a lovely story . It is hard to be patient with the
elderly. That is human. I took care of my dad and later my mom. We
have always lived in the same town all my life. I felt close to my
parents. We loved each other dearly. When my mom died ten years ago, I
felt like I lost part of me. They were wonderful! Yes, your story made
me cry. When I showed it to my children and grandchildren: they cried.
I explained that this is the way we are getting and we hope they can
now understand us."
"I am the caregiver
for my mother, who has Alzheimer's. She is very precious and dear to
me and I always worry that I am not patient enough, kind enough,
thoughtful enough, or treat her with the respect and dignity she
deserves. This wonderful slide show helped me to see that I don't need
to nag her to eat. I don't have to be concerned because she doesn't
bathe frequently. I just need to be here for her and do the best I can
to make life as comfortable and as easy as possible... for both of
us."
"I just wanted to
tell you that this is one of the most beautiful illustrations that I
have seen in a long time. It made me cry and smile. My dad is
seriously ill right now and so this really hit home. Thank you for
having circulated it and sorry about the problems encountered with so
many people looking at it. I hope you will be able to get it up and
running again."
"This is so
beautiful. I wish my Mom and Dad were still here to see this. I know
they would loved it. I wish there was some way to get it on TV so
EVERYONE could see it. Pam S in Moskogee, Oklahoma"
"Having just lost my
mom from a very lengthy illness, this site struck me right to the
soul. I never imagined in a million years that I would be taking care
of her like she were an infant. Even though at times she could test
the soul of a saint, I never thought to ignore her or cause her any
harm. I thought that this slideshow was done most beautifully and I
will keep it always to remind my children that they may be put in this
position one day. Thank you so very much. Linda"
"This presentation
was wonderful! My dad died when I was 19 and my mom was my whole life
and everything to my four children. She is now suffering from dementia
and I truly miss her. I pray for her to go home to heaven and join my
dad so that she can be 'herself' again. I'm all grown up now as
are my children and she will always live in our hearts. AMS from NJ."
"I thought that the
slide show was very touching by just knowing that I have 3 kids of my
own and I hope that when the day comes that my kids need to take care
of me they do so and realize all the love that I showed them in the
past and pass it on to their kids."
"What a wonderful way
to convey to your children your wishes for them and yourself in your
last years. Beautifully done and it makes this delicate subject so
beautiful and meaningful to both parties. God bless you for this
wonderful gift and I pray that it will be available soon for others to
see and use. With love and appreciation. Jim Maxwell"
"Wish I still had my
Mom to show her this. Some years she is quite vivid in my memories and
I can hardly bear it. Other years I'm ok. My Dad died in 1970 still
young, of a heart attack. My Mom died in 1997 in her sleep. The GOOD
LORD took her while she slept so she wouldn't suffer. This e-mail
makes me think of her so much. WOW! It is so beautiful! Love always,
Carmen Roman"
"This is so beautiful
and powerful. I have tears in my eyes and hope that I can remember
these things as my parents age. I lost my grandmother a year ago and
my grandfather has not been the same. I now understand when he says he
just wants to go to sleep to be with grandma again what he means
thanks to this video. Thank you so much for putting it in words. I
will not be the same after hearing this."
"PI work at a
Hospice, in-house, facility. I plan to put a copy of Parents' Wish on
our bulletin board, and another in the family reading room. The
feelings are so perfectly expressed and meaningful. Sometimes, just
reading something like this, a family member will absorb. It is
perfect."
"This was very moving
for me and brought back memories of my dad who was in a 'home'
and for the last year of his life wanting to die first. I kept on
saying 'No don't be foolish' but then realized that he was
tired and ashamed of being in 'Pampers'. His dignity was gone
and he was tired so I said 'Ok dad' and not long after he
passed on. Thanks for reminding me of him. God Bless. June from
Labrador"
"Touching, inspiring,
tearful message that hits directly to your heart. As simple as 'do
unto others what others want you to do unto you'. Cha"
"Your movie touched
me deeply. I got to know all the situations that your movie shows, all
too well. Such a terrible state to be in, especially if loved ones are
not understanding. I have to admit, I was not always as understanding
as I should have been. I wish I had read this story long, long ago.
It's one that all children need to read, as their parents get older.
Young people too often realize, usually too late, that as the body and
mind begin to wear out, things begin to change. Change occurs that we
have no control over. So sad."
"I have to tell you
that nothing has moved me as much as your video has done! I am the
youngest daughter in a family of 10 and I am the one who looks after
my 84 year old mother! I do not get any help from my siblings and
because of that, I tend to be cranky with my mother at times, however,
your show has put things in perspective for me and needless to say i
have forwarded it to all my family!! And it has changed the way I feel
about looking after my Mom! We need more things like that in our email
inboxes!!! J. Beaudry...Canada"
"This was so
beautiful. My father passed away four years ago. My sister, brother,
and myself took care of him so this really fits. I cried so hard. This
web site should be mandatory for all children to read so that they
really appreciate their parents and all that they have done for them.
Tonie"
"I received this from
a friend because she knew my daughter and I have not spoken in 2 years
and I have not even seen our grand-daughter who turned one. Thank You
So Very Much. It has helped a lot of people."
"I have put my life
on hold to care for people which I love dearly, but I have missed out
on a lot of things these past two years and sometimes I feel very
angry and frustrated. I just want you to know, that everyday before I
leave work, I watch this video and it really helps me put my
priorities back in order. It really helps me get thru the bad days
without loosing my mind. When I get angry, I remember the video and
try to see their side of this situation too."
"This was so
touching. I lost my mother when I was just turning five but I hope my
children will read this and have the love and patience with their dad
and myself when we get to this stage in life. Lavee in Calif."
"My Mother is 87
years old, and has Alzheimer's Disease. I know how easy it is to lose
patience, get angry, feel frustrated. I cried when I watched this, saw
all the things that I let get to me and realized that I have to
re-assess and give her the time she deserves. Thank you so much.Betty
L. Edginton"
"I'm 36 years old and
have a lot of time for making seniors without family (or it doesn't
matter with family) the happiest before its their time to leave the
earth. I really, really was so taken with this slideshow, that I
pledge my volunteer time to the nursing homes. I will just love every
minutes of it and I'm truly grateful that I can give back so
excitingly to others. Hats off to the unknown author. Dottie Dillard,
Las Vegas"
"Words can not
express my feelings after hearing and seeing Parents' Wish. It is the
best! I bought Josh Groban's CD and I play the song several times a
day. I still shed tears when I hear it every time. Peg"
"I am 73 and feel
like it is this is just a wonderful season of life which enables me to
continue to serve God and others and to exercise my creative
abilities. While I have a few physical problems, I refuse to bow to
society's attitude regarding age. I still am a soprano soloist with a
40 year old voice, just one of my many endeavors. I also dress
stylishly and do the best to have a mature youthful appearance. My
wonderful mother had the same attitude and that is why she is so young
at 95. In fact she recently joked that someone must have made a
mistake on her birth certificate. I feel the same way. It is not the
beginning of the end but the beginning of a wonderful season of life.
Jeannine, Dallas, TX"
"The poignant slide
depicted a fact of life. Messages were articulately presented in 'pictures
and quotes' that touched the hearts of people going in that
direction. It is reaching out for understanding and love. With love,
everything suffices. Elisa Tibay"
"I am currently
taking care of my 95 year old grandmother. She is terminally il.l I
loved your Parents' Wish. I also took care of my terminally ill
mother. I have gained things like living for the moment, the true
appreciation of laughter and I just know if all of my life even if I
was considered a loser, I somehow did the right thing. Stephanie
Sutton"
"I wish I could see
this web site. I am told it is something I need to view at this
difficult time in my life."
"Thank you!! I have
been unable to view the slide show as it is off line for now, but
would like to forward this to my family. I got a quick glimpse of it
before so I know, Thank you! Linda."
"This is truly an
amazing message to us all- young and old, rich or poor, big and
little, all colors, all beliefs, all shapes and sizes. THANK YOU!"
"I read it over and
over and each time with tears in my eyes. I am saving this to send to
my kids someday when the time is right. Also hope they will send it on
to their children. Great movie!"
"I had to learn to
care for a mother with Alzheimer's. It is a very difficult learning
process. She has passed away and now I try to share what I learned
with others. Parents' Wish is the best teacher I have ever seen. It
says it all in a very beautiful way"
"I am the mother of a
nine year old son and the daughter of older parents. I pray that my
son remembers me like that as I will remember my parents. This was the
most moving email I have ever received. God bless"
"Wow, since Mother's
and Father's Day recently celebrated, this page summed up so much. I
have tucked it away in my 'favs' to visit often. Thanks for the
special 'insite' concerning that 'hour-glass' we seniors
face as the sands of time slip thru in out stay here. Just a father
and 'Gramps'."
"I think this is so
beautiful. It touches everything you live and do in life for your
children. My Mother is now 82 and it moved me so much. I am sending it
to my Daughter. I can not express the words how great this is."
"I'm so disappointed
that I was unable to view the movie. I just recently lost my father to
leukemia - my mother sent me the e-mail with the Parents Wish site. I
was able to read the words and, as many others have stated, it brought
tears to my eyes."
"This slideshow is
the most touching message that I have ever viewed. I only wish that it
would touch everyone else in the same way that it did to me. Also, I
hope that our younger generation would read this and inspire them as
well. Whoever wrote this, did a wonderful job. Thanks Vera Adame "
"This is truly
beautiful and so moving. I viewed it a few times. Every time I have
tears in my eyes and remembered my Mom who passed away so young (55)
and how I missed to care for her. And I thought of my Dad, he's so far
from me that I can't be by his side, but he's always in my heart and
is thankful of what both have given me as a child. I have also sent
this to our kids and my sister hoping that they will enjoy it as much
as I did, for the meaning of love and giving. Venus Naval"
"I recently lost my
father to heart disease. We had to make the decision to suspend life
support. I have been haunted by that decision, wondering if we did
everything possible, and would he still be here today. After reading
Parents Wish i just sobbed. Yes, we made the right decision and i now
have peace about it. Thank you so much for being my angel of peace.
Linda from Pennsylvania"
"Very special and so
true ! Thanks for putting together a special story for our children !
God Bless, George Strutzel Utah"
"People just don't
realize how close and fast things can happen to your parents. Too many
little things seem to get in the way and people just need to put them
aside and realize enjoy your parents while they are still around,
don't wish you did things more with them after they are gone. This is
perfect. I hope all people read this and make time for their parents."
"I was touched to
tears at how wonderfully you put into words what many parents cannot
say. It would be great to have one for single parents like me :-)!
Linda"
"Wow. How awesome can
you get. How soon we forget where we came from and what they did and
sacrificed for us. You could not have said it more perfect. I am in
awe of what I heard."
"I visited my 84 year
old mother today, and thanked her for all that she had done for me,
and told her that it was because of her positive support and guidance
in my life that I am where I am today. And I told her she is a
Wonderful Mother. Her face lit up and she smiled so beautifully."
"OMG! 46 years old
today and I cried like a child! Absolutely awesome! Not only did it
make me think of my dad who passed away a little over a year ago after
a long fight with cancers but with a 16 year old daughter growing up
way too fast and not wanting to have much to do with me these days. I
want her to see this site desperately. Maybe it'll give her a little
jolt into realizing mom and dad aren't gonna be here forever!"
"I thought that this
was one of the most beautiful slide show and was so true so I sent it
to my three children and Grandchildren, and Great. We are Seniors well
in our seventies and have read a lot of things, Whoever wrote this
should do a lot more of this kind of things."
"It brought tears to
my eyes and really touched my heart. My mother is showing signs of
Alzheimer's and this movie clip will help me most when her memory
starts to decline."
"Geriatrics is my
passion and I am now working in the Long Term Care Facility where my
Mama was a resident. The majority of my residents/patients have some
form of dementia. Having been 'down this road' with my parents
I feel I am a better nurse to my patients and their families. I feel I
am able to give to them what I was given: someone to look after them
or their loved one with compassion, understanding, love along with
hugs and kisses daily. I am sure the Parent's Wish reminds us all of
these things. LPN in Tennessee"
"I just received the
parents wish from a friend. I lost both parents to Parkinsons disease
and the medications made them both loose their memory and they could
not walk well or feed themselves. This was the most appropriate thing
I've ever seen regarding the death or near death of a loved one...
they raised you and gave you love...do the same for them and do not
complain. This touched me so deeply and I wanted to thank you for it."
"I haven’t seen the
presentation but just reading the comments of those who have, makes me
anxious to see what is obviously a labor of love."
"The Parent's Wish is
wonderful and a tear jerker. I have saved it in my documents."
"This was absolutely
amazing-- touching and so poignant as we reach the stage of life where
we hope are children are aware that we will not be in our 'active
and good health stage' forever. Josh Groban (adding my favorite
song) touches the emotional strings of aging and hoping to do it
gracefully and with peace. Thanks to all who were a part of this
presentation."
"Several friends to
whom I sent this beautiful video replied that it came to them at a
tough time in their lives -- one or both parents had been needing
their care. The story gave them courage and strength to carry on with
joy and without faltering. Most made a resolve to forward it to their
own children. God bless you for the inspiration and guidance provided
by such a beautiful format."
June 21, 2006
"Incredibly beautiful...and timely."
"I
love this site and have sent it to all my friends with computers, but
unfortunately, some folks I want to share with do not have one. Is
there any way I can get a copy of the words."
"Beautiful
idea! It makes a person think. I wonder how many younger people have
seen this? I wish the pictures weren't grainy or distorted and that is
was a little less wordy... but all-in-all, I think it was very nice,
but the concept would be more profound with some clarity and
simplicity."
"I
just saw it and it was very moving. My dads health isn't what it once
was and even though I don't look forward to the day that they both
pass away seeing the video now will make it easier to handle when the
time comes and since I like Josh Groban's music it was very fitting
and with his music in the background it made it much more meaningful
and was very moving it brought tears to my eyes."
"I
took care of my grandfather for 5 years. He passed about 5 years ago
and reading that brought back so many memories. Thank you Mom for
sending it to me. Love, Ed"
"It
made me cried. This is the reality of life. This website is so
wonderful."
"This
made me cry and think of my grandmother. She was a true lady and
if I can even be one-third the lady she was I will indeed be blessed.
My mom is now the one that needs taken care of and I make frequent
trips and calls even though Dad is there. My grandmother and my mom
are both ladies of grace and strength and I am truly honored to have
had and continue to have the opportunity to love them. Thank you for
reminding me of how lucky I am and how all those little everyday petty
problems are insignificant compared to our seniors and all they gave
and give to us.
"My
parents are in their 70's and this really hits home. They know what is
going on, but some day my not and this really makes me think about
what is going to happen to them and will we be there to help them
through the aging process. My parents are my life and as I watch this
the tears seem to over come me, because it is all too real. Thank you
for sharing the information."
"How time turns the
tables. It is hard to even say goodbye when our children leave home,
we want them to be safe, without us were not sure...trust in God and
show us the ways. With this maybe the children can see they are here
for a reflection of what was given and time is NOT our time but Gods.
We need to help our parents too. Even though some times we think they
can do it on their own. Love the technology part that would be me,
Again thanks so much it put closure on a lot of things for me. My
Partner and Friend thanks so much for passing this on to me. Veronica
.Benbrook TX"
"Incredible!
As I forwarded this heartwarming and heart touching presentation, it
is amazing how many of us are dealing with aging! Whether longevity is
a blessing often depends on the quality of our friends and family that
love us as long as we live! Thank you so much!"
"I balled my eyes out
reading this and listening to this. I have a new and better
perspective on my elderly dad and I am sure my kids will, too. Thank
you for sharing."
"Tears
and speechlessness. Thank you for sending this out over the web. It's
an important message... we often forget.... Georgie, 33, Australia"
"Thank
you ever so much for taking the time to re-create such a beautiful
thought of real life."
"How
incredible is this. Everyone should read this and send it to those
they love, it can provide a whole new perspective, and bridge what may
at times seem like a widening gap between parents and children. I have
watched as my parents have taken in their parents, aunts and uncles,
grandparents and helped them through this hard time of life, and it is
challenging to do it with love everyday."
"I
just finished watching the movie, Parents Wish, and it is very
touching. It especially touched us as my husband has been diagnosed
with Alzheimer's and it is hard for our family to accept. I am going
to tell everyone about this site. Thank you."
"Your Parents Wish is
really very very inspiring, beautiful, touching.. could not help but
cry while watching it. I remembered my dearest Mom who died last Oct
30, 2005. Yes I remembered her saying all those things and the more I
miss her. Thank you so much for this beautiful work of art, truly
magnificent!"
"This
video touched me so much I've been crying and can't stop. Don't know
why, I'm always there for my parents, I love them both very much. They
are getting up there in age and I don't want to see them go one day."
"This
is so beautiful. Our Daddy is going through this right now and it is
so hard for our family to deal with but more so for our Mother because
she is with him every day. It doesn't seem fair that a person can be
so strong, a pillar in the community, well loved and respected by so
many, to be reduced to a little boy once again, in the 'Golden
Years' of his life. Thank you for this beautiful piece of work."
"That
is the most beautiful thing I have seen or heard. Have sent it to my
children. Only 2 have a computer to play."
"I
work for a hospice organization. I want to share this with all our
staff. It was very touching to me thinking not only of my contacts
with the elderly but my own parents who are not yet 'old.'
Thank you."
"How
beautiful this was! We just ask our children to respect us and honor
us (one of the Ten Commandments in the Bible). It's okay to disagree,
but children should not be disagreeable."
"Thank
you for sharing PARENT'S WISH. I have yet to make it through with dry
eyes!!
"I have a 91 year old
mother that I care for and it really caused me to think, and maybe
cherish her a little more than I have. Thank you for making the video,
it was beautiful."
"I lost my mother on
10/08/2004. On that day I lost my best friend. Reading Parents'
Wish made me realize how much I really miss my mom. Thank you so much
for putting this together. It brought back so many loving memories of
her."
"My
sister sent this to me today and I've cried several times since
viewing it. What a beautiful tribute to all parents. I have forwarded
it to my 4 children plus several other family members, especially our
son Gregg who is stationed in Afghanistan. I want them all to know we
how much we love them and this seemed to be a beautiful way as the
message seems appropriate for all family members. B.W."
"Every time I watch
this, I see something that I missed the other times. Every time I cry
as I watch it. I AM the caregiver to my aging parents and this helped
me to see that I needed to change and allow them to have some dignity.
Thank you and may God richly bless you for what you are doing."
"I just watched the
movie and I have never been so touch by something in my life. I still
have both my parents and do not look forward to the day that they
pass. This has help me realize that as a parent we do get tired and
still need our children. I have always tired to be their for my
parents, after seeing this I will always be their for them. They where
and still are a greatest parents. Love you Mom and Dad, Fay Saluda VA"
"My mother is 87
years old and oh my - the words and music certainly touched my heart.
How very true the words are. Thank you for the beautiful, beautiful
Parents' Wish"
"You've
represented family love extremely well. Let us hope that we treat our
parents better than we want to be treated, and that it is a natural
response. So many times we choose to blame our parents for our 'lot
in life' when it is life and choice they've given us so freely.
How difficult is it to love? Bravo to you and yours!"
"It's hard to view
something like that at work and not cry. Thanks for making it
available."
"Thank
you so very very much for all the work and sweat and obvious love you
have put into this program/slideshow. I love it."
"This
was very moving and inspiring. I dread getting older. I always have.
My grandmother is now at those dawning years and I don't like. Thank
you for the presentation."
"This a great video.
I sat and cried like a child, this touched me greatly, because we are
having such a hard time with my step-son. I feel like and pray hard
that when I get a chance for him to see this, maybe he will see what a
blessing he has having 2 sets of parents, that love him with all of
our hearts. I hope to see more of this in the future. Thanks for
sharing, Dianne Napier "
"I love the song and
the pictures with it. It sent chills up my spine and tears started
rolling down my cheeks. My husband and I are grandparents raising a
granddaughter. She is almost 20 and starting her 3rd year of college.
I forwarded this to her for all the times she tells us we are not
supposed to be old yet"
"Flow of tears of
emotion pours out from my soul. What a blessing it is to see this most
beautiful site and hear Josh's Groban's beautiful voice and song.
Thank you, thank you, thank you! Brings it home and to the root of it
all, family. Tammy S. Gaede, Greenwood, MS"
"My
husband and I have two elderly moms, 91 and 89. Sometimes, with great
guilt, we feel discouraged and know we do not pay as much attention as
we should. We give them the best of care, but we know in our hearts we
can give more of our time. Thank you for this 'shake up of our
memories'. It has inspired us to push on and create the time and
most of all, be quiet and listen."
"This
was just was a child needs when they have aging parents with a
terminal illness. I cant thank you enough. Helen"
"Absolutely
breathtaking. I am a nursing home administrator and would love to
provide this presentation to our caregivers. May you be blessed on
your endeavors."
"This was totally out
of this world. Brilliant to say the least. Thanks a million. John and
Madge Hodge Calgary Canada"
"Thank
you for this very well thought out and true account. I sobbed so hard
when viewing it only to realize that I am living it every day with my
very own mother."
"Every
person with a parent 55 and older need to see this!! It is so true.
Thank you for the music, the words, and the pictures. I hope every
child will heed the message."
"Thank you for
reminding me that I need to be patient with my parents. This is so
beautiful! Everyone should have the opportunity to see this."
"I read the Parents'
Wish twice and it brought a lot of tears. I lost my dad almost four
years and still miss him every day. This year on Good Friday (April
14), our family lost my grandmother (93 years old) from a stroke. She
was the stepping stone of our family. What a great inspiration for
everyone to read and hear. Josh Groban has a wonderful voice and the
song. 'You Raise Me Up' puts more emphasis on the words behind
Parents' Wish. L. Foster"
"WOW!!! This is so
touching and powerful. I just lost my mother and I could see her in
every single frame. Good thing when I was young and full of pain and
discontent. I always remembered what my mom told me. One day it will
come back full circle and the shoe will be on your feet. Little did I
know then what I know now. Now the shoe was on the other foot! Now was
the time to pay them back and loved every minute of it. Because now
they are just memories!"
"Great
job, I am a parent and it made me cry.. a lot.."
"I am a nursing home
administrator and this video needs to be viewed by each person that
works here, every family member, and those in the community that
visit. This is so powerful. Our society does not accept the aging
process. We try to interfere with the natural effects of aging -
unsuccessfully - and when those attempts fail my profession is made to
look like we neglect our most precious generation."
"I've
been a caregiver for many years for my Mom. She recently passed on. I
felt as if I, myself, wrote the words and sang the lyrics to 'it
all'! I've passed this on to my five wonderful children. I know
they will react to Parents' Wish as I am now and will continue to
forever. Thank you for thinking of 'US' all (in the entire
world). Peace Be With You from my heart."
"About
two months ago my Mother had to undergo a second brain surgery. The
first surgery was only 4 months prior. During the second procedure she
suffered a mild stoke. I was advised by her therapist yesterday that
all that can be done has been done. They say that she will need
constant care as she is not able to walk or go the restroom on her
own. Her sense of balance was damaged beyond repair. Your slideshow
bought me to tears, but inspired me to have the patience that is
necessary to help her through this time in her life."
"My parents
(divorced) both live out of state. It makes me so sad that I won't be
able to care for them when they reach that point. My mother just had a
kidney removed, because of cancer. It would truly be an honor to
care for my mother! I want to be there for her. Unless the Lord
intervenes, it won't be possible. That breaks my heart! As for my
father, he wasn't a good father. Still isn't. However, after watching
this movie, it made me realize that my life isn't about me. I pray,
that if the time comes, I can have the strength, forgiveness and love
needed to care for him too. Again, thank you so much for the Love you
shared with all of us! Holly"
"It
bought tears to my eyes and I thought about my 3 1/2 years old, and 9
weeks old. Would love for them to see this one day."
"Thank you for one of
the better e-mails I have ever received. It brought tears to this 76
year old man, but it was so true. Bob Wilcox, Fort Myers, FL"
"This is soooooooo
beautiful and I cried while I was reading it. My cousin sent this to
my husband and I today and I emailed it to two of our children. The
other doesn't have a computer so I'm unable to send it to him which is
disappointing to me. This really speaks of how I feel about getting
older and wanted my children to know. Thank you for putting this out.
R.G."
"A great reminder of
what our parents used to do and sacrificed their precious time for
their children! I am touched; so I emailed them to all my friends and
nieces around Asia and Australia. Thanks for the thoughts. Lydia"
"Thank
You. I needed to see that! God Bless!"
"I'm
still crying from seeing that video I will pay any cost to own a
copy."
"Your
Parent's Wish movie really moved me, it's very touching. I really
missed my Mom. How I wished she was still alive and tell her how much
I love her. Thank you very much for opening our heart and for teaching
us not to take for granted our old folks. God Bless and more
power...Remy"
"Thank
you for this inspiring message, which touched my heart and reinforced
my comment to continue caring for my 93 year old mother, who I have
chosen to live with me, with dignity, compassion, patience and grace.
Whenever I am in a hurry and have to stand and wait for her to walk
ahead of me, or when I have to stand and wait for her to remember a
word while telling me something, or when she chips one of my dishes
because she still wants to help in the kitchen but her hands don't
move a gracefully as they once did, or when I want her to walk with me
by the sea but her legs won't carry her that far any more and I'm
disappointed, I will remember this song in my head and your words and
my mind and I will be filled with gratitude that she is still in my
life where I can wrap my arms around her and tell her I love her, and
that she continues to give me the grace to grow in patience and love."
"We
have four boys and this is going to each of them and their wives. It
is beautiful! Jim and Carolyn"
"This presentation is
awesome ! Oh, how I cried. Time is so precious and unfortunately most
of us get stuck living in the past, or thinking about the future and
we forget to live in the present, the here and now. We have control
over our attitudes, it is a choice. My one regret is that I didn't
enjoy them as much as I would've liked to. Your time here is limited
and you never know when it'll be up. Everything else in life pales by
comparison next to the love of family and dear friends. I urge you to
get your priorities straight. No one is going to remember how high you
climbed the corporate ladder. It won't make it on your tombstone.
Spend time with the ones you love and care about. Remember you reap
what you sow !!! Zuny"
"A friend just sent
me the presentation and I must congratulate you all for a beautiful
job. It literally brought tears to my eyes for it is so real to life.
And I am not even a parent"
"I have been
caretaker for my in-laws and my parents and this is so true and
touching. Thank you for your perseverance in sharing."
June 20, 2006
"This was so
beautiful. It really touched my heart. My mother passed away a year
ago. She used to think she was a burden, dying of cancer. I remember
always telling her, 'I love you and I'm here for you, just like you
were for me. You loved us and took good care of us, now it's our turn
to return the love.' I still have my father and he is our jewel.
My siblings and I will be here for him, always!"
"This was sent to me
by my sister who knew her days were very limited. I sent her a reply
to the site on how beautiful it is, and I am certain she never
received it before she passed on. Thank you for having it here for
others to see and enjoy. It is truly beautiful. Thanks for sharing."
"I received Parent's
wish today and was so moved. I have played it at least 20 times and
have cried every time. It is the most beautiful thing I have listened
to in such a long time. Have sent it to my two children and many other
family members. Thank you for making my day! Sincerely, Catherine
Plowman"
"This is a very
touching slide show. I am fortunate to have both my parents alive and
well in their mid-70’s. This was good food for thought for me. It
gives dignity to the aging process and to death. Am I the first to
mention the obvious omission of women in the photos? Most especially
since the final page was signed 'Mom & Dad'. Donna O.
Burlington, Ontario Canada"
"I was sent this buy
my mother-in-law. She knows how I feel and act towards my Mother. The
only thing I can say is Thank you for writing this and allowing me to
see it."
"I sit here with
tears running down my face after having seen this. Having just lost my
granny, who lived to be 100, I really felt the meaning behind this
piece. I have already lost one parent but my Mother is still with me
and this helped me to understand what she just went through with her
mother and what someday I may have to go through with mine. I am
sending this to my own children in hopes that they listen and
understand. Thank you so very much. Jude Blaylock, Sedalia, MO"
"This was sent to me
at work but after the first screen I knew I could not watch it there
so it was forwarded home. I just lost my mother in April and cried
from the beginning to the end of the movie. This is truly beautiful. I
have one negative thing to say about it. I wish there was one that is
only from the mother or father. I have been divorced for a very long
time and would love to pass this on to my children when my time gets
close. Can you make this for a single parent to send to their child or
children. That would mean a lot to all the single parents out there.
Arnita Jefferson"
"The words and music
are so powerful! Very thought provoking, both for the parent and the
child. Will share with our grown children, and perhaps as they get
older, they will share with their children. Thank you!"
"You decided to have
children, your children did not ask you to bring them into this world,
that was your decision. To expect your children to parent you in your
old age is pretty arrogant. Childless by Choice"
"Absolutely
beautiful. Makes me think and have more patience with my grandma when
she forgets things or tells me the same thing several times. We should
all be thankful for our parents no matter our age or theirs. They
always have a lesson to teach us. Thank you for this."
"This is the most
beautiful thing I have ever received. The music and the words on the
pictures were deeply touching. I will save this on my computer
always."
"I was brought to
tears with this inspiring video. I am a hospice nurse and so often
including myself we forget what truly is the wish of the older
patient. I literally am shaking writing to you because it has struck a
chord in so many areas of my personal life and my professional life. A
beautiful tribute. Sincerely, Donna Kaminski RN"
"This is absolutely
beautiful thank you so much for sharing--the music is so appropriate!!
Brings tears to my eyes"
"Thank you for a
beautiful site. My 87 year old Mom moved in with my husband and I last
Nov. and it has been wonderful. What a sweet lady she is. I am
enjoying her so very much. My Dad came to live with us as well the
last few months of his life. He passed away 15 years ago. Those who do
not have this privilege, are truly missing out on so much. I loved the
music and the message. Anne in Nova Scotia, Canada."
"It's been a long
time since I have had anything touch my heart in such a profound way!
Every person lives a cycle of life. I only hope that at the end of my
life I will be surrounded by people who love and care for me. Thank
you for all the pleasure I got from listening to 'Parent's Wish'.
Ellen Marie"
"It hit home and I'm
lucky enough to still have both my Mom 73 and my Dad 78 in my life. My
Mom is in poor health and my Dad is doing everything, including
working full-time still, at 78, to have more insurance for her medical
and drug expenses. He takes care of my Mom at home, too. This really
opened my eyes and even though I get aggravated with my Mom, it showed
me to turn it all the way around and only remember the sweet and
caring things she did for me. Forget about what you find annoying and
just enjoy every second you can with your parents! Help them as they
helped you. Life is very short. I will be visiting much more. I will
be paying much more attention. I will be helping much more. JillyB :)"
"I have never been so
moved. Powerful hardly describes it. I have shared this, like so many
others have, with my children. The day will come when they have to
deal with me and my shortcomings. Hopefully, this piece will make it a
bit easier for them. dlk"
"What a message. A
friend sent this to me and I love it. Wonderful Job you did. Praise
God for web sites that help instead of fill your minds with filth."
"This is such a
powerful message that it needs to be proclaimed from the highest
offices of our Government. All children need to view this regularly as
a reminder to love and care for their parents. Our society desires to
put our parents away and no be bothered by them. Christ Jesus puts it
in perspective when he says 'Honor your Father and Mother' in
his word, no less than 8 locations Christ commands up to honor our
Father and Mother."
"My father will be 97
tomorrow. He has just been diagnosed with malignant Mesothelioma. I
take care of him, as we live together. While this was beautiful, it
also depressed the heck out of me."
"The memories that
flooded my mind were of my grandmother who passed away 14 years ago
and to whom I was very close. 'Gran' as I called her, spoke the
same words of being tired and not wanting to live. Of course, I
listened to whatever she needed to say as I always held the utmost
respect for her. Now, even though I do not have that same bond with my
own mother, 71, I am well too aware of where things are heading in her
life. It simply reminds me that no matter what happened in childhood,
your parents do the best that they can to raise their children. And
even though I am aware of that, sometimes it is tough to forgive.
Thanks for helping me to remember what is most important in life!
"At 35 years old and
being a child of three I was raised in Indiana on a country farm where
we had a lot of money but it was not easy for me to be happy at home.
It is only now, that I have understood that even the things my parents
have done and did do that I understand there are things I will never
really know. My parents are only motivated to love and that looks
weird to a child and is hard to grasp in its meaning. But it's there.
Love is always there. Time is how I've learned. This is another face
of grace."
"Thank you so much
for a great job and a wonderful lesson. I am very close with my mother
who is now 92 1/2 and Thank G-D still going strong and I feel truly
blessed."
"A very touching and
excellent, creative piece of work. Bravo! I certainly will buy some
copies for distribution. Loads of thanks."
"Bless you for
thinking of us as we enter our golden years of life. I sent this to my
son who I know will appreciate it very much. You have lifted my spirit
and made me realize that I am still strong and worthy and have a lot
to look forward to. Our face and our body may grow old, but our soul
and spirit are still young. May all children read this and remember
that GOD has given you a precious gift - your mom or your dad."
"This is beautiful. I
have elderly parents and I am the director of an Alzheimer's respite
program. This is beautifully done. Thank you, Jaleyn Dobbs"
"I received this
e-mail from a very special friend of mine and I thought it was the
most beautiful thing I have ever seen."
"This is the most
beautiful piece I have ever seen. It caused me to remember my
Grandmothers in their last years. How I wish this piece had been
available at that time, as I needed to have some support in dealing
with their aging. Now as I am close to 70 years of age I know the time
is coming when my children and grandchildren will need this as a
reference for support. This has been e-mailed to my children and I
hope they appreciate it as much as I do."
"As someone who has
been a caretaker of both my parents for more than 20 years, this
touched me deeply. My Mom is still going at 91. Five years ago I had
to let my father go, with the dignity he wanted. It was the most
difficult time of my life. This presentation made me laugh and it made
me cry, but most of all it put everything into perspective."
"I cried when
viewing, this is the second time I have view it and I am still crying.
My father accidentally died when I was 6 months old. But our mother
did all she could for us. She died at 94 years old, two years ago. My
husband had a stroke at 61 and until this moment, I can still hear my
mother was always wishing my husband good health. We must always
remember our parents no matter what life has given us, they were
always their for us."
"Thank you and I just
want you to know this was the most beautiful and touching thing I have
ever seen or read. Please keep up the good work."
"Ever so moving. God
bless this beautiful message and pray that it touches may hearts."
"I am a nurse and
mother of three and also now have three grand daughters. I owned my
own business for 21 years caring for seniors that were left behind,
alone, ill, or just needed some assistance in order to stay out of
nursing homes and to be allowed to die with dignity. Now I am working
for a fabulous company locally owned, (HomeInstead Senior Care) which
does somewhat the same and I love it."
"We want to send to
all involved in this page a huge thank you. As parents of six
children, seventeen grandchildren and soon to be born great
grandchild, we wish to thank you for helping to tell our family how we
will soon be feeling. We are in our sixty's and know our time is
running out here on earth. The words and music summarize the thoughts
we will wish to convey in the years to come."
"As many of the other
feedback letters I have read, I have never seen a message so real and
touching. I sent it to my 3 children who sometimes just do not
understand how to deal with older parents. We are both in our
seventy's and my husband is in poor health.. so this message may make
them understand that life is not always fair. But everyone will have
to face the uncertainties of old age whatever they may be. It's to bad
that there are not more thing's like this on the internet instead of a
lot of negative message's that we receive everyday.
"This is a very
touchy video! My mother is 89, and still lives at home by herself,
although I do most of her shopping. But, she still loves to get out
and buy things at times, or just go on trips. She does repeat things
at times, but mostly because her hearing is bad, and hearing aids
would not help the problem. But, she has a better memory than I do
about things of yester year - things that happened in her childhood! I
just thank God for every day she's here, and pray she lives a lot
longer, and her mind stays alert until God calls her home."
"This was the most
beautiful thing I've ever seen. The music was so appropriate. I'm 54
and have been disabled since 1999. Many different problems have
attacked my body. I feel estranged from my daughters it makes me cry.
As I type this I am crying so hard. I'll definitely forward this to my
daughters."
"My father just lost
his fight with the ugly battle of Alzheimer's in February. It was such
a blessing to be by his side until that last breathe. He is finally at
peace, so to me, he has won. My tears are for myself alone...for now
he has found joy. I believe it is our responsibility to honor our
parents as they live. Thank you once again for affirming this belief.
It is truly a sign of love when you can let go of someone at that
point in life."
"I have never been so
moved. Within seconds I was brought to tears. My father passed away at
the age of 54 and my mother is now 73. She lives on her own and is
doing great for her age. But your video still touched me and
opened by eyes in more than one way. She is my best friend and I can't
imagine life without her. Your video gave me a new perspective, and I
will try to spend more time with my mom, since we never know what
tomorrow will hold."
"I viewed this video
at work and my sister just called and asked me what I was doing to
which I replied, 'Crying'. My mother is 84 years old and in a
nursing home with dementia and my father just came out of the hospital
after 43 days. He is at home right now with my sister (who came in
from out of town and will be going home soon) and I have been fretting
about how I can work and still take care of my dad. The video was so
moving. It brought me back to reality and what is important. I can
never repay my parents for making me the person I am today. Marie"
"My mother is going
to be 80 this fall. It's amazing how many of us are going through this
with our elderly parents. It helps to know I am not alone. I see her
slowly failing each day and it's hard to watch. I am doing all I can
to make her last days enjoyable. She is not living in her home but in
an assisted living. She is not the type to complain or tell me if she
is happy or not, so I never really know. I beat myself up if I think
about it...am I doing the right thing, can I do more! It's my first
time taking care of an elderly parent like a new parent taking care of
a newborn. I can only do what comes from my heart and hope this is
enough."
"Terrific website.
The only thing I would change is having it signed Mom and Dad as there
are so many out there who do have or don’t see one or the other.
Change it to just read: We love you child."
"I thought it was
corny and poorly executed. I also think it is written to evoke guilty
feelings. Moreover, I wonder why every single bit of feedback that is
less than glowing praise must be accompanied by an argument, ie,
'Webmaster’s Reply'. I think you should just post the feedback and
let the 'movie' speak for itself."
"I didn't care for
the music. I honestly felt it was saying look what I did for you, now
do something for me. I believe all children are aware of what their
parents have done for them. My own family always are thanking me for
all the wonderful years and great life they have had."
"Thank you so much
for this beautiful video. My sister and I are now watching out for our
mother. Thank you so much for showing me that I need to have more
patience, time, and love for her."
"My father was
diagnosed with Pancreatic Cancer. He was given 3-6 months for
survival; however after continuous prayers and believing in Jesus
Christ; he is still alive and with us one year later. In my prayers I
asked that Jesus keep him with us for as long as he can and that I
would cherish every moment with him and not be angry when asked to do
something and understand when he gets upset. I received this email
about 15 minutes ago and I still cannot stop crying. Everything was so
beautifully put and I want to thank you so much for doing something so
special in a world today that ignores feelings. Barbara"
"I lost my father's
father first, then my mother's father, who had Alzheimer's so this
video hit home with me. Then I lost my father's mother. Now all that I
have left is my grandmother. My parents are the best thing in my life,
they have both always been there when I need them, and so I want to do
the same for them. They have had their share of health problems and I
can't bear the day when I loose one or both of them. I love them both
more than they will ever know and I thank God everyday for the
wonderful family that he gave me and hope that my husband and I can
give our daughter the wonderful life that I have had all of these
years. S. Smith, Louisiana"
"Thank you so much
for this. I now realize things that we did towards my grandmother to
help were not helpful at all. I cried all the way thru just thinking
of her and now I know when my parents get to those years what to do
and how to help! Thanks so much!!!!"
"My 97 year old
Mother moved in with my wife and me last August after living alone in
her home for the last 18 years. Now after surviving the first year I
was looking for and needed a kick start to put things back into
prospective and for me to have a different outlook on the situation;
also I needed something to get me on the right track for the remaining
years with my Mother. Thank you very much; this has certainly done it
for me."
"That was such a
touching tribute!"
"Simply beautiful.
Thanks so much for putting this together."
"It was awesome and
very touching. My wife and I are in our late 60's. I appreciate good
e-mail such as yours. Thank you. Vince Provinzano"
"This really touched
my heart. I cry every time I watch it."
"This is absolutely
beautiful. It brings tears to my eyes. I sent it to my 5 children.
Thank you"
"I want to watch this
with my daughter and her husband - what a precious message. I lost my
mother this past February. I was able to be with her the last four
days of her life and care for her just as she had done for me. God
bless you for sharing this."
"This is awesome!!!!!
I'm dealing with my parents in their 80's and it is so true. I will
share this with my friends. Thank you"
"My 83 year old Gramma
has Alzheimer's. It has been so difficult
caring for a Grandmother with Alzheimer's; BUT, like the film says, we
have to remember how Gramma was there for us when WE were babies,
toddlers, small children and even teens. It's now our turn to be there
for her, even though the road seems more difficult for us today than
it was for her so many years ago. SI from Florida/South Carolina"
"As a provider of
home health and geriatric care management services, I can't tell you
how much your slideshow touched me. I have shared it with all of the
staff I work with."
"The best thing I can
ever see on my computer. This presentation is next to the best
possible."
"I lost my mother two
years ago after experiencing everything found in Parent's Wish. It
made me cry. Thank you for sharing."
"Parents prepare the
way for their children because that is the job of a parent. To expect
something in return is not only wrong, but selfish, and in conflict
with the concept of good parenting. If my children are impatient,
preoccupied, or seemingly insensitive, that is the life they choose
for better or worse. We must not expect our children to behave in a
certain way, or exhibit a certain quality, because of what we as
parents did for them when they were young. I love and care for my
elderly mother because my soul bids me to do so; not because she
patiently bathed and fed me – or carried a mail bag a million miles –
when I was a child. "
"Thank you for
letting me have a good cry!"
"This is sappy,
overly sentimental - it borders on fantasy. It is Father Knows Best in
a slide show. Crap"
"I was touched by
your Parents' Wish media presentation. It was sent to me by a friend,
as I am currently sharing a period of grace with my father who
currently is in comfort care at a local nursing home."
"I am not yet as old
as the ones pictured, but at 54, I'm far enough up the mountain to see
the top. Daddy died in January of this year after a couple of years of
dementia, and this clip helped me to grieve healthily. Thanks for the
gift of weeping."
"Maraming salamat
po! (thank you very much ). Truly emotional and touching. It stirs
my heart. It makes me cry. This must be shared by everybody and most
especially to my 4 children who are scattered now all over the world.
Thank you so much and more power to you!!! Emford/Philippines"
"Yes. .I must say it
was 'Lovely'! However, why was God's name not even mentioned?
Might offend someone? Too bad! Pat Lucky! Watertown, Connecticut,"
"I just saw the
slideshow presentation and i was deeply moved by it. I was even crying
while watching the clip. I am a (Filipina) mother of two kids and they
are very young to understand the clip. I hope when the right time
comes they will be able to watch it also to remind them of how we
nourished them to become who and what they are. My father passed away
3 years ago and it reminded me so much of him. Thank you so much for
your time and I hope you'll make more slideshow similar to that."
"I am sometimes
saddened as I watch my 85 year old mother try her best to be cheerful
and cooperative in her daily routine in an assisted living home near
me. She is one of three left of childhood friends, losing one just the
other day. I help her fill out sympathy cards to the family and tell
her how sorry I am that her friend is gone. She bravely straightens up
as best she can and with a tear in her eye says 'It's ok'.
That's life and it is going to be me one day. I cannot fathom life
without her and try my best to give her what she needs physically and
mentally. I only hope she knows how much I love her. Thank you for
this beautiful REMINDER to be patient and understanding. D
Chandler,Oregon"
"My dad is only 62
years old and has had a hard few years. Watching this was hard for me,
but every word of it is true. He's my rock and has taught me so many
things that I will take with me in life. I see my mom taking care of
him and it reminds me so much of the way that she used to take care of
me when I was ill. This actually made me feel a lot better about my
dad getting older. SED"
"Thank you, your
presentation is an eye opener. Having lost my dad on May 3 2005, I
sometimes feel I did not give him enough attention as he lived. But
now I am going to give it to my mother. Praise God….MC Zimbabwe"
"This is an amazing
slide show. It made tears come in my eyes. I have always been loving
and caring towards my parents, though they are still not too old but I
can understand how things are changing a little bit with them, and
through this slide show I have realized it why and how it will change
even more and how the way they have cared and done things for me. I
need to remember that."
"My Mom has
Alzheimer's and has lived with us for a year. It is hard and sometimes
my patience wears thin. This site broke my heart. Thank you. I am
sending it on. Sara"
"It is an outstanding
video that touched my heart to the core. It was sooooooooo beautiful
and brought tears to my eyes. Thank you so much for such a fabulous
contribution to us all."
"The video made me
think of my mother in law who passed away last March 2006 after living
in an assisted-living facility and made me understand all her
frustrations at the times when she could no longer fend for herself. I
am now facing the same type of age-related dilemma with our dad. It is
a lot of work to care for an elderly parent and this video reminds us
of all the sacrifices that our parents made for us and how it is,
indeed, our duty to care for them back, and to remember to do it with
the dignity that they deserve. It has made me feel better to watch the
video and strengthen my resolve in caring for both my parents as they
age. Ophelia from California"
"Without a doubt this
is the most moving and meaningful e-mail I have ever received. I'm
thankful to the person who thought enough of me to send it. I will
forward it on. Thank you for this splendid work and blessings to all
who put it together. Mostly to the one who choose Josh Groban for the
background music, It is perfect. EBC"
"What a wonderful
email. We have taken care of all four parents and I wish I had has
this email at the beginning of caregiving. Thank you for your effort
in making US understand."
"Seeing this short
movie brought tears to my eyes for the wonderful love I have
experienced from my parents and for the moments I have failed to
appreciate them. The best lesson I have learned is that I will be in
their place one day and now I am preparing myself for that. I will
give this film to our loving daughter as a gift so that she will learn
not only to be a much better child, but also a very much better parent
in future. Thanks for those who used their creativity to produce this
film which undoubtedly touches many hearts. Shirantha Perera – Sri
Lanka "
"Thank you for your
support of Parents' Wish! So hearty feeling after having a listen,
reading your post. Try not tear in office, indeed. Thank you so much
for waking my feelings of parents!!! Just share my thoughts with
thanks to you."
"The song and the
slideshow are awe inspiring. Wish I had seen it sooner.. maybe before
my dad became so ill. I miss him still after 3 years. I miss Mum, too
after 18 years. Thank you for saying what we all need to hear."
"I wanted to thank
you for this beautiful page, I am dealing with aging parents right now
and my father tried to commit suicide twice now due to health issues.
I cried all the way through this page and felt a deep sense of
understanding from the author of the words he or she wrote."
June 19, 2006
"This is so touching
i am sending out to everyone i know. Thank you so much for making it
available."
"Outstanding, just
simply outstanding.."
"This is absolutely
beautiful and couldn’t have come at a better time for my family. Thank
you for keeping this important slideshow alive!"
"This is truly
amazing. I have never cried so much. Thank you for making it
available."
"I just wanted to say
I found this very moving. As a Hospice nurse I know and feel these
words daily. Many are lucky to have families that honor these wishes
and many have no one. I have held many hands when there was no one
else there and I so understand the words of not wanting to shower, not
wanting to eat and not being forced as well as wanting to die. We all
just reach a point when we tire out. I wish I could share this with
all the families I serve. Thank you. I lost my own mom recently and
this moved me to tears but I know I was there for her just like she
wanted."
"Thought it was very
thought provoking but got the hint of euthanasia at the end which was
not appropriate to the rest of the piece."
"When I played it I
cried like a baby. I lost my mom when I was 28 and she was only 64 and
now seeing my once-strong dad becoming so frail and forgetful is
heart-breaking. But seeing this made me realize that just being there
for my dad is all that matters and one day I will see both my mom and
dad again in a better place. I just wish I could print it out so that
I could read it and share it with people who do not have computer
access. Thanks again for the tribute to aging parents everywhere."
"A beautiful tribute
and the words mean so much!! I pray many others see this and realize
what a blessing their parents really are."
"The most moving
video since I started using the computer."
"I was very touched
by your slide. I am THERE with my relationship with my mother. My
father passed away 13 years ago. I have two children, raised pretty
much on my own."
"I viewed the
slideshow. Very powerful. I am only 26. My mom died 2 years ago."
"Absolutely touching
and so true. I cried!"
"I saw my parents and
my in-laws in your words! Those words, combined with the song will
live with me forever! Thank you."
"Excellent slideshow.
Everyone should watch it. Thank you for a wonderful and emotional
production."
"This was so touching
for me as I've just lost both of my parents recently and it was as if
they were talking to me from beyond. Thank you."
"This is very
beautifully presented. I would like to know the name of the tenor
singing this old song?"
[Webmaster's note: His
name is Josh Groban and you can buy his record by clicking on the link
to his website above.]
"Only after listening
to this the fifth time did my eyes dry enough for me to see well
enough to write you a great big GOD BLESS YOU. This is the most heart
warming E-mail I have ever received. Thanks for sharing it with the
internet."
"My son and I watched
this video together...we cried. Thank you for doing this most touching
video.. it will help everyone who sees it."
"I own a homecare
business along with residential care homes. Your Parents' Wish is
WONDERFUL and I would like to share it when we have seminars wherein
we have a booth. It says so much that is of such value...and
Josh Grogan is absolutely the best with the song he sings."
"It really made me
emotional...very very awesome..."
"My brother sent this
with a note saying: 'You cannot watch this without crying'. He
knows me well. I had to pause it just to read and hear without tears.
We have just currently found a new home for our mother in a skilled
nursing facility, and this site has helped me to know how to treat and
respect her so much better...and to remember all of this that she
was/is to me."
"I am now primary
care giver for my 80 year old father. He moved in with me about 6
months ago and your slide show means more to me than you know. And it
is a good reminder for me to have more patience, love and
understanding with my father. I am thankful to have him here. Thanks
for putting this out there."
"This hit so close to
me at this time as I am caring for my 91 yr old father and lost my
mother 5 years ago. Bless you for putting this together."
"Unbelievably
beautiful and so true. Thank you. Sandra Jung"
"I am a registered
nurse who works with the elderly in home health care. This lovely
presentation would be an asset during some of my health clinic
seminars."
"This was awesome!!!
A tear-jerker and an eye opener. Thanks."
"How gratifying and
loving. I a married to a man 25 years older than me, hence, he is
aging at age 76. I felt the words dance off of the screen and into my
heart as I continue to help him convalesce from back surgery and live
our days together lovingly."
"As an active
'senior' I know that the time will be here before I know it that
the message from your video will apply to me. As tears flowed from my
eyes, I managed to forward this beautiful enlightening message to my
children. I only wish every child could have access to this video.
Thank you."
"Today is my son's
25th birthday. It is awesome how God takes care of our needs in ways
we don't expect. I will not be with my son today, but as I read and
listened to this amazing gift from God I was blessed. I cried as I
watched and celebrated my son's birthday with memories just like the
words and slide show was playing. I watched our son become the man who
was there for his Dad. I know he will be there for me. cjfirst
Oklahoma"
"Truly, this is a
work blessed and authorized by God's Holy Spirit. I am now and for
most of my life have been 'at odds' with my mother and her with
me. The only thing that we can seem to agree on is that staying out of
communication is the only way to get along; we have not spoken for
several years. This project has helped 'chip' some of the ice
away from my perspective, and hopefully, it will help bring me and my
children closer together. Of course, I sent this to them in hopes that
they would gain further insight to what I have done for them during
their lives. I am a Christian musician who would like to especially
thank Josh for his continued commitment to God thru music."
"From the first
words, my eyes started to well with tears. My Dad passed away three
years ago, August 22. With yesterday being father's day, another
difficult milestone to overcome. Thoug I am not a parent I can
understand the the feelings and realize what my parents did and wanted
for me to become. Thank you to the special soul who created this...it
moved my heart, my soul."
"Parent's Wish is
such a great movie, that I email it to all my friends. Thanks so much
for it."
"It brought tears to
my eyes as I read the poem while listening to the song! It took me
back into the past and I had thoughts of my kids, my parent, my
grandparent and even great grandparents. I thought of many friends
that have gone on and many friends that I wanted to share this with.
You are to be applauded for such a powerful and touching poem video.
Sharon from Independence, Missouri (USA)"
"Inspiring,
enlightening, touching, amazing, eye opening. What a beautiful,
beautiful piece. Everyone should hear and see this, and then be
touched by it. We'd all be better people for it. "
"I lost my Daddy
years ago and I’ve long since dealt with that loss. However, I lost my
wonderful husband (age 73) this past December. He was 22 years older
than me and I always knew that I would probably face this day but that
didn’t make the loss any less. I miss him everyday, I see him in
everything around me and I do love him so. This video does deal with a
lot of issues that we all must face, I see Bill in much of it and I
can hear his message to myself and our children."
"I too cried during
this presentation of Parents' Wish. I am sending it to my
friends and also to our only daughter. Thank you for allowing me to
view your work. CHW"
"My dad has passed on
and is very missed. My mom is 89 and starting to lose some of the
strength that we all have relied on for love and guidance. This
beautiful piece has touched a place in my heart that has been aware of
time's passing for quite a while. Thank you to all involved in
creating such a wonderful way to remind us of what our elderly are
experiencing."
"Thank you so much
for this touching piece! I cried."
"Thank you for
opening not only my eyes, but the thousands who will view this in the
near future."
"WOW! You were
reading our minds- ages 70 and 72. We have forwarded it to all six of
our children and their families. The pictures were so wonderful. Any
thought of putting it into book form? I know it’s the time of great
technology, but it would be a great reminder for families to have it
on the coffee table when the families gather. Thanks so much for this
exquisite, heart-warming, yet 'our thoughts exactly'
presentation."
"Your beautiful
production touched me deeply. It reminded me that, no matter how
devoted we think we are and how 'good' we perceive ourselves to
be, temporary impatience, judgment and fear are the foundation of all
intolerance. Your production truly captures the beauty, wisdom and
spirituality of old age. It teaches us to see our human life as God
does: with infinite patience, love and gratitude. You have given us an
insight that we sometimes forget or deny, from our vantage point. Soon
enough, we will be our parents. Time passes, and old age and death are
inevitable. Only respect, kindness, tolerance and understanding are
timeless."
"Parents' Wish was
very touching. I received it on Father's day right after we had my
father-in-law for lunch. He is 91 years old and getting very frail in
mind and body. It kinda put things in perspective for me. Thank You."
"There have been
times when I had to say good bye to loved ones and let them know it
was OK to go. They are always in my heart and the memories are
forever. I have tried to pass this on to others when they were having
a hard time letting go. Go with God and go in peace with love."
"My Mother-in-law
passed away in 2004 form Alzheimer's. The words written with the
pictures are so very true. We have to spend as much time as possible
with those we love because we never know when time will end. Very
moving and profound. Would like to see it used with teaching patience
and understanding of the older population. Younger people do not
realize what life is all about. Today we seem to be worried about just
me. Take time to smell the roses and spend as much time as possible
with those you love. Thanks Sue"
"Thank you for a very
realistic, touching video."
"This was a reminder
to me of how our parents had such an impact on our lives. I thank God
for the time they shared, cared and what they invested in me. Now the
roles have changed and we take care of our mother today who is now 88
years old. She is feeble but still displays some of the same
characteristics she had when she was up and on her feet. I guess you
could say that she still let us know that she is still in charge! May
God bless you for giving us this reminder to cherish and take care of
our parents. Thank you Carla.
"When I received this
from a friend and viewed it all I could was to cry for hours. I lost
my Mother and Special Friend last year and it was a sudden loss so I
have been having a hard time coping with her loss. This reminded me of
some of the things that Mum would do and I could hear her as I was
reading it. The person who came up with this did me a special favor by
reminding me of the every day things about my Mum. Thank you so much.
Alicia"
"My sister, brothers
and I are in the process of taking care of our 81 year old father and
76 year old mother. It is very hard to see them becoming frail and so
dependent after all the years of their strength and steadfastness for
us. Thank you, thank you for this wonderful piece. It helps make
things easier to understand and be more patient. I am sending this to
all my friends and family because we are all becoming the caretakers
and this is so helpful!! GOD Bless!! M. Carter, Georgia"
"Loved the slideshow,
was very touching and speaks well for the older generation."
"I had determined
that I wasn't going to get depressed and come to the acceptance that
my deceased parents are in a better place. My father transition from
life fighting heart disease and my mother of lymphoma. Those last
years as their caregiver was difficult and I look back on the good
things. Your video brought such tears of love and reminds me of all
that times of being there for them to do as they had done for me. We
do this so someone will be there for us when it becomes our time. Pass
It On! Their loving Son ....Edward in Atlanta Georgia"
"I loved your
slideshow. I cry everytime I watch it. I have lost both my parent's
but I would love to have a copy for my own children."
"I have work in a
Skilled Nursing Facility for the past 21 years. This was one of the
neatest things I’ve ever seen in regards to the aging process. It
really helps to give an understanding to people that as we age, we too
need more assistance just like children do when they are young. I
really would like to have a copy of this to share with my staff."
"Thank you for that.
it was incredibly moving and so very true...I am 33 years old and my
parents are still young, however, I can understand the meaning of the
video, as I have children as well. I hope to be as strong as the words
of what I just watched, and I hope to teach my children as well as my
parents did, to feel the same way that I do about reaching that moment
in our lives."
"This is so moving.
Each time I watch it, it brings tears to my eyes."
"Thanks a million for
the loving REMINDER - and how a great many of us take our parents'
love for granted! No doubt this video was put together from the bottom
of your heart and most heartwarming for the viewers. Definitely this
will make a world of difference to our world as our unconditional love
for each of our aging parents ripples out and turns it into a world of
heartfelt love which our Heavenly Father has meant it to be! Dorothy"
"It's truly an eye
opener, it made me realize that my time with my parents isn't gonna be
forever, and that I should spend more time and do something with them
that will make them happy and make them realize and say 'I have a
great son and my only regret when I die is that I can no longer be
with him...'"
"Thank you so much
for posting this beautiful video! I'm not a sentimental person but
this brought tears to my eyes. I've lost my mother and grandmother and
up to this day I can't forgive myself for not giving them enough love
and attention. If only I knew then what I know now. Maybe this video
will help people to truly appreciate their loved ones as life is way
too short. Thank you so much! Kat"
"It is unfortunate
that I had not received this message 8 years ago before my parents
passed away. My impatience was not awe inspiring and is something that
has caused me more than a few painful moments and regrets. Thank You
for this most powerful message. Darryl"
June 18, 2006
"Hi I received this
in my email from my little brother the day before my son's 22nd
birthday. My son was killed in an accident. I also lost my 63 yr old
mother to cancer. I was not sure who it was meant for so I took it as
both. I added it to my son's web site on his birthday page."
"This is a beautiful
movie!! What a treasure. Thank you for putting all this time and
effort into something so many people enjoy."
"I just want to say
that this is one of the greatest emails I have ever received in the
last six years that I have had my computer. I will cherish this
forever and Josh Groban is one of my favorite singers. Thank you so
much. Giovanna"
"That was a real tear
jerker. Hope my married kids could read this. I cried all through it.
Thanks! Someone really shared their hearts and I couldn't have written
it better!! We are only 56 and 62 but we see it coming."
"This is very
touching. I took care of my mom before she was taken from me. I only
wish I had done more for her. However I do not think we should take
matters in our hands as for as when we should leave this old world. We
should wait on the Lord to decide that. Jean, SC"
"With this letter to
families all over the world, our three generations of family is tied
together with that same message of love and respect to all. This is a
testament to the meaning of all families and brought tears of hope,
love, and respect for my parents, grandparents, and great grandparents
that I am fortunate to be around and look forward to caring for them
even more as they cared for all their young ones".
"That was a beautiful
slide show. Very touching. A good friend sent it to me and I watched
it, and I plan on sending It to my 2 children. We lost a precious son
in December 05 from pancreative cancer."
"I take care of the
elderly and this just broke my heart. I see this in my people
everyday. Thank you for the showing of something as wonderful as this.
God bless. Treasa in Iowa"
"As a widower, I
regret you chose to end the beautiful message with Mom and Dad."
"I am at an age where
I can see this happening to me. I remember it happening to my parents.
Thank you. It could not have come to me at a better time... Father's
Day. Jean"
"Beautiful words.
Every nursing home worker and caregiver should watch it. My Daddy
spent about four years in the nursing home and on this Father's Day
your Parents' Wish brought back so many memories. It is so sweet to
remember him. He went home to be with the Lord in 1999 at 87. My
Mother is 92 and she is traveling that same road. Oh if we could
memorize the words to Parents' Wish so we could help them to smile
more and enjoy the days they have left. God has Blessed me with lots
of years with my parents and I thank you for helping me to see just
how Special they really are. E. Seay"
"My husband's mom had
Alzheimer's and lived with us for 2 years before being put in a
special needs home. Looking after her was the most trying time of my
life. All these things hit my heart - even though she was my
mother-in-law. The 3 other siblings visited only once - not enough to
see the deterioration that rapidly took place in a short 10 months
after being placed in special care. It came as a shock. They had no
frame of reference - but as for me -I very quickly became aware of my
own limits and patience. I grew as an individual - and now can easily
relate to anyone in this situation. My heartfelt thanks to all who
were involved in the making. My tears were many."
"This is an
incredibly touching and a message needed to be spread widely. Thanks
for producing it. A French"
"A wonderful video.
I've just lost my 76 years old dad, and this helped me express my
grief and my thoughts. Keep up the good work...Montreal, Canada"
"Wow! This is so
beautiful and so real. It truly brought tears to my eyes as I am
presently, with the help of my wonderful husband, taking care of my
parents that have both been diagnosed with dementia. The reality of it
is that we (the children) must truly understand and remember all that
they (our parents) have done for us and be willing to give back to
them without reservation for as long as we possibly can."
"I have been so very
touched by this wonderful PARENT'S WISH which I have received today,
coincidentally on Father's day. It especially made me think of my mom
who is alive and I truly do sometimes loose patience. I will now not
cut her so short and be more caring as the email says, they did try
their best for their children. It applies to everyone. And also
reminds us they deserve to have the patience they gave us when we were
small. I appreciate so much receiving this. Oh my goodness, it really
hits home. cgs"
"I couldn’t keep from
having a tear come to my eyes as I watched this. Thank you for the
chance to view this. How true this film really is about our parents.
Sometime we as children don’t stop and take the time to really
appreciate the thing our parents really do for us as we grow up. Once
again thank you for this short film."
"So very beautiful.
My mother has Alzheimer's and is living with the two of us. We have
tried so many things to get her in the shower. Now I understand. I did
not want to shower when I was a child either. Thank you. You will be
blessed as this goes around the world. Carol Stavlo, McKInney Texas"
"I will pray God will
give a special blessing to all the minds, hearts and souls who created
this masterpiece. I was a little ashamed for my tears while viewing &
listening until I read most of the 'feed backs'. May God bless
you all. Lyrad Sivad"
"This is an amazing
movie. I really enjoyed it it makes me cry. I love my parents so very
much and I miss my Dad everyday. Whoever did this they are very kind
and wonderful people. Thank you Katherine MacArthur from California"
"Thank you so much
for such a beautiful tribute to children of ALL AGES concerning their
parents.! I am crying as I write this, it is that moving. I still have
my Dad with me and I will make sure he has all the dignity and care
when he is unable to do for himself. I love him and owe him that much!
I have also sent this to many of my friends. But most importantly, my
sons. I have this kept in my favorites. I hope I have it forever! God
Bless You, Terry =)"
"I have to wonder.
Whose wish really? Every thought expressed was so incredibly
appropriate, and heartwarming EXCEPT the ones promoting euthanasia. My
parents did all the things mentioned and apparently so much more. They
taught me that life is precious and that only God determines our days
on earth. My prayer is that I will have the same patience and
tolerance, respect for life and reverence to God that my parents
taught me as a child and that I will be blessed to be given the
opportunity to repay them for the care they gave me when I could not
care for myself."
"That was very moving
and so true. We all must face our mortality and as parents we will one
last time lead the way. The presentation expresses what has been and
will be for all of us in a perfect world. Mine is close to perfect and
I feel blessed that it is so. I will send this to my daughter when the
time is right. Sadly, my son has already gone ahead, and I look
forward with joy and faith to the time I will see him again in
Heaven."
"Thank you ever so
much, it is so true and beautiful. I would say it has brought 'A
Tear to many eyes'. I have sent this to all of my children."
"The most awesome
slide show I have ever seen!! My husband and I have lost both of our
mothers in the last 6 years, both in their 80's. This is the most
beautiful tribute to parents that will be shared with everyone I know.
Thanks to all involved in the making of this slide show.. L.C."
"How wonderful, how
absolutely wonderful and how very understanding."
"How I wish I had my
parents back!! I can remember getting a bit impatient with their slow
ways, their repetition of stories and their indecision. I know they're
watching me from heaven so I tell them everyday how much I love them
and how sorry I am that I didn't take more time with them. After all,
what was the hurry!!! I'm sending this to my son and hope he will
understand."
"Just a message to
say Thank You for what is a truly heart warming slide show. well done
to all those involved. I think it really lets us know how important
our parents are to us all."
"I just wanted to say
thank you for that. It was truly amazing and beautiful. The song fit
perfectly!!! I was in tears from the beginning. I thought of not just
my parents, but more of my grandparents. It is truly amazing and
wonderful! Thank you! Jerianne Bateman, North Vernon, Indiana, USA"
"Thank you so much
for such a beautiful and heart felt piece. I thoroughly enjoyed it. I
am sending it to my two children who are very much in denial that my
husband and I are reaching our later years. I truly hope it speaks to
them the way it did to me. May God Bless you in all that you do. Pat
Patterson"
"Oh my God!!!! That
was so incredibly moving. It touched me in more ways than you will
ever know. Thank you for this inspiring and heart felt show of
affection in this cold world. THANKYOU.!!!!!!!!"
"I just wanted to
THANK YOU for making this available on line. A friend sent it to me
and it sure says it all! I am a senior and still remember my parents
with such love and admiration. I wish there had been something like
this around at the time of their passing. Family and sentiments like
you offer, are really ALL that is important in life in the final
scheme of things. Good luck to you and your endeavours".
"My mother died in
July 2004 at 99 yrs and 10 mos. She lived with me 17 years and it was
a blessing to me, and I hope that I was to her. Do not treat your
parents like they are children; that is very degrading. Be kind, for
your children are watching how you treat your parents. What are they
learning from YOU? Whatever they learn is how you will be treated in
your old age. Long time caregiver."
"Absolutely beautiful
- I will be saving this and replaying it when I need a reminder. It's
incredibly hard to accept the role changes that come with your parents
aging and this couldn't be a better way to gently remind you of who
your parent once was to you and what they need from you now. Thank
you, Tracy - B.C., Canada"
"If there were a way
for every one to see this tribute to parents and grandparents,
adoptive and foster, it should be done. Not every one has a computer
nor access to one. This is a very beautiful tribute and I am a mom
that needs help and gets it from a daughter that is physically
challenged and she also works full time. I can not thank you enough
for sharing this with all of us that are lucky enough to see this.
Thank you, from the bottom of my heart. Sincerely, Diana D"
My Mother had a
stroke March of 2005, She no longer can walk, her speech is slurred
and she no longer can control her bladder. She is still at home with
the help of her family thank God. This slide show makes me be thankful
for her care as I was growing up."
"It was very
heartwarming and emotional. Made me think more about my aging parents.
I cried everytime I watched the video. I just hope my children feel
the same about it as I did and brings us closer."
"Absolutely wonderful
especially read this on Father's Day. Having my 89 year old father,
who has had a stoke, is living with us. Amazing how I can watch my
three grand babies under 3 years of age and tell their mommies to be
patient with them. Thank you."
"I am a home hospice
nurse, and I regularly work with older parents being cared for with
love and dignity by their children. This video brought me to tears,
because it described so perfectly what aging, dying people are
feeling. When I am able to get a CD of this, I will be showing it to
my fellow hospice nurses and to the families of my patients. Thank you
for putting this together, and for helping all of us be aware of the
needs of the older people around us. Suzanne Land"
"This a beautiful
testimony to parents. I would find it even more appealing if the film
itself was minus the volume info on the left side of the screen. Keep
up the good work."
"I am sharing with
you my letter to my 3 sons: Thank you for the Father gift you all gave
me today (a lawn mower) and when the time comes that I can not use
this gift, not because I do not want to but because I can't. One wish
is that I hope one of you will guide your gift to what it's meant for.
I LOVE YOU ... DAD"
"That was not only
true but so beautiful!!!!!!!!!! Thank you."
"At this time my
sister and I need to be patient with my Dad. This is truly a reminder
of how we should want to enjoy the golden years of our lives
surrounded by the patience and love of family. Thank you for this
awesome movie. It brings back wonderful memories and feelings that
often get put aside. Love is a wonderful thing and expressed perfectly
in Parents' Wish. Dee"
"I am still crying
from watching your video. It is awesome."
"Thank you for
reminding me - as we grow we forget. Every day i take 5 minutes to
call my mum and tell her I love her. She made me who I am - I hope I
always remember to give her the support she needs when the time comes
that she does. L . London"
"My greatest regret
was loosing close contact with my kids after my divorce. My
relationship with my son and daughter has suffered and although we
stay in contact often, it will take me a lifetime I think to get my
kids, especially my son to understand the divorce and re-establish a
truly meaningful relationship. So, as I say....you only go
around the planet one time, and I plan on making the best of it. Joel
Hendelman"
"Beautiful.. had me
sobbing hysterically. My Mom is going through late stage Parkinson's
and every one of those issues/concerns is amplified 1,000 times but
also is 1,000 times harder to stay loving when they need it most. I'm
a big tough guy who doesn't cry very much... so I'm even more affected
by the effect and power of the ode."
"My younger sister
forwarded this on to me and as we lost our Dad six months ago it
bought back so many memories for us as the words described him so
well. I have forwarded it on to my four boys and their families in the
hope it will touch them as it has done me. I often sit and let the
tears flow and remember !! Lynne Swift, New Zealand"
"I love the video! My
kids are only young and couldn't appreciate that yet, but I would love
to have that on video and maybe get a few copies for various educators
who would love something like that as a gift."
"This made me quite
sad but I loved it all nevertheless. The words are so true, I believe
and I just love that song by Josh Groban. Thanks!"
"This is the best
thing that has ever come across my e mail. I cried and I cried. I have
lost both my parents and now my husbands mom's just said the other
day: she wish God would take her, as she hurts so much. We both cried
when viewing this. But it helps us to understand more. Thank You so
very much for sharing this with so many."
"I'm sickened by the
feedback from the person who said this was the worst video and all it
expresses is guilt. This negative response supposedly was written by a
parent! Well maybe they were selfish as a parent and raised their
children that way. That's the only reason I can come up with as far as
this ignorant person stating that this is just a ‘guilt trip’!
I hope that in their hour of need that maybe their children can forget
what a selfish person their parent was raising them and open their
heart and be there for them! If not then I say the person who wrote
this negative response to the video deserves whatever life deals
them!"
"I manage a
retirement village in Christchurch, New Zealand. I wish I could show
your email on a very large screen to all our relatives and
caregivers!! I would like to see it in poster or book form. I loved
it. Thank you."
"My Mom passed not
too long ago and the beauty of this, can hardly express myself, tears
in my eyes and unable to speak. She died in a nursing home and
could barely do anything for herself. I helped her eat, groom
herself, dress etc. I could never give back all she gave me but, I did
a little and I want to honor her for the Godly woman she was and
continue to give of myself to others as she did all her life. Bonnie"
"This beautiful video
is so very true. I don't know how many more years I will have with my
MOM so I want to spend every moment I can with her. She is my rock and
I love her so very much. I don't hesitate to call her 3-4 times a
week. My younger sister has a lot on her shoulders with MOM but she
doesn't mind at all. Like the video said. MOM took care of us when we
were young... now it's time for us to take care of MOM. Jackie Bowman,
Wichita, KS"
"Frankly, I have seen
so much death, pain and suffering, that my parents deaths, 2 months
apart was a gift. I have too much to say. This message brought no
tears to my eyes, no satisfaction, but still I grieve for those lost
souls that hade nobody
"I just wanted to let
you know that we are going through this right now with my
mother-in-law. She is 91 and her memory is going, she has to have help
dressing and so on. We know how true this is. Thank-you for such a
beautiful song with the pictures. It is so true and hits close to
home."
"My parents are in
their late 80's and still living in the house that has been their home
for 60 years. Their health has been fading fast the past few months. I
know that trying to keep them in their home is the right thing to do.
It's hard since I live 45 miles away. Many trips and lots of hard work
when I get there. It really helped to hear the words in the music and
slide show. I don't hear them from my parents, but I see them in their
eyes when I get there. Thank you for putting this together."
June 17, 2006
"A long time friend
sent your video and I immediately followed it to our three sons. My
husband is nearly 88 and me 83. I was deeply touched and want to let
you know how this video is dearly appreciated. Many many thanks."
"I wish I could save
this in a CD so that my children can view this even when I'm gone. I'm
only 32 but I am sick that I don't think I'll ever see my children
grow. I have two kids. It's too early for me to tell them about the
parents wish. This message for me is not just about dying but implying
the cycle of life. Everything featured here is true. Good work."
"Let me tell you this
was one of the most wonderful things I have seen and heard on the
Internet in almost 5 years of my being on it. It touched me so because
I have a mother that will be turning 94 on July 29th, and watching the
movie and reading the script it was so much of who my mother is today.
She raised 11 children and did such a wonderful job, and now she is in
the twilight of her life and we are having to care for her, and
understand her. This piece helped me do that more than you could
understand. It touched my heart and my soul. June Maule"
"Absolutely amazing
in its truth and sincerity. Sadness was covered over by beauty and
love... what a wonderful tribute to parents everywhere, Thanks, Mrs.
J. Donaldson, ptL"
"This was totally
AWESOME!!! Whom ever put this together was really blessed by God.
Thanks, Jerry Stoute"
"Your presentation
surely is poignant and touching."
"Thank you for
sharing your beautiful and touching Parent's Wish. It brought tears to
my eyes."
"From the moments it
started, I cried and thought of my own parents. The words are so true
and I'm so glad that I took care of my own parents. If only everybody
could view these pictures and words this world would be a better place
because we'll all be there someday ourselves. Thank you for sharing
those precious thoughts."
"I cried all thru the
movie. I loved it."
"This is such an
overwhelming song and the way you slide the notes in is super. I think
from reading your message that you are a super-analyst! Thank you so
much."
"Wow! This video is
so overwhelming, I have passed this onto my older kids, cause my older
kids are very selfish and self centered with no appreciation of me
what so ever. I love my older kids dearly but they think they know it
all. I hope this video will inspire them to realize they wouldn't be
anything with-out us parents. Thank you so much! This video is A+++++
From a Fathers Heart who needed a pick me up and the video did just
that... Edward HIll Jr (UpState NY) "
"I lost my mother to
cancer only 4 weeks ago and a very good friend just sent me this. I
admit it made me cry but i feel so much better for it. Thank you."
"Awesome Awesome.
This came to me on a day I was feeling kinda alone. It reminded me
that I am not alone. Tears of sadness and join as I listened and read
along. I will save it for as long as I am here and when I get a moment
of loneliness I will listen to it again and again. TY "
"Thank you for such a
true to life slide show. At this time my mom is 90 and is just waiting
to go and when she tells me I can't help but hoping for her wishes.
She wants to go home and be with my dad and brother and her family. I
know when the day does come, I will miss her terribly but I intend to
keep this on my computer so that I may listen to it time and again.
Judith LaHaye"
"My Mother is 78 and
at times I find myself impatient with her forgetfulness, or having to
explain things to her over and over. This reminded me of the patience
and love she had for me and my 3 sisters when we were children growing
into adulthood. She relies on us now and I am grateful that I am able
to be there for her. After having viewed the movie, I have a new
respect and appreciation for her."
"I work in Oakland CA
at Salem Lutheran Home and my day was going so unblessed and negative
until my D.O.N bought this to my attention and just this moment with
my co worker. I realized how I make a difference in the lives in
our residents. I can truly say I love what I do and what I am."
"This was both
touching and emotional, since I am now in the beginning stages of all
this with my Mom. I tell her almost every day let me help you the way
you helped me and be glad you have family and people who love you and
want to help. The only issue I have with this e-mail is I would love
to send it to my daughter but I cannot. Her Dad disappeared when she
was eleven and we do not know if he is alive or gone. It made me cry
but it was a good cry since I related to every frame and every word.
Sandi"
"I am so impressed by
this beautiful video. I've sent it to my family members and friends.
Patty R"
"It's interesting.
But it takes for granted that your parents did do all those things
mentioned. And mine, er, didn't. Doesn't mean I don't love them or I
wouldn't help them –of course I would. But it kind of sentimentalizes
parenthood a little, and I for one saw my childhood as a time of fear
and pain. So if I were to treat my parents the same way they treated
me during childhood, I don't think the makers of the video would
really advocate that!"
"I have mixed
emotions. Are we telling our kids that they owe us because we raised
them? I think that in this society today, we have forgotten the
meaning of family. We've moved all over the country, away from each
other, gotten on with our lives and really don't care about the
responsibilities we have as the member of a loving, family group. Or
is it that we don't have loving, family groups anymore? Have we raised
such independent children that they don't feel the need to care about
their 'responsibilities'?"
"This was incredibly
beautiful and moving. ~~ cried throughout the whole piece ~~ sent it
to my whole family and friends ~~Are there any other pieces
available?"
"This is one of my
favorites. I'd love this for any day of the year, for a funeral,
wedding, or Spiritual B-day any Sunday would be WONDERFUL!! Thank you,
Vicky V. N. FONTENOT"
"This is beautiful.
My mother sent it to me, and it brought tears to my eyes. I have since
sent it on to all of my kids. Thank you for making such a beautiful
page. Cindy Wells"
"Beautiful and
touching. I lost my husband 2 years ago (he was the love of my life).
I sent it to my son even though it said 'Mom and Dad'. In our
hearts, we feel he is still with us. So far I've watched it about 10
times. THANK YOU!"
"What an inspiring
piece. My mother is 89 and in a rest home and you have hit on every
single thing that we have gone through in the last 3 years. They have
earned the right to eat what they please and be remembered for all the
things they did for us growing up. Thanks for the reminder."
"Frankly, this 'side
show' is without doubt another morbid commentary on our culture.
Where exactly can we perceive loving parents who simply want love,
affection and care in return? Instead, it can only be perceived as
tyrannical monarchs seeking self-righteous demands due them. What is
conveyed in this show is unfortunately aberrant behavior by parents."
"I felt the song and
photos were lovely, and I appreciate all the effort, but the message
was lost on me. After reading some feedback, I had to ask myself why
that was. Well, I guess I feel NO guilt. I've always been a part of my
Mom's life. I love her immensely and always will.. and SHE was ALWAYS
a part of her Mom's life. We've never had to be brow-beaten into
loving each other. I will say this: If there are people out there that
are lacking conscience, compassion, and have somehow become
desensitized to the feelings and needs of ALL our fellow humans and
furry creatures, then this video might have a chance to wake them up.
Fortunately, I'm very much awake and so is my Mom and so was my
Grandmother."
"Wow....the tears are
still flowing.......words we all wish we could express to our
children......thank you. Diana"
"I just viewed the
Parents' Wish and was most deeply touched. I lost my father less than
two weeks ago at the age of 81. So much of the poem hit home, not
wanting to bathe or eat, it took too much energy. For my Dad just
breathing was a chore. He asked several time why he could not just die
but God had a different plan. I take great comfort in knowing that he
is now at peace. The song 'You Raise Me Up" is a favorite, as is Josh
Groban, and would always bring a tear to my eye. I will never hear
that song again without thinking of the poem and my father - and I
will cry! God definitely has touched everyone involved in creating
this most poignant video. God bless you all!! LE."
"I have been on the
path to care for my mom for almost 10 years and even more now than
before. I am a Personal Care Attendant for my mother and that means
that I go to her home and take care of her. I have taken care of other
people too but taking care of my own mother has made life more
meaningful to me. I whole heartedly hope that I am setting an example
for my 2 children to see that life does come full circle. We may not
know when or where but it does. I hope and pray that someday no matter
what happens between my son and daughter and myself that my example
since they have been born will show them the way."
"I was deeply moved
not just to tears but sobs, knowing that my own mother who is 88 and
in great shape (still driving, etc.), will someday, hopefully not to
soon, will be in the category of 'elderly' and needing more and
more help. I pray I have the strength to endure without to many tears.
Lynanne"
"My father is
deceased and my mother is 81 years old. I spent yesterday crying and
fretting about her because she is not taking care of herself the way I
think she should. Today I got this e-mail and I am not even sure who
it was from. I cried the entire time it played and will now go and
give my mother a great big hug and kiss and help her however I can
until she is no longer with us. Thank you to whoever started this."
"The presentation
touched my heart both as a daughter and a mother. I sent the site to
20 people that I knew would learn and appreciate it as much as I did.
My mom is 99 and in a health care facility. I volunteer there seven
days a week, 11:00-1:00 and am given more than I receive. I understand
now what the elderly go through."
"I thought this was
AWESOME. The music went perfect with the movie. It made me cry. But I
hope my children remember, when I get old. And I hope to have the
patience of a saint if my mom ever gets to where she needs me in that
way. Teresa Kessinger, Bradenton FL"
"This is absolutely
beautiful and so meaningful. Thank you for your commitment to meaning
in life and families."
"Immensely powerful.
I have seen it 5 times now, and still tear up every time. I have sent
this to everyone i know, whether they have children or not. And, mot
only is the message powerful, but the Josh Groban music really drives
the feelings home. Thank you. Steve Rayman"
"After hearing this
it brought back many memories and tears to my eyes because of so many
children that forgot their parents in nursing homes and even to call
to say hello how are you doing. They forget all the things we did for
them out of love. Every time they fell we were there to pick them up.
They reach the top and forget where they came from. Thank you for
this. Robert."
"I would first like
to congratulate you on the outstanding vision you had in providing
this slide show to the world!"
"What a wonderful and
powerful message your presentation puts forth. My husband and I are
lucky to have two children who understand this already. There are
millions more who need to be reminded and to understand. Thank you so
much for your hard work. Della Cook"
"Thank you for
showing me a different perspective that I had never thought about
before. Shame on me for not recognizing it on my own. Grace to you for
helping me. Julie, Windsor, Colorado"
"I am caring for my
husband who suffers from dementia. It is just the two of us, we have
no one else with us or coming into the home on a regular basis. I
cannot tell you how much this has touched me, I will keep it on the
computer and listen to it daily if need be to help me get through
tough times and to help me not feel sorry for myself. This certainly
is not just for parents to children, it touches so many other aspects
of life. THANK YOU."
"This was sent to me
tonight and I so wish my Dad was alive to share it with him on
Father's Day. Somehow I feel he knows and that we did share it
together tonight."
"A retired KY State
Trooper in his late seventies sent this to me having received it from
his son. This is so precious and I'm passing this salt, truth, and
light on to others. My dear Mother in Law who we called Memo stepped
into eternity in her eighties several years ago used to say, 'Once
a man, twice a child.'"
"I sit here in tears
as I have just heard/read this very touching piece. Words alone cannot
describe the emotions that this brought to my heart, as my dear mother
suffers with a condition known as hypertension dementia, a condition
whereby we see her lucid from minute to minute, and then, not lucid
for several minutes. The words expressed in this wonderful passage,
accompanied by the wonderful Josh Groban's 'You Raise Me Up',
could not be more appropriate for both those that are suffering, and
those that are tending to their parents. Thank you from the bottom of
my heart for creating such an inspiring, soul-touching moment, one
that I shall play over and over again, and share with many of my
closest friends. Paula Reid"
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